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The Rules of Engagement: A Novel (Brookner, Anita) [Hardcover]

Anita Brookner (Author)
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Brookner, Anita December 30, 2003
In this masterly new novel, the Booker Prize–winning author of Hotel du Lac and Making Things Better gives us an exquisite story about the changes in relationships over time, and how our life choices can both reflect the past and direct the future. Hailed as “one of the finest novelists of her generation” (The New York Times), Anita Brookner here weaves an impeccably crafted tale of two women, friends from youth, and the decisions and men that define their destinies.

Elizabeth and Betsy knew each other as schoolchildren. When they meet again later in life, one is safely married, the other most unsafely partnered. Together, they discover that despite their very disparate lives, they still have in common the capacity for making dangerous choices. Ultimately, their inclination to implement these decisions reveals the fate that was spelled out in their characters from the start.

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To read Brookner is to be reminded of fiction's potential to stun, with full, complex characters in a richly imagined world, as she draws on her insights into human nature to explore the strained yet enduring friendship of two women of "the last virginal generation." Born in 1948 and friends from childhood, the open, eager-to-please Betsy and the cooler, analytical Elizabeth appear to have little in common. But they share many things, including stubbornness, strength and, dangerously, the same married lover. Seen through the eyes of 50-something Elizabeth, the novel chronicles the often devastating choices the two women make as they age; as such, it is more a book of thought than action. The reclusive Elizabeth, conscious of the mysterious "virtue attached to being a witness," dissects the minutest of human interactions, imposing elaborate rules of self-governance with which she often does battle. Her gaze is ruthless but brilliantly illuminating. "I saw our childlessness as an indictment, a reproach to what had been our folly," Elizabeth observes of herself and Betsy. "We had seen ourselves always as lovers, whereas sensible persons, or perhaps those with greater understanding of the world, make their peace with existing circumstances.... we had chosen, she and I, to stay within the limits of this exalted and fragile condition." Within those limits, in Brookner's skilled hands, vast worlds of human possibility exist.
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Two London girls born in 1948 and both named Elizabeth start school on the same day. One is asked to choose an alternative, and she opts for Betsy, a bid for cheerfulness in light of her dim orphan life. Elizabeth appears to be far better off, but her seemingly glamorous parents' marriage is wretchedly unhappy. Lacking in imagination and fire, Elizabeth marries Digby, a dull man 27 years her senior. Betsy goes to Paris, falls catastrophically in love, and returns to London, where Elizabeth has embarked on a chilly affair. Digby dies; Betsy meets Elizabeth's selfish lover at the wake; the women's guarded friendship becomes even more strained; and, as time drains away, their lives become studies in purposelessness. Each year Brookner presents a morbidly fascinating inquiry into the nature of stoicism and "circumstances of bleak rectitude" as though issuing an annual report on the psychology of helplessly solitary and obscenely idle individuals. Shrewd and idiosyncratic, these tense interior dramas offer piquant pleasures thanks to Brookner's mordant wit, gorgeous language, and acute understanding of the axis between pride and shame, loneliness and misanthropy, integrity and cruelty. She also offers sterling insights into the differences between men and women and the peculiar voluptuousness of obsessive self-regard. Donna Seaman
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Random House; 1st Us Edition edition (December 30, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1400061652
  • ISBN-13: 978-1400061655
  • Product Dimensions: 9.6 x 6.2 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,543,061 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Masterpiece, September 5, 2005
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I hesitate to call a book a masterpiece but that's the word that passed through my mind when I was carried to the conclusion of the book and was moved to tears... for a half an hour! A book hasn't made me cry in decades. This book was worth every tear because I experienced something profound and important about the human experience that I think makes me a better, more compassionate person.

Ms. Brookner developed a subtle theme with such delicacy that I truly felt emotionally moved by a profound understanding of what can happen in a life when things don't go right for a person from the beginning. The book is very realistic and without being emotionally manipulative shows two lives develop out of family situations that formed shaky foundations.

I have often thought that there are some stories that require a novel to tell them, stories about people that require not just a novel, but a work of art to convey exactly what their lives were. Ms. Brookner achieves such a work of art in The Rules of Engagement. In the end, I felt that I had experienced the essence of two people's lives.

I listened to the audio version first, which is beautifully done, then bought the book for my library.

Beautiful, delicate, masterful.
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13 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant, April 2, 2004
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This is Anita Brookner at her very best. Fascinating, introspective examination of women and aging in Brookner's unmistakable style. Universal themes, written beautifully. I just reread it, liked it even better the second time. Underlined half of the book, so much was worth going back for. Higest recommendation!
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars The "rules" can be harsh and unevenly applied (4.5*s), January 28, 2006
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As seen through the eyes of Elizabeth, a middle-aged Londoner with an upper middle-class upbringing, this book is a most prescient examination of what life can bring in that social milieu: respectable, but dull marriage, following all manner of "rules," loneliness, adultery, isolation, etc. As Elizabeth's life unfolds, it is her introspection that primarily interests the author. As usual Brookner is a master of the precise phrase, the pithy sentence, which does require a very careful reading. The appeal of this book is definitely towards those interested in reflecting on life's difficulties and vagaries.
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