37 of 37 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Felt more luke warm to me..., August 1, 2005
This review is from: Red Hot Tantra: Erotic Secrets of Red Tantra for Intimate, Soul-to-Soul Sex and Ecstatic, Enlightened Orgasms (Paperback)
I'm sorry to say, I appreciated the idea behind this book much more than the book itself. Introducing tantric techniques to readers through the tantalizing medium of erotica, followed by a down-to-earth explaination really is a great idea. I think it's a perfect approach for teaching a subject that is so often blurred with excess dogma and rigid guidelines. I had high hopes when I purchased my copy of this book.
Unfortunately, once I bought it, I realized this book is not the balanced introduction to Tantric practice mixed with some spicy erotica that I thought it would be. It's essentially geared towards women, and the instruction in each chapter is almost an after-thought. Although there is plenty for couples to do, and a great deal of encouragement for women, there is little written to inspire men in what their bodies can achieve through tantra or what they can share with a partner.
In fact, right from the introduction, the author seems to discourage men from seeking anything more than the typical ejaculatory orgasm. He actually states that while it's impressive that a man can achieve "the female extended orgasm" he asks "what's the point?"
Well, as a man who learned how to enjoy extended multiple orgasms years ago, I could easily write a book of my own answering Mr. Ramsdale's question. And my wife could add a few chapters of her own! I was shocked that he would suggest to men such experiences of pleasure and ecstasy are somehow not worth learning or unnatural, a "female" thing, and therefore not for us men to enjoy.
I heartily disagree. And I'm sad to see he took this prejudiced turn after writting Sexual Energy Ecstasy, which is a far better manual on exploring pleasure, intimacy, and ecstasy for both genders.
Still, I had to give it 3 stars. 1 star for the well written, although somewhat female-fantasy-centered erotica. Another star for the casual (almost too casual) instruction of occasional techniques, and finally one very big star simply because towards the end of the book, he recommends Jack Johnston's Male Multiple Orgasm seminar as the best way for men (and women) to learn how to become multi-orgasmic. At least we agree on something!
In conclusion, I would recommend this book for most women (and their partners) as a way to appreciate their bodies as the sacred, sensual temples that they are. I think there are plenty of couples out there who might enjoy sharing the erotic tales together as well as some of the techniques offered.
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20 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Practical, Philosophical, Educational and Sexy!, August 23, 2004
This review is from: Red Hot Tantra: Erotic Secrets of Red Tantra for Intimate, Soul-to-Soul Sex and Ecstatic, Enlightened Orgasms (Paperback)
Finally, a well-researched and well-written book about sexuality that manages to be both intellectually and libidinally stimulating. What a great idea: chapters on Tantric philosophy by one author, an expert academic on the subject, alternating with rather sizzling short stories that illustrate the concepts by another author who seems equally accomplished. This book will open new doors in your mind, heart and body, and it effectively demonstrates how all three are interconnected.
My fiancee and I have been taking turns reading chapters aloud to each other, then putting into practice the ideas we found. I'd think it would also be a great tool for anybody "in between" relationships, as it would help you to discover and radiate your own sensual aura. Either way, if you're interested in bringing more intimacy into your life, you should read this book cover to cover.
Smarter and classier than most "sex books" and WAY hotter than any academic tome on the frequently esoteric subject of Tantra. I have to say that the short stories by the female author were a particular eye-opener for me. That gal really knows how to burn up a page! Read it with someone you love, or read it and find someone to love!
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9 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Relax your mind & body to reach heightened sexual experience, August 21, 2004
This review is from: Red Hot Tantra: Erotic Secrets of Red Tantra for Intimate, Soul-to-Soul Sex and Ecstatic, Enlightened Orgasms (Paperback)
Red Hot Tantra is a pleasure to read on your own or with a loved one. The tantric lessons are accompanied by short stories, which are quite arrousing. I have to admit, I've read this on my own and have gained quite alot of self-satisfaction. Also, when reading Red Hot Tantra with my lover we keep the lessons in mind after getting aroused from the short stories and always have enlightening sexual experiences. The book has truely helped me relax my mind and body while focusing clearly on the moment. Reaching heightened senses in all aspets of sensuality.
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