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Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed [Paperback]

Courtney Macavinta , Andrea Vander Pluym
4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)

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Book Description

June 15, 2005
This smart, savvy book helps teen girls get respect and hold on to is no matter what—at home, at school, with their friends, and in the world. Tips, activities, writing exercises, and quotes from teens keep readers involved. This “big sister” style inspires trust. Girls learn respect is connected to everything, every girl deserves respect, and respect is always within reach because it starts on the inside. This book is your guide to getting respect and keeping it.

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“The splashy, magazine-style layout, with lots of illustrations and sidebar activities, make this an attractive read for girls.”—Youth Today


“Junior and senior high girls, as well as their older sisters and mothers, will find it challenging and clarifying.”—Voice of Youth Advocates


“Powerful and positive message.”—Children’s Literature


“Informative and interactive.”—Chicago Tribune



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Product Details

  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Free Spirit Publishing (June 15, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1575421771
  • ISBN-13: 978-1575421773
  • Product Dimensions: 7.1 x 0.6 x 9.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #273,006 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Courtney Macavinta is founder and CEO of Respect Rx. She is an award-winning journalist, author, speaker, trainer and coach who has reached more than a million girls and women through her work, including programs, trainings and best-selling book, RESPECT: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed (Free Spirit Publishing, 2005), which has won both IPPY and iParenting awards.

Throughout her tumultuous teens, Courtney dealt with many of the same issues girls face today, from self-doubt and body hatred to risky choices and confusion about her multi-racial identity. Her hard-working family also struggled for respect amid substance abuse, incarceration, violence, poverty and racism. Like many, she fought to find respect without a compass or clue--then discovered it was within her all along. Today that is her message to people everywhere: Respect is always within reach because true respect starts on the inside.

As an expert on teens and women, Courtney has been featured on CNN, ABC, Fox, National Public Radio, MSNBC and in USA Today, CosmoGIRL!, Teen People, Teen Vogue, Mothering, Glamour, The Seattle Times, The San Jose Mercury News and numerous other media. She also has been featured as role model in the books The Quarterlifer's Companion, and Cool Women, Hot Jobs. Having been in online media for more than a decade, Courtney formerly was editorial director of the groundbreaking and Webby-nominated online and radio network ChickClick. Additionally, her articles have been published by The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, The Associated Press, Daughters, Common Sense Media, Wired News, Business 2.0, The Sacramento Bee, CNET News.com and others.

A devoted girl advocate, Courtney's work is focused on inspiring young women to cultivate self-respect, sisterhood and social change. She has spoken, trained or led event programs for thousands of girls, women and their advocates across the country. She has partnered with organizations such as Girls Inc., the YMCA, Omega Institute Teen Camp, The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, Girl Scouts of the USA, and the Dove Self-Esteem Fund. She is on the National Board of Girls For A Change and Advisory Boards of the Bay Area Girls Rock! Camp and Jenna Druck Foundation.

Courtney has a B.A. in Journalism from San Francisco State University and training from The Coaches Training Institute.

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If you know any young girls, this book is a must for them. Anna Skinner  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
I loved the writing style--frank, direct, simple, and clear. Elaine Needleman  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
More precisely, the book gives girls real-life problem solving guidance. Deborah Nagle-Burks  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
15 of 15 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
As an educator of young men and women I commend the authors for writing a book that a young audience would actually use. Yes use. As reviewers have noted this book speaks with a tone of gentle authority without being preachy. More precisely, the book gives girls real-life problem solving guidance. Finally, this is a thought-provoking book for young women which also includes practical advice. An honest to goodness "Here's how I handled that situation and here are a few more suggestions" primer. I recommend it for classroom use.
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Gift For Girls September 23, 2006
By T. Rath
Format:Paperback
I read this book while researching teen abuse and was very impressed. It gets all of those sensitive topics that adults and teens would rather ignore (not just sex, but abuse, eating disorders and difficulties in relationships and friendships) out in the open. The book teaches girls how to make good decisions for themselves while remaining open and communicating with friends and family. The theme is respect through empowerment and is targeted at an age group and gender that often (sadly) feel they have no power.

