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Redefining Girly: How Parents Can Fight the Stereotyping and Sexualizing of Girlhood, from Birth to Tween Paperback – January 1, 2014


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Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Chicago Review Press (January 1, 2014)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1613745524
  • ISBN-13: 978-1613745526
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 5.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (27 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #86,001 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Wardy, founder of the children’s products company, Pigtail Pals & Ballcap Buddies, has been at the center of online discussions addressing gender stereotyping of children. Here she addresses how girls in particular are affected by sexualization and pink or princess culture. Much of Redefining Girly will be familiar. No fan of Barbie or Disney products, Wardy is indignant over the prevalence of princess attire and pink Legos. She does, however, provide guidance to parents who might be troubled over the rash of gender-specific parties and activities, and she points out the subtle manner in which sexist language, such as always ­referring to girls first as pretty or cute rather than smart or brave permeates our culture. Peggy Orenstein, Mary Pipher, and others who have written on similar topics are cited, and Wardy provides a useful bibliography for further reading. While Redefining Girly does not break new ground, and Wardy’s tendency to overreach can become tiresome, parents will find the book a quick read that may inspire them to pick up more substantial titles on the subject. --Colleen Mondor

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“Melissa Wardy’s book reads like a conversation with a smart, wise, funny friend; one who dispenses fabulous advice on raising a strong, healthy, full-of-awesome girl.”  —Peggy Orenstein, author, Cinderella Ate My Daughter

"This eye-opening tome is an absolute must-read." —Starred review, Publishers Weekly

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I highly recommend this book to anyone raising girls or involved in working with children, such as teachers.
I. Grubbs
It's about little girls choosing what type of girl they want to be....versus what the media and toy manufacturers want them to be.
Jennifer Crick
Although the subject matter is substantial, the book reads quickly, allowing the readers to digest the material easily.
Andrew Segall

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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful By Lori Day on December 8, 2013
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With Melissa Atkins Wardy’s "Redefining Girly," we have one more excellent tool for parents who are desperate for ways to push back against the stereotyped and sexualized messages that bombard girls every day. While there are other books on this topic, this one focuses heavily and extremely helpfully on the everyday issues that parents must face while raising girls in a culture that makes them grow up too soon, targeting them with media and products that undermine healthy emotional, physical and intellectual development by telling little girls that they should be beautiful and sexy above all else. Wardy’s candid and tested advice about navigating gendered birthday parties; avoiding sexualizing dolls and other gifts from well-meaning friends; handling trips to the pediatrician’s office that end up reinforcing girly-girl culture rather than affirming the individuality of each child; and guiding girls to select Halloween costumes that let them be children…all of these situations and so many more are discussed clearly and pragmatically. Parents are given sample language to use in different environments that help them communicate their values to the other important adults in their daughters’ lives. With "Redefining Girly," perhaps a tipping point will soon be reached as parents become more skilled at giving corporations the message that the disempowerment of girls for their own profit will no longer be tolerated. Let this book be your guide. Bravo Ms. Wardy!
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Andrew Segall on December 12, 2013
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Melissa Wardy's new book Redefining Girly is destined to become a go-to handbook for parents and guardians raising girls. I wish it had been available ten years ago when I started raising my oldest daughter. The book combines actionable tips with highly relatable stories and insights. Although the subject matter is substantial, the book reads quickly, allowing the readers to digest the material easily. Whether you are new to the girl empowerment movement or a well-researched expert, Redefining Girly is a valuable addition to your parenting library.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By EyreAffair on January 1, 2014
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I am a long-time follower of Melissa Atkins Wardy's work, a frequent participant in her Facebook community at Pigtail Pals Ballcap Buddies, and an academic with a background in media research. I had high hopes for this book and was excited that she would finally have all her thoughts written down for people who are new to the issue of media's influence on children. But I was worried that since I've been immersed in these issues for over a decade, this book would not offer me anything new.

I am happy to say that even as a "veteran", and even as a parent of only boys, I got a LOT out of reading this book. What I have always appreciated about Wardy's approach is that she recaps her own real-life experiences as a parent and provides "scripts" of how she interacts with children (both her own and other people's).

I know what kinds of people I want my boys to become, but since they are preschoolers, I often find it hard to talk to them about it at their level. Wardy has the words. And now she's shared them with all of her readers, enabling us to find new ways to talk about the difficult issues of gender representation, respect for others, and self-confidence in the face of peer pressure.
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Anne Brown on December 3, 2013
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Amazing book - I would recommend for any parent with daughters or even sons. I did not think this would be a book for me but a friend bought it for me and I am so glad I read it!
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16 of 21 people found the following review helpful By Michael P Murphy on February 24, 2014
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I was anxious to read this book after seeing a story on CNN. I have a 10-year old daughter and hoped to benefit from information on raising her in a more gender-neutral manner.

One of the suggestions for raising a gender-neutral child is to eschew pink or boy clothing and to consider painting the baby's room green or yellow. This "advice" was insulting in its simplicity.

I am also dismayed at how many times the author refers to her web store...and how inaccurate I am finding the other reviews. I have not found any usable information in this book.

Instead of this book, try reading "Queen Bees and Wannabes" or "Reviving Ophelia". Although they are marketed as books for raising teen girls, I find them very helpful with my preteen.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful By WestMetroMommy on January 2, 2014
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This was a very personal book for me to read. I have an almost 5 year old daughter and, since her birth, I've been fighting what I sometimes is a losing battle with the media and what I consider society's inappropriate expectations of girls. It almost seems an obligation to inflict Disney Princesses and the like on little girls and mothers, such as myself who would rather not enforce these stereotypes and messages, are considered to be out of bounds.

My one regret about this book is that I wish it had come out about 4 years ago, but what are you going to do? Wardy creates a "tool kit" for parents and her tips are very valuable, even to someone with a somewhat older child. I also felt comforted that I am not alone in my wishes that my little girl be able to be just a little girl.

Wardy also includes a number of letters from experts, which I also found very valuable. In addition to these letters and the tips she includes, there is an extensive resource list at the end of the book--that list alone is worth the purchase price of this book.

I do have one criticism of the book. I wish that it was better organized. About halfway through the book, Wardy starts to repeat herself. I think that if there was different organizational scheme to the book, she could have avoided this pitfall and her overall message would be clearer.

All in all, however, this is an excellent book for any parent of young children. I truly hope that parents harness their own power in the midst of the media onslaught for the sake of our daughters.
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