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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Hachette Books (May 13, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1401303463
  • ISBN-13: 978-1401303464
  • Product Dimensions: 6.1 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.8 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #516,634 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"This will be an invaluable tool for anyone who wants to get past 'I'm right and you're wrong!'"—Gerry Spence, trial lawyer and author of the New York Times best seller How to Argue and Win Every Time

"With this book, you can learn to win those arguments and find the best way to move forward without burning bridges."—Jeffrey J. Fox, author of HOW TO BECOME A RAINMAKER and HOW TO BECOME CEO

"The book is a practical guide to working around and through problems that is useful on many different levels."—Robert P. Finn, Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs, Princeton University, and past U.S. Ambassador to Afghanistan

"It's hard to imagine anyone who couldn't benefit from this practical and empowering guide to making your relationships better."—Robert L. Leahy, Ph.D., author of The Worry Cure: Seven Steps to Stop Worry from Stopping You, and President, International Association for Cognitive Psychotherapy

About the Author

Dr. Xavier Amador is an adjunct professor in clinical psychology at Teacher's College, Columbia University in New York City and is on the Board of Directors of the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill (NAMI). A clinical psychologist who treats adults, children, and adolescents in individual, couples and family therapy, he has also been called upon to serve as a forensic expert on such high profile cases as the Unabomber, the Capitol Shooter, Elizabeth Smart, and the Twentieth Hijacker, among others. He is called upon frequently by the media, and has published over 100 peer-reviewed scientific papers. He lives in New York.

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Amador's friendly and clear writing style is in large part what makes this book so effective and so accessible.
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This book provide families the help they need is communicating with a person with a mental illness.
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13 of 15 people found the following review helpful By BeBe G. on June 13, 2009
Format: Hardcover
This is a wonderful book. It is so well-written. I recommend it regularly. It has changed my life. It is assertiveness training for the real world. Amador is clear, specific, and encouraging. A practical guide to improving transactions in business and personal arenas. When you use these techniques, you'll feel wonderful about yourself. A winning read.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By An ordinary being on January 9, 2012
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I was surprised to find that I'M RIGHT, YOU'RE WRONG, showed me as much about my thinking processes as it did the person diagnosed with mental illness. I purchased this book because I was motivated to help my relative. But in the process we are both learning better communication and I'm learning to unpack my assumptions, judgments, etc.. (Xavier Amador writes, clearly, from his unique experience as a family member and a professional counselor.)
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By pepperminty on April 20, 2013
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This is helpful material, well-presented. It has the potential to transform your relationships if you will apply it.

Not a quick read and put it down kind of book. More read here, read there, think about it, try it out, read some more kind of book.

In particular I like that Amador gives detailed examples of a variety of situations where the techniques are actually used, such as a couple discussing whether to move the family for a job opportunity, grown sisters negotiating over when to schedule a family reunion, and handling conflict on the phone with a hospital nurse who cites privacy laws in refusing to provide critical medical info about the author's mother. These examples help me project the LEAP technique into my own life.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Beth Childers on December 18, 2012
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If you want a practical guide on how to respond to someone with a mental illness this is the book you need. Such a great read! I highly recommend this book.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Geneva E. on March 8, 2013
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Really helps you understand how we get into impasses with each other and are unable to move forward. He explains how, what, and why, giving good examples with how to think about the problem and what to say and what not to say. He helps you understand how to turn the person you're having the argument with from an adversary back into a friend or partner. Great book!
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7 of 10 people found the following review helpful By Margaret B. Degraw on November 18, 2008
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This is an excellent book. It makes sense and it also takes time to put into practice what is being suggested.
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