It's down-to-earth and isn't preachy, which is important because kids tend to rebel against that method. I didn't always listen to my parents as a pre-teen and teen (shocker of the century) and I could've used the guidelines in this book to make better decisions rather than trying to do everything on my own. I especially like the activities in the book -- makes it interactive and personal. It's a great gift for a pre-teen or teen girl -- much better investment than a new shirt or iTunes gift certificate!
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Working Template for OPEN dialog March 8, 2006
Format:Paperback
I have two girls, and we went through chapaters that were relevent to us, right now, and used many of the suggestions. One of the things I love about the book is it promotes open dialog between parents, but also sisters and friends. I have seen it work in action, and my daughters made up their own 'sisterhood' contract which we posted on the refrigerator, and refer too, often. The chapters you can review first if there are subjects that are sensitive to you, however, I found the 'sex' chapter very well written and received by both girls. Our next step is to have a 'sisterhood sleepover' where the girls invite their friends, and we have some open discussions on self respect and respect of others. This is an excellent tool for a parent, or guardian of a young person.
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars For All Girls!! September 7, 2005
By V.C.
Format:Paperback
Any girl who reads this will be a better woman for it. The authors are correct in boiling down many of the dicey issues teens face today to one issue: respect. If you respect yourself, many decisions become clearer. Buy this for all the girls in your life. Think of it as an investment in their future!!
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A valuable guide for girls December 7, 2005
By T. S.
Format:Paperback
I checked out this book and decided it would be perfect for my 16-year-old niece. The authors come across as really friendly and open, and they talk in a way that today's teens and preteens will understand--like big sisters. They tackle pretty much all of the major issues that girls face today and they do it without being the least bit preachy. Rather than just telling girls what's good, bad, right, or wrong, the authors continually reinforce that girls need to make their own decisions based on respect--for themselves and for others. The real value of the book is that the authors give the girls tons of information on which to base those decisions. I think kids really respond well to that approach--empowering rather than admonishing. I definitely recommend this one.
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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I picked up Respect with a critical eye, fully prepared to read some fluffy, new-age, condescendingly grrrl-empowering text. Trust me, none of those adjectives fit this terrific resource. Authors Macavinta and Vander Pluym provide talking points for discussion and personal introspection on topics ranging from friends to family to the opposite sex to body image and self-image. The book is not a guide about what to think or do, but a template for drafting one's own guidelines and ethos. The authors continually recommend that young readers keep a journal and use specific topics and questions as launching points for making entries in the jounral.

I read the chapter about romantic relationships with special interest. As a twenty-something professional, I considered the text from the viewpoint of a mentor or parent who is concerned about a youngster, as well as from my not-too-distant viewpoint as a rebellious teenager who was just knew she much smarter than her own parents. Well, it works. This is not a preachy book, so the reviewer below who found it non-abstinence-insistent was right. The text encourages parents and daughters to have open discussions (with specific topics and starting points), so that the daughter can form her own personal boundaries. If a tween girl drafts her own idea of boundaries and limits, with her own healthy reasoning, instead of being berated by parents and adults, she is going to follow them more intensely. One discussion topic is female sexuality in popular media, with the "shock" of Judy Blume's Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret in the 1970's and Eve Ansler's Vagina Monologues in the 1990's.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is...
I am enjoy this book with my daughter. I was never taught how to have respect for myself or others. And there are some great helpful tips in this book. Read more
Published 21 months ago by Donny W. Kirkland
1.0 out of 5 stars Very Disappointed
My 12 year old daughter received this book as a gift and I am so glad that I decided to read it first. Read more
Published on January 1, 2006 by L. Justus
5.0 out of 5 stars Respect for all
I read this book over the weekend. It's fabulous and easy to read, filled with straightforward and relevant advice for real-life situations. Read more
Published on January 1, 2006 by Elaine Needleman
5.0 out of 5 stars Great stuff!
Very positive and affirming stuff from authors who clearly care about their audience. The best part of this book is that it gives teen girls actual action items -- so they can... Read more
Published on December 13, 2005 by K. Pavao
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing Book for Girls and Moms
This is a book that every mom should have and every girl should have. Everyday girls come home from school facing tough issues in their relationships with others and this book is... Read more
Published on December 7, 2005 by W. Smith
5.0 out of 5 stars Required reading!!
This book should be required reading for all girls (from 12 and older). The authors clearly and simply spell out the importance of self-respect, how to get it, and how respecting... Read more
Published on December 7, 2005 by Anna Skinner
5.0 out of 5 stars A must-read, and a great gift!
Finally, a book that is well-written, not condescending, with a positive, healthy message for teen girls! Read more
Published on December 7, 2005 by B. Lipton
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