Rising in Love: Opening Your Heart in All Your Relationships [Paperback]

Alan Cohen (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: September 1996

Focusing on the subject of love, this text offers relationship advice for sustaining love and creating fufilling relationships by believing in ourselves, and those we love.

Product Details

• Paperback: 160 pages
• Publisher: Hay House; Revised edition (September 1996)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1561703400
• ISBN-13: 978-1561703401
• Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.4 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 9 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,533,428 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars I LOVE this book., July 3, 1999

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Dave Davis "Anybody Listening?" (Illinois USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Rising in Love: Opening Your Heart in All Your Relationships (Paperback)

If you know anyone who is having problems with love in their life, whether it be relationship love or love with themselves... buy them this book, and then buy them a copy of I Had It All the Time, by this same author. I wish I could give it higher than five stars (both books), because I hand these out to clients and friends I know, who are in need of finding themselves and who they are. These are probably, along with the Conversations with God series, by Neale Donald Walsch, the best books ever written. Extremely accessable and fun to read, I feel like I've know Mr. Cohen personally all of my life. Thanks again Alan for writing such a wonderful book.

7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Unconditional Love and the dream of Shangri-La, February 24, 2004

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Rebecca Johnson "The Rebecca Review" (Washington State) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Rising in Love: Opening Your Heart in All Your Relationships (Paperback)

"Though we may not climb the Himalayas, each of us must traverse the mountain of our own self." ~Alan Cohen

When you love, you can at times feel that there is nothing wrong with the world because your awareness is so focused on the present. In "Rising in Love" Love itself becomes our home, it is who we are, it is what we are climbing towards. In fact, Love does make you feel that you are living on a higher plane of existence, so instead of saying you are "falling into love," Alan presents the idea that you are "Rising in Love."

Alan Cohen's books are peaceful, calming journeys and I feel comforted by the style in which he writes and his observations about life are always amusing. There is a very intimate feeling while reading this particular book. Alan's books also tend to be signposts to awaken me to various aspects I should be paying attention to in my own life. I find it interesting that Alan was talking about a movie that I had literally just found and was about to watch. Of course, I will be paying very close attention to what that movie has to teach me.

I'm not sure why I think Alan Cohen's humor is so hilarious, I just imagine him in the situations he describes and I get lost in laughter. There is a deep richness to his experiences and his books present a setting of intellectual intimacy in which his thoughts intertwine with the reader's own inner knowledge. I have at times found myself writing poetry after reading chapters in this book.

Rising in Love is divided into five main sections:

The Awakening - Alan remembers when he first fell in love and how he learned to love life itself. At times I wasn't sure if Alan was writing a moment of comedy on page 5 or was truly describing how he felt. Either way, I was amused. If you wanted to know some of the details of Alan's life, this is the book to start with and Alan freely explores his life experiences in order to encourage understanding and an awareness of your own experience with synchronicity.

Who We Are - Alan draws on ideas from movies to explore the ideas of how we are spiritual beings experiencing a material existence. He explores the idea of being born in innocence. If we are born into innocence why do we need to be rescued from the abyss? Alan only touches on a few spiritual principles here and it will probably make readers want to find out more on the subject of the original state of mankind. Are we naturally good or naturally prone to selfish desires? This section of the book is interspersed with quotes and interesting principles in a bold type.

Growing Into Greatness - The story of the "Butterfly" is a powerful statement about how you can expect greatness from others and how they will rise to the occasion and meet the challenge. I actually like how Alan uses the word "God" instead of "Universal Consciousness" because it makes this book more personal. This section of the book explores how you can go through a period of "emptiness" in order to reach a stage where your life becomes richer. I loved Alan's ideas about how we throw rocks into the water and then wonder why we can't escape the waves and this is an interesting way of explaining karma. He explains "tough love" as "what is required to break a habit that is working against our highest interest." The Mustang GT story is rather amusing. It is quite amazing how Alan can draw spiritual wisdom out of the most negative or hopeless situations.

Living in Light - Alan explores the idea of getting what you want by knowing what you want and declaring your intention. Then, you accept opportunities and work with responsibility and confidence. Instead of just saying we should declare our intention, he does recognize human effort and in this way we as humans are not completely helpless in the Divine plan. There is a picture of how our thoughts create our experience and the contrast of negatives vs. positive thinking is rather stark. Does negative thinking block blessings?

Coming Home - This section starts with a quote by Albert Einstein that leads into a discussion about the sacredness of the words: "I love you." Alan shows how he found greater freedom in being more open in love and changed from loving only those who loved him to loving even those who were not lovable.

Rising in Love is a boost to your self-confidence all while making you feel humble and more willing to try to love unconditionally. All I can say is "falling in love" seems much easier than "Rising in Love." Although after reading this book, I'm starting to think that the difficulties in our life stem from blocking the flow of love. Perhaps living "as" love is really the goal. When you start listening to the signs and moving in various loving directions, there are invisible forces that start to work together for the good of those you help or encourage.

~The Rebecca Review

8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Reader goes on a journey into intimate relationships., August 19, 1999

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This review is from: Rising in Love: Opening Your Heart in All Your Relationships (Paperback)

Rising in Love-this book has given me the wisdom to declare my intention-,which is to give up negativity in dealing with my relationships. I am now living in the moment as I clearly state my feelings and needs. I am indeed rising in love and I feel blessed. Alan Cohen gives his readers the skills and insights to love and be loved.This book is a must to read. I LOVED IT!