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S.E.X.: The All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to Get You Through High School and College [Kindle Edition]

Heather Corinna
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Book Description

Have you ever wondered… Am I normal? (and what is "normal," anyway?) What's up down there? I really like girls, but I like boys sometimes, too. Am I gay, bisexual, or just messed up? Are we both really ready to have sex? Is it ok if I masturbate? I feel like I can't ever say no to my partner. What's the problem? Heather Corinna and have been providing sex education and information for young adults, parents, and mentors for nearly ten years. Whether you're straight, gay, sexually active, or just plain curious, S.E.X. spells out everything you need to know, including: A sexual readiness checklist Illustrations of female and male reproductive anatomy How to love your body, even when it's changing every day Tips on safer sex for body, heart, and mind An in-depth birth control breakdown How to create and enjoy the relationships that are right for you Popular mechanics of partnered sex: sexual activities explained, including pregnancy and STI risks STIs 101: what they are and how to keep yourself from getting them

Editorial Reviews


Library Journal (Booksmack! e-newsletter), 6/2/11
“A great deal about body health and maintenance is included. An outstanding resource section offers both print and online information.”

“The Our Bodies, Ourselves for the MySpace generation, this book by the founder of sex ed website is a comprehensive course in sexuality and sexual health for teens of any orientation and their parents, teachers and counselors…In a society that all too often scolds and belittles teenagers often deserving of more credit, S.E.X. is revolutionary.”
Seattle Post-Intelligencer, 05/13/07
“This is another groundbreaking book.”
Library Journal
“Corinna has put together a blockbuster of a book for young people dealing with sex and relationships. Much like the authors of Our Bodies, Ourselves and its spinoffs, Corinna answers every possible question teens and young adults could have about virginity, puberty, pregnancy, body image, masturbation, sexual identity, the variety of relationships, and the mechanics of partnered sex. She also addresses topics that are often overlooked, e.g., transgender and intergender identities, realistic teen relationship management skills, and pornography. An excellent resource for preteens, teens, young adults, and people working with these populations; highly recommended for most libraries.”
Lisa Jervis, Bitch magazineco-founder
“Not only would my own adolescence have been vastly less painful and confusing if I'd had access to the accurate, comprehensive, and above all nonjudgmental information that Heather Corinna so carefully provides, but S.E.X. is, literally, a lifesaving book: Corinna's vast commonsense wisdom--especially on topics relating to gender roles, queer sexuality, and gender identities--has the potential to improve the physical and emotional health of anyone who reads it, and to help heal our culture's unhealthy, conflicted approaches to sex, sexuality, and gender.”
Bust magazine, June/July 2007
“Sexpert Heather Corinna is the big sis you wish you'd had when you were a confused, pimply teen…Geared towards 16-22-year-olds of any gender, S.E.X. covers the nuts and bolts of anatomy in a tone that's conversational, not cutesy…it's her holistic approach and deft handling of other heavy topics, from eating disorders to abuse, that make this book a must-read.”
Minnesota Women’s Press, July 2007
S.E.X .itself is revolutionary as a feminist, GLBT-friendly and overall progressive collection of sexual education material. It offers an alternative and uplifting view of sex.”
Toronto Star, 7/26/07
“If you're a parent looking for an accurate and non-judgmental text for your blossoming adolescent, or a blossoming adolescent or twenty-something yourself, here it is.”

About the Author

Heather Corinna is a writer, artist, educator, activist, and Internet publisher and community organizer in her mid-thirties. She has been bringing original, inclusive, informative, feminist, creative, and radical sexuality content to the web since 1997.

Product Details

  • File Size: 1667 KB
  • Print Length: 332 pages
  • Publisher: Da Capo Press (May 3, 2007)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0029LCK1A
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45 of 46 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Scarleteen Founder's Sex Ed Book Is A Must Read June 20, 2007
There are so many things to recommend this book aimed at youth 16 - 22 (but containing info valuable to a much wider age range) that it's difficult to know where to begin. S.E.X. contains a lot of the information you find in guides aimed at a young readership - anatomy lessons, safer sex guidelines, a breakdown of birth control options, definitions of various sexual activities and infections. The difference here is Heather Corinna's (who as the founder of the world's most awesome sex ed site, Scarleteen, has seen and heard it all) dedication to tugging the rest of society closer to her dream of a world where everyone is "healthy, happy and whole in themselves and their sexuality: in body, heart, and mind."

