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A Regular Guy: Growing up with Autism [Paperback]

Laura Shumaker , Terri Hinte , Linda Kalin
4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (31 customer reviews)

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Book Description

July 7, 2008
A Regular Guy: Growing Up With Autism is a memoir about life with an autistic son, Matthew, written from his mother s perspective. It answers the many questions that people have about autism through the story of Matthew s life spanning from babyhood to young adulthood. A Regular Guy illustrates the many ways in which family, friends and strangers are touched by Matthew s desperate desire to be a regular guy, and how his brutal honesty and social awkwardness bring out the best and worst in people in touching and humorous ways. In turn, A Regular Guy leads readers to love and accept Matthew, quirks and all, and inspires them to understand and tolerate the differences in others.

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Editorial Reviews

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In Laura Shumaker's thoughtful portrait of her families struggle with autism, we explore the journey that anyone touched by disability must navigate. Her writing is elegant. Her lessons are invaluable --Mark Trautwein, NPR Perspectives, KQED San Francisco

A must read for all families affected by autism, professionals who care for children and adults on the autism spectrum, and for those who wish to get a better understanding of what it is like to wear the shoes of a mother striving to do the best for her special needs son. --Ricki G. Robinson, M.D., M.P.H.Clinical Professor of Pediatrics at the University of Southern California School of Medicine; Scientific Advisory Board Member, Autism Speaks.

Laura Shumaker has written a book with sensitivity, warmth, and intelligence. On one level its theme is autism; on another it is about tragedy, hope, resilience, and above all, loving. --Clinical Professor of Medicine; Chair, Editorial Board, UC Berkeley Wellness Letter

About the Author

Laura Shumaker is a regular contributor to NPR Perspectives. Her essays have appeared in the San Francisco Chronicle, the Contra Costa Times, the East Bay Monthly, Hallmark Magazine, Exceptional Parent Magazine and in several anthologies, including Voices of Autism (LaChance 2008). She lives in northern California with her husband and three sons.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 241 pages
  • Publisher: Landscape Press; 1st edition (July 7, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 098018360X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0980183603
  • Product Dimensions: 5.4 x 7.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (31 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #607,833 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

I'm the mother of THREE terrific sons. The oldest, Matthew, is a young adult with autism. I'm an optimistic mother/autism advocate/writer, and parents like me because I tell them it gets easier and I mean it. I write an autism blog for the San Francisco Chronicle that is very popular.

I've contributed to several anthologies, including Voices of Autism, A Cup of Comfort for Parents of Children with Special Needs, Writin' on Empty, Gravity Pulls You In, Writin' on Empty, Easy to Love, Hard to Raise and the incredible Thinking Person's Guide to Autism. My essays have appeared in many places, including The New York Times, the San Francisco Chronicle, the Contra Costa Times, Literary Mama, the East Bay Monthly, The Autism Advocate, on NPR and CNN.COM.

Customer Reviews

I read the book in one sitting, and enjoyed every page. Karen Garber  |  11 reviewers made a similar statement
In a quick, easy to read biographical story, this book does just that. Susan Ashley, Ph.D.  |  6 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars great writing December 11, 2008
Format:Paperback
Although the topic is autism, this book reads like a detective novel. The writing is so skillful, the narrative so well-composed that you'll find yourself captivated by the story line and fully immersed in the characters. Sentimental without being maudlin, Laura captures the heartache and challenges facing the family of an autistic child. And she does this with humor and psychological insight. This book is a must-read for anyone interested in the family dynamics of autism and the stuggles of a young kid yearing to be a "regular guy". Beautiful.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful
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I loved this book. The story of the Shumaker family's journey with Matthew, their autistic son, was so fascinating and well written that I felt as if I was part of the Shumaker family as I read. I couldn't put it down and ended up finishing it in one sitting. Life with Matthew is not always easy, but Ms. Shumaker's descriptions kept a smile on my face as I traveled the journey of adapting to a full and rich life with a son who is very special. I highly recommend it.
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book September 17, 2009
Format:Paperback
Well written, witty account of the experience of living with Autism. Her experience closely parallels my own. Recommended especially for everyone who thinks Autism is easy to deal with, but also for anyone who has any interest in Autism.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A MUST READ June 15, 2009
Format:Paperback
I am the parent of a 10 year old boy that has Aspergers. I thought this book was brilliant. From one Mom to another, I could totally relate to the author and her joys and trials and tribulations. It also gave me a glimpse into my sons upcoming teenage years and things to watch for-which I am always trying to learn more about. I think it is a must read for anyone who has someone with autism in their life.
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Illuminating July 23, 2008
Format:Paperback
I couldn't put down "A Regular Guy." I was very moved, I laughed, I cried, and I was educated. Having a disability or being with someone you love who has one is not easy to understand for those of us who aren't in that situation. I thought Laura's book brought that experience to light with all the joy and pain. While it's apparent that it has been a tremendous struggle for the family, it's obvious that the love the family shares has made them so much stronger and a tighter unit.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars FANTASTIC BOOK August 16, 2009
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I have a grandson with Autism and heard about this book on Facebook. I could NOT put this book down. It was an amazing peak into the life of this family and I absolutely appreciated her honesty and giving people the opportunity of sharing their trials and successes in their life.

