Redemptive Divorce: A Biblical Process That Offers Guidance for the Suffering Partner, Healing for the Offending Spouse, and the Best Catalyst for Restoration [Paperback]

Mark W. Gaither (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: August 12, 2008

A graceful, biblical way to reclaim sanity for the home and dignity for the suffering spouse in a dysfunctional or dangerous marriage.

Thousands of conscientious believers wanting to honor the sacred vows they took before God suffer in dysfunctional, even dangerous marriages. Each and every day they must choose between the lesser of two evils: divorce without sound biblical support or a life of perpetual, unrelenting misery. Somewhere between the secular disregard for the commands of Christ and the sacred unwillingness to deal with real problems of people, there is a way.

The redemptive divorce process is designed to honor the sacredness of the union while offering practical relief for the suffering partner and tough love for the offending spouse. In some cases, it might even be the catalyst for the restoration and rebuilding of the marriage. Practical, provocative, and utterly unique, Redemptive Divorce includes a helpful guide with worksheets for implementation.

Product Details

• Paperback: 176 pages
• Publisher: Thomas Nelson (August 12, 2008)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 078522856X
• ISBN-13: 978-0785228561
• Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 4.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #235,060 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Following a fifteen-year career as an engineer, Mark W. Gaither earned a Master of Theology degree from Dallas Theological Seminary, where he discovered his love for teaching and writing. After writing for Dr. Frank Minirth, he served as a the director of creative ministries and writer for Insight for Living, the radio ministry of Chuck Swindoll, during which time he served as Dr. Swindoll's editor and research assistant, a role he continues to enjoy. He also writes, researches, and edits for other notable authors. Clients include Andy Stanley, Dr. Charles Stanley, Dr. John MacArthur, and John Tolson.

In addition to writing and teaching, Mark is a court-appointed civil and family mediator in the State of Texas.

Mark and his wife, Charissa, reside in Frisco, Texas and have four adult children--Lauren, Parker, Robert, and Heather.

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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great, biblical advice, November 3, 2008

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wronged partner (Texas) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Redemptive Divorce: A Biblical Process That Offers Guidance for the Suffering Partner, Healing for the Offending Spouse, and the Best Catalyst for Restoration (Paperback)

This book was very helpful and clearly laid out a plan that someone could follow if they were interested in one last effort at restoration of a failing marriage. It offers a thoughtful explanation of how "the church" has failed--in many respects--when it comes to counseling and supporting Christians who are in a painful/destructive marriage. It is balanced and suggests that forgiveness and healing for BOTH parties should be the goal. It directly tackles some of the most vexxing questions one faces in trying to figure out "What would Jesus want me to do in this situation?" I loved it and bought more copies to share with friends, my counselor and pastor.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful and practical, May 24, 2011

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This review is from: Redemptive Divorce: A Biblical Process That Offers Guidance for the Suffering Partner, Healing for the Offending Spouse, and the Best Catalyst for Restoration (Paperback)

The book is well written, theologically sound, I believe, and practical. In a difficult stage of life, it's good to have practical advice and choices on what you CAN do, when much is out of your control.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great advice!, December 6, 2010

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This review is from: Redemptive Divorce: A Biblical Process That Offers Guidance for the Suffering Partner, Healing for the Offending Spouse, and the Best Catalyst for Restoration (Kindle Edition)

This books has some really good Christian advice for those struggling in their marriage and contemplating divorce. It really makes you think about things and gives you great guidelines on how to make some changes in your marriage and keep a clear conscious if you have to make that painful decision to divorce.