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Right to Be Wanted, Right to Be Loved [Paperback]

John L. Perry (Author)
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January 2004
"Right to Be Wanted, Right to Be Loved" is intended for reading by parents to help children understand adoption before entering school, where they may otherwise hear of it first on the playground.

The author appreciates that receiving this information is likely to be an unsettling experience for children-just as imparting it is not always easy for adopting parents, either.

Nor is "Right to Be Wanted, Right to Be Loved" intended just for adopted children and adopting parents.

It is suited as well for assisting all parents and all children to understand the power and value of love that can underlie the adopting process.

Children who are not adopted may, through this book, come to understand better those children who are adopted-and to learn that the same values are reflected in their relationship with their own parents.

They, too, have a right to be wanted and a right to be loved, to know that it is right-and a good thing-to be wanted and to be loved.

Aware that younger children often relate more readily to stories in which the characters are gentle animals, "Right to Be Wanted, Right to Be Loved" conveys its theme through Mother and Father Rabbit and their little adopted daughter, Allison (Bunny) Rabbit.

Allison Rabbit is confused, angry, and afraid when Mother and Father Rabbit tell her she was adopted.

They help her lose her confusion, anger, and fear and regain her feeling of security as a member of the family when they explain to her that they wanted her from the very beginning and that she will always be loved by them.

She realizes she has a right to be wanted and a right to be loved-and that it is right, a good thing, to be both wanted and loved.
--This text refers to the Kindle Edition edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 52 pages
  • Publisher: Xlibris Corporation (January 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1413431062
  • ISBN-13: 978-1413431063
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 3.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #6,501,905 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

John L. Perry is an award-winning newspaper editor and writer. He also served American presidents on covert missions abroad and at home that involved him in three decades of counterintelligence, providing background for his latest book, a novel of international intrigue, "The Abbey Enigma."

He is the author also of "Three Thumbs Up!", a novel about a benighted, small Southern town with the audacity to host a World's Fair; a mystery novel for young boys, "The Humongous Australian Wah-Bah-Hah Mystery," and a children's book about adoption, "Right to Be Wanted, Right to Be Loved."

Perry has received numerous awards for column and editorial writing and for public-service and spot-news reporting.

Newspapers under his direction were consistent winners of awards for journalistic excellence. The Associated Press Managing Editors Association named him one of the twelve best newsroom managers among the AP's member newspapers.

He has worked as an editor or reporter for several daily newspapers, including the Tampa Tribune, the St. Petersburg Times, the Buffalo Evening News, and the Clearwater Sun.

With a master's degree from Northwestern University's Medill School of Journalism, he was among the first American journalists allowed into the Soviet Union after the death of Joseph Stalin. He interviewed Chairman Nikita Khrushchev for four hours in his Kremlin office.

On the domestic scene, Perry also served President Lyndon B. Johnson as deputy under secretary of commerce and was a White House speech writer and race-relations trouble-shooter for President Johnson. And in the Jimmy Carter administration, he was executive assistant to the under secretary of Housing and Urban Development and was interim director of public information for the Federal Emergency Management Agency.

Perry served as press aide to Gov. LeRoy Collins of Florida and executive assistant to the speaker of the Florida House of Representatives.

A specialist in corporate communications, strategic planning, and crisis management, he was public-affairs counselor to several international and national businesses.

Perry was also assistant to the president of the National Association of Broadcasters, a member of the top-management team and director of public relations for the 1982 World's Fair in Knoxville, Tennessee, and an academic fellow at the Center for the Study of Democratic Institutions in Santa Barbara, Calif.

He and his wife, Mary Mayne Perry, are retired, more or less, in their native Knoxville, Tennessee, epicenter of thirteen grandchildren.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Long overdue, a book to help all children and their parents, March 6, 2004
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Simplicity and tenderness make "Right to be WANTED, Right to be LOVED" an invaluable resource during the time when a child learns he or she is adopted. But John Perry's little book isn't important just for the youngster. It is equally beneficial to adoptive parents, and, as the author correctly states: "It is suited as well for assisting all parents and all children to understand the power and value of love that can underlie the adopting process."

Adults will become aware of a child's emotions when first learning about his or her status. In almost fairy tale form, this book addresses the speculative process about one's physical or biological parents and helps offer answers to questions usually posed by an adopted child.

As we might find a stage play, eight brief scenes (chapters) carefully guide a three, four or five-year-old through adoption's confusing maze. Children will like and identify with Allison (Bunny) Rabbit and her adoptive parents, Mother and Father Rabbit, who discuss how she became their special gift - indeed, why she was wanted and is loved.

Here is where the author illustrates an essential awareness of limited attention spans. He provides continuity among chapters thus enabling the reader to stop temporarily whenever the young child wishes. Subsequently, with a quick reminder of "where we were in our story," the parent can proceed down the path toward fulfillment of an essential obligation.

Helping all youth understand adoption is a fundamental responsibility of parents. However, it is especially unhealthy whenever adopted children become further perplexed because they weren't adequately prepared and tenderly exposed to the truth about this wonderful gift. "RIGHT to be wanted, RIGHT to be loved serves both objectives."

Among countless blessings, my adopted son is a constant source of unsurpassed joy. I wish John Perry's book had been on the shelves a long time ago. My grandchildren now have a copy. I'm so pleased this easy-to-read children's narrative is available because I know John Perry; I respect his wisdom, caring nature, integrity and his motivation.

You will, too.

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