Safe Haven Marriage [Paperback]

Archibald Hart (Author), Sharon Hart Morris (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: February 5, 2003

Creating a safe haven for each other in a marriage can enable a couple to weather any storm. However, that accomplishment is certainly easier said than done. Two psychologists present a detailed blueprint for establishing a marital safe haven so that couples can count on each other and avoid criticizing, blaming and shutting out their partners during tough times.

Product Details

• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: W Publishing Group (February 5, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0849991536
• ISBN-13: 978-0849991530
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 5.9 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,727,706 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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21 of 21 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A great book that can save your marriage, October 13, 2003

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gary a sibcy II (madison hieghts, va United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Safe Haven Marriage (Hardcover)

When you get married, your partner becomes a secure base, a safe haven; someone you can trust to listen and care about your concerns. The secure base is at the heart of your marriage. Whenever this is shattered, the marriage begins failing and, if the wound is not repaired, the relationship can eventually fall apart. This book does a wonderful job of explaining how to identify the wounds in your marriage and how to--practically--go about healing them. I have recommended it to many of my clients and they simply love it. If your marriage is struggling, you may want to check this book out.

25 of 26 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars safe enough to connect, June 7, 2003

By A Customer

This review is from: Safe Haven Marriage (Hardcover)

This book is about how the arguments between you and your spouse keep you both from emotionally connecting. This book helped my wife and I realize that our conversations focused on trying to get each other to see our own side. We never stopped to understand each other. I defended myself against her accusations until I finally emotionally withdrew and put my emotional energy into work and my own interests. She kept at me saying that if she didn't I would never pay attention to her. My wife and I have been fighting like this for years. Safe Haven Marriage has helped us understand our fight cycle, why we fight and what we can do to change the way we share our views. It helped me see that when my wife's 'porcupine quills' come out and she is mad at me, underneath she is trying to get me to understand her and draw me in. 'Safe Haven Marriage' has helped us understand each other. A great book with great stories. I highly recommend it. It has helped us 'emotionally connect' for the first time in a long time.

18 of 18 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars a real haven, February 23, 2003

By A Customer

This review is from: Safe Haven Marriage (Hardcover)

a fantastic book. i could not put it down. This is a realistic look at marriage and how to emotionally re-connect with your spouse. It touched right where i live in my marriage, and spoke to my real needs in my marriage. I don't want to learn how to 'communicate', i want to be more than friends with my spouse, i want to emotionally connect. This is the first book that outlined how i can do that. This is the only book i know that blends a Christian perspective with the emotionally focused therapy approach. The stories were informative and very realistic. I highly recommend the book.