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Linda Eve Diamond (Author)
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November 8, 2007 1600050670 978-1600050671
'Rule #1: Stop Talking!' teaches the fundamentals of listening, starting with an explanation of the importance of listening and then delving into listening "rules," which are accompanied by practical guidelines and explanations. Following chapters recognize and work with beliefs that interfere with-or "short circuit"-listening.

The chapter titled "Talk Talk Talk" takes a light-hearted look at people who talk without pause or concern for others in the room. Why do they do it? Can they be stopped? How can one escape? Though light-hearted, the chapter offers insights and solutions. This leads into a chapter that gives the reader a break from working to be a better listener and offers advice on how to encourage listening in others. It also offers another angle for self-reflection, encouraging the reader to examine situations and communication styles that discourage listening in others.

The rest of the book delves into specific listening benefits, such as lie detection, understanding one's self, resolving conflict, listening "in the age of overload," and clearing "head static," such as the racing mind or repetitive thoughts. Here, the book touches on meditation, nutrition, sleep, all of which keep the mind in a better state for focus and attention. The book ends with a chapter titled: "The Touchy-Feely Section," which talks about the deep human need for connection and sums up the importance and impact of listening.

Throughout the book, the author incorporates stories and insights submitted from an array of contributors including listening experts and a poem contributed by a former poet laureate. These contributions are displayed in boxes titled "Listeners Speak."

The author wants readers to deepen their awareness of this skill and of their own listening habits and blocks. This awareness will help readers change these habits and blocks that interfere with listening. Listening is coming into its own as an important skill for both business and personal success.


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  • Paperback: 180 pages
  • Publisher: Happy About (November 8, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1600050670
  • ISBN-13: 978-1600050671
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.1 x 0.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #963,185 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book on an Important Topic!, May 1, 2008
This review is from: Rule#1: Stop Talking!: A Guide to Listening (Paperback)
Listening seems to be the simpler part of communication, but good listening is rare. In a busy, noisy world, it's difficult to focus on one thing, even if a loved one or colleague is trying to convey something important. Linda Eve Diamond does a terrific job of addressing the undervalued art of listening with humor, skill, and an obviously wide base of knowledge. Offering techniques for speaking clearly as well as listening closely, Rule #1: Stop Talking! provides something for everyone, including tips on how to deal with those who abuse the relationship, such as scrip talkers and hate-mongers.

The most unique aspect of her book is her acknowledgement that listening provides more than practical benefits. Though clearer communication between coworkers leading to better efficiency and greater success is very important, equally important is the transformation of relationships when people feel that they are being heard. Everyone has something to say, and it's a very powerful thing to be the person who listens for it. Even those who consider themselves good listeners will benefit from Diamond's insightful advice, and enjoy her lively writing style.
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5.0 out of 5 stars great gift choice, December 7, 2007
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enlightening, enjoyable, a quick read with a ton of great information, Terrific as a gift!
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First Sentence:
We learned how to speak; we learned the 3 r's: reading, writing and 'rithmetic. Read the first page
Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
script talkers, head static
Key Phrases - Capitalized Phrases (CAPs): (learn more)
Listeners Speak, International Listening Association
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