To that end the book is truly inclusive. In a section on sexual identity Corinna points out that "this isn't the gay chapter" and indeed the book doesn't assume a heterosexual default the way many do - or root itself in traditional gender roles. Nor does it assume that sex is better when connected with love or marriage. The emphasis is unfailingly on communication, being as safe as possible, respecting your own and others' boundaries and fitting sex into the rest of your life in a healthy and enjoyable way.

The slant seems so balanced and logical that it's a wonder society at large is in such a mess when it comes to sex and sexuality. But popular culture with its constant projection of a hyper-sexuality which is unvarying and prescriptive (dictating what sort of bodies we should have, the kinds of activities we should be engaging in and who should be performing them - and how) would seem to be the enemy of this logic.
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29 of 29 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Bought Two, One for Each Son February 25, 2011
By G.B. R.
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Fabulous book. I just gave copies to my sons, 14 and 18, and I'm convinced it's the only sex education book they will need from now well into their 20s.

I gave each of them a copy along with this note:

"Mom and I are giving you this book, and the notes here, so that you have a great source of factual information about sex and relationships all in one place.

"We know you have had quite a bit of "sex ed" already at school, but there is always more to learn, and after looking around, we think this is one of the best resources. It goes well beyond what school teaching offers, and does a better job than I could even in hours of conversation. It's not easy for parents to talk to kids about sex, so this book at least gets the right information out to you and then opens the door for questions and discussion, whenever you want. I have been married once before and was in various other relationships, so I know a lot about this stuff and I want you to know I am totally open to questions and discussion, any time.

"Mom and I like this book because it's really straightforward and very complete, and also free of any judgmental or moralistic viewpoints. Mom and I both think that's the best approach. You have both been raised to be good and moral persons, so you will use your own "gut" (and advice from us, whenever you want it), to choose what you think is right for yourself and the people close to you.

"Giving you this book is not a substitute for talking about these issues whenever we want or need to. In the meantime, here are some tips on sections that we think you should definitely read ..."

From there I went on to highlight the "must read" sections (safe sex, contraception, consent, etc) and told them we would talk about these.

It's a great book and offers comprehensive information in a matter-of-fact, adult manner and in a format that's easy to flip through to find what you're looking for.
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26 of 29 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Wish I'd had this when I was a teenager... May 2, 2007
Growing up with a mother who volunteered as a counselor for Planned Parenthood, you'd think I would have had a good education in the area of sexuality - but far from it, really the only thing I heard about was birth control. Sexuality is such a huge part of every human being though, it's amazing that we leave the "education" to pop culture. Now the parent of 3 teenaged daughters, I was absolutely thrilled to get a copy of this book. I plan on getting a couple MORE copies, since I haven't been able to pry it from my middle daughter's hands since giving it to her.

As many previous reviewers have mentioned, the book covers everything - not just STIs and birth control, but the psychological and emotional ramifications of becoming sexually active as well. It's thoughtful and not at all condescending, and I have to wonder how much better the world might be if kids had THIS as their sex education instead of music videos.

Corinna is fearless when it comes to discussing the gamut of topics, so as a parent I had to be fearless as well, knowing in my heart and head that accurate information is the best gift I could give my daughters.
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15 of 17 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars The only sex-ed quide you'll ever need April 20, 2007
By TheJoey
Many years ago, when I started working as a moderator on a teen debate site, the person whose job I was taking over told me to direct all sex-ed related queries to a site called, because they would answer the questions better than we ever could. I myself did not check out that site until about a year and a half ago, and when I did, I regretted not having visited in my teens: The site offered everything I was was was desperately looking for but could not find - honest, down-to-earth, realistic advice on all things concerning sex, sexuality, birth control, safety and relationships.

