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The Sadness of Sex [Paperback]

Barry Yourgrau (Author)
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February 2, 1995
From the man The New York Times Book  Review called "an uncommon  diagnostician of the curiosities of the human heart" and  hailed on NPR (National Public Radio) as "the  stand-up comedian of the unconscious" comes  this extraordinary new collction of metaphor-rich,  wildly imaginative short-short stories. Barry  Yourgrau, who performs his written work in clubs  across the country and on NPR, Comedy Central, MTVs  Spoken Word programs, and in an upcoming one-man  feature film, now explores the imagination's twilight  terrain in which love, lust, and loss reside in  this achingly beautiful and rich surreal tour de  force. An affair with a cannibal woman is filled with  devouring kisses. A flower sprouts from a woman's  flesh wherever a man kisses her, impeding their  lovemaking. An abandoned lover seeks repair of the  cuckoo clock that is his heart. Exploring the  archetypal he-and-she from the first glance to the  last tortured look, this exhilirating new collection  of flash-fiction--short-short stories thematically  connected--merges Freud with Fellini, Kafka with  Woody Allen. At once sad, alarming, and wickedly  brilliant, Barry Yourgrau is, in the uneasy land of  desire and heartbreak, the spokesman for our  secret self.

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A group of women remove their private parts, wash them, and hang the pelts on trees to dry. A woman masquerading as a lioness devours her lover. A man carves out his wounded heart, buries it and becomes all the more successful with women. The figure of a clothed girl trapped for centuries in an icy glacier causes the ever soulful male narrator to relinquish his hopes for his own romantic future. In performance artist Yourgrau's new collection, such odd, luminous visions pulse with sadness and humor, loss, irony and desire. The 90 brief but achingly substantial stories most often include a lovelorn male voyeur whose surreal encounters with otherworldly women highlight his suspicion that his is the weaker sex, given to pleading, victimization and endless unnameable yearnings. Death figures again and again, but in the hands of the author of Wearing Dad's Head and A Man Jumps Out of an Airplane, mortality is marked not by finality but by transformation, so that the reckless impulses of the living give way to a somnolent and receptive grace. A drowned man, ministered by mermaids, muses, "They laugh, and push me and pet me, in ignorance of my condition, my sad, human flaw." These are deeply convincing, uncommonly imaginative fictions, told with unparalled style and elegant emotion.
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From the man The New York Times Book Review called "an uncommon diagnostician of the curiosities of the human heart" and hailed on NPR (National Public Radio) as "the stand-up comedian of the unconscious" comes this extraordinary new collction of metaphor-rich, wildly imaginative short-short stories. Barry Yourgrau, who performs his written work in clubs across the country and on NPR, Comedy Central, MTVs Spoken Word programs, and in an upcoming one-man feature film, now explores the imagination's twilight terrain in which love, lust, and loss reside in this achingly beautiful and rich surreal tour de force. An affair with a cannibal woman is filled with devouring kisses. A flower sprouts from a woman's flesh wherever a man kisses her, impeding their lovemaking. An abandoned lover seeks repair of the cuckoo clock that is his heart. Exploring the archetypal he-and-she from the first glance to the last tortured look, this exhilirating new collection of flash-fiction--short-short stories thematically connected--merges Freud with Fellini, Kafka with Woody Allen. At once sad, alarming, and wickedly brilliant, Barry Yourgrau is, in the uneasy land of desire and heartbreak, the spokesman for our secret self.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 255 pages
  • Publisher: Delta (February 2, 1995)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0385313764
  • ISBN-13: 978-0385313766
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.5 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #894,836 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars The Sadness of Sex: An intoxicating adventure, February 14, 1997
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When was the last time that you read a collection of short stories so well written and colourful and that you could taste the words thick in your mouth and you flinched at the imagery. Seldom does one stumble across the work of a writer that can demonstrate such a clear understanding and command of the English language as Barry Yourgrau. In The Sadness of Sex, Yourgrau cleverly exposes an upside-down and inside-out non-reality to us by skillfully articulating those curiously insane and fleeting thoughts that most of us would fear to ever entertain. He writes in a contemporary style that is nothing short of profoundly unique. Unique because his words innocently catch you up in imaginary nets fashioned from the fabric of insightful and disturbing comedic absurdities and imagery. The Sadness of Sex is a collection of short attention span short stories, most between two and three pages long. This book is a charming collection of fiction that tricks you into simulaneously entertaining a poetic intimacy and a twisted sense of melancholy. It is a quiet journey into a world of colourful visions and lucid dreams that are a delightfully engaging and startlingly surreal. Yourgrau's The Sadness of Sex is not for everyone though. He often entices the reader into follow him down cerebral avenues where all his, and sometimes our, most peculiar psycho-sexual images and ideas hide. This book is a tribute to the unchecked thoughts, desires and innocent human emotions in all of us. If Pablo Neruda and a not-so-crass Charles Bukowski got together and wrote stories about Salvador Dali paintings while they watched Monty Python re-runs, it might start to sound a little like The Sadness of Sex.
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5.0 out of 5 stars So good it inspired a shift in my own art, January 20, 2011
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My first copy of this book was bought at New York's Strand bookshop, and within four hours I had annotated and illustrated my copy so intensely that it became the best representation of my own interior world. The stories are so brief and so evocative, I couldn't resist filling the rest of each page's blank space with sprawling doodles and word constructions that took these ideas further. I loaned this copy to a friend, who I felt needed to see this treasure I had co-created. She left it on a bar. Gone! Yet somehow the stories within inspire me to believe some other lonely drinker found it and was encouraged on a similar quest of his own. This was microfiction before microfiction existed, and I haven't seen it done as well again since.
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5.0 out of 5 stars I think about it all of the time, December 29, 2009
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I read this collection of stories several years ago after finding it in my college book store. It is so beautiful and crazy and the title always intrigues everyone that reads the red letters on the yellow spine.

Somehow the stories in this book have never left me. I think about them all of the time. Definitely Yourgrau's finest work.
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