I cannot recommend this book enough!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Touching and honest August 20, 2009
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A very tender, honest, sensitive memoir. Shumaker tells sad, sweet, heartwarming stories about raising her autistic son in her loving family. A few have mentioned that this is a great book for those who have NO experience with autism, and I heartily agree! Reading about her struggles as a mother, but mostly reading about Matthew's struggles as a developmentally challenged young adult - and the reactions of the world around him - made me cry and laugh out loud and basically just feel like my heart split open for him and the whole Shumaker family. A very quick and engaging read.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Honest, Engaging, Touching June 30, 2009
Format:Paperback
I first read Ms. Shumaker's account of her son Matthew in the San Francisco Chronicle Magazine. It moved me to tears. Her writing is clear, accessible, and personal. This is no self-indulgent or sentimentalized memoir. Its characters are well-drawn, the family relationships realistic in both their closeness and their challenges. I read the book in one sitting, and enjoyed every page. You must meet Matthew, and the mother who helped him to be a regular guy.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars A realistic look at life with an autistic child
If you have an autistic child, you will find him in Matthew. Many were the times I had to stop reading to wipe the tears from my eyes and think 'yea, we've been through that too. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Gary Smith
5.0 out of 5 stars True Picture of Classic Autism into Adulthood
I've read "Regular Guy" 4 times from cover to cover. It is very inspiring how a mother who had little resources was able to get her son the help he needed to grow up to be the man... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Texas Gal
5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful book for Families of Children with Speical Needs
This is a touching book about coming to grips with a child with special needs. We have a son with a brain malformation and while it isn't the same as Autism, this book still has... Read more
Published 4 months ago by J. Hickingbotham
5.0 out of 5 stars If your child has autism everyone you know should read this book.
Every parent raising a child with autism wishes others would understand what it is like to live with this disorder. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Susan Ashley, Ph.D.
5.0 out of 5 stars A beautiful tale of parenting a special needs child
As an attorney and advocate for special needs children, I work with families like Ms. Shumaker's, in a medical-legal partnership at a children's hospital.

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Published 10 months ago by Jane Smith
5.0 out of 5 stars Honest...Compelling...A Valuable Tool for Parents.
I loved this book for many reasons. From the very first page, Laura brings you right into her challenge of raising an autistic child. Read more
Published 16 months ago by John William Quinn
5.0 out of 5 stars amazing
I am the grandmother of two ASD children- and they are bright, amazing people. Her honesty is refreshing as it captures the reality of the difficult and rewarding time raising... Read more
Published 17 months ago by susan
5.0 out of 5 stars Great read if you love someone with autism - a MUST read for moms
Laura Shumaker has grabbed the stories from every autism mom's heart and found the words to describe our journey. Read more
Published 22 months ago by Mari-Anne Kehler
5.0 out of 5 stars Epiphany!
I'd never heard of autistic wandering and elopement and was frustrated and confused by my autistic son's behavior. Read more
Published 22 months ago by Patti
5.0 out of 5 stars A window into a family's life
I loved this book. After reading it, I feel as though one of my best friends sat down with me, and told me exactly what having her autistic child has been like. Read more
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