This miracle-site is the brainchild of one Heather Corinna, sex-educator extraordinaire. And now Heather has finally managed to publish the sex-ed guide to end all guides. Like her site, the book is open, honest and straight-forward. It answers all questions without skirting truths or hiding facts. It's body-positive and inclusive, and it is always respectful and never judgemental. In short, this book is the companion you want to have with you during your teen years, and well beyond.

It you want to do yourself or a teen in your life a favour, buy this book.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Great Book To Help Explain "The Talk"
I had been searching for information on how to have the "Talk" with our daughter. I wanted to be sure it wasn't going to be just me saying a few words. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Lauren Elyse
5.0 out of 5 stars Like the message (empowerment) and the clear information
Thought this was very well written and very respectful of teens -- it's not dumbed-down at all. Some other reviewers said they thought it wasn't teen-friendly because it doesn't... Read more
Published 6 months ago by WHOOPSKABOOM
5.0 out of 5 stars Detailed information, more than you probably want to verbally share...
I purchased this for my daughter (16 at the time), who has been a long term relationship (long term being subjective for high school). Read more
Published 10 months ago by TeriS
5.0 out of 5 stars You Ought to read this, it will impact your life for good.
This is an excellent sex Ed book that needs to be more widely read by adults and young people alike, that opened my eyes to many facts that I wasn't privy to beforehand, and is... Read more
Published 11 months ago by Genius
5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect for teens (and anyone who never got a great sex talk!)
I bought this book for my nephew and little sister, since their parents were too afraid of the sex talk! Read more
Published 16 months ago by CynicalRealist
4.0 out of 5 stars good source for dialogue
Well organized book with lots of information for parents and teens. I would recommend this earlier rather than later! Format is easy to read.
Published 18 months ago by amby
5.0 out of 5 stars Good for wide age-range, could use slight updates
Bought this for 16 year old younger brother. Then decided to get myself a copy to have on hand at age 22. Read more
Published 18 months ago by Sarah H.
5.0 out of 5 stars She was embarrassed!
I bought this book for my 20 year old step daughter who is in college. She believes she knows everything about sex. She doesn't have a clue! Read more
Published 21 months ago by Ginger
4.0 out of 5 stars Great advise
I got this book for my then 15 year old. She appreciated the fact that I thought she could get something out of it. Read more
Published 22 months ago by D. Myers
5.0 out of 5 stars Book has a lot of great info.
Totally recommend this for the young reader growing up going through physical and emotional changes. There is so much information on males and females. Read more
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More About the Author

Heather Corinna is the executive director of, the inclusive online resource for teen and young adult sexuality education and information she founded in 1998.

She is the author of S.E.X.: The All-You-Need-to-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to Get You Through High School and College; a co-founder of the All Girl Army; and director of the CONNECT sexual health outreach program for King County, which primarily serves homeless and transient youth. She is on the editorial board of the American Journal of Sexuality Education, a writer and contributing editor for the 2011 edition of Our Bodies, Ourselves, a member of the Board of Directors for NARAL Pro-Choice Washington, and her sexuality advice is also syndicated weekly at RH Reality Check, and she has come on board in 2011 as Ms. Magazine's first sexuality advice columnist online.

Heather was the winner of The Champions of Sexual Literacy Award for Grassroots Activism from the National Sexuality Resource Center/SFSU in 2007; in 2009 the winner of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Western Region's Public Service Award and the Our Bodies, Ourselves' Women's Health Heroes Award. In 2011, Scarleteen won a Seattle Web Award for Best Nonprofit Website. An educator for over 20 years, before working in sex education specifically, she worked in Kindergarten and pre-K education utilizing Montessori and unschooling methods and frameworks.

A Chicago native, she now lives and works on an island in the Pacific Northwest, and will often fill the spare three minutes she has each day hula-hooping, cooking vegan goodies, playing with her pug, exploring forests or making music and art.

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