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Deborah Lynn Jacobs (Author)
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October 1, 2000
Fourteen-year-old Casey has a twin sister, Chelsea. Chelsea is autistic, Casey is not, or at least that is what she has always been told by her parents. But from the first day that Casey begins ninth grade in public school, she knows that she is in trouble and begins to sense that her worst fears about herself may be true.

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Previously, Casey had been home schooled, allowing her to help her parents with her sister, then she herself decided that she wanted to go to regular school in order to meet other teenagers and have a more normal life. In regular school, it quickly becomes apparent that although she is bright, with an amazing memory, Casey is totally inept at judging people's reactions and interpreting non-verbal clues. She is abrupt, dominates conversations by spouting a torrent of facts, and is quite unaware of the negative responses of others. At times, she escapes into a dream world and totally tunes out those around her.

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Anticipating some difficulties, Casey's parents had arranged for an in-school peer tutor, Scott, to teach her some interpersonal skills. Scott finds Casey a bit odd, but recognizes that this original person also has a sense of humor. A friendship grows, and along with beginning to understand what friendship means and how to react to Scott's needs as a friend, Casey begins to fear that she will make mistakes with his friendship and with others. Anxious over school and making friends, she begins to lose control. After an argument with Scott, she walks out of school and heads home. Scott follows, and there meets Chelsea. He is fascinated, not repulsed.

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In an effort to explain to Scott what is was like to grow up with an autistic twin, Casey shows him old videos of her sister's behavior modification training sessions, and discovers a session of her own. It appears that she is not as normal as she has been led to believe. She shuts the world out. Only Scott being threatened by the bully in the piece, Carl, brings Casey to Scott's defense and to a turning point in her life.


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  • Reading level: Ages 13 and up
  • Paperback: 187 pages
  • Publisher: Royal Fireworks Publishing Company (October 1, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0880924659
  • ISBN-13: 978-0880924658
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 6.7 x 0.4 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,162,641 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars a/A in the Family, September 4, 2005
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Casey and Chelsea, 14 are identical twins. Chelsea has severe autism; is nonverbal; has severe meltdowns; is devoted to routines and a gifted artist. She loved doing detailed drawings of birds.

Casey quotes long reams of facts; has memorized the Guinness Book of World Records; categorizes her geodes; kept her dolls lined up in alphabetical order based on the nationality they represented and knows the lines to many old movies. She prides herself on not having autism like her sister. She is in for a surprise!

Casey had been homeschooled ostensibly to help her parents with her sister. The twins had a home teacher during their early years; I did not like it when the girls' parents did not answer Casey directly when she asked why Chelsea's teacher worked with her as well. At that time Casey did not know she had more in common with Chelsea than an identical genetic base.

At 14, she is enrolled in the district high school and is paired with Scott in the Peer Mentoring Program. Scott is very kind, patient and protective of Casey; he explains Social Codes & Rules as best he can. She takes everything people say literally and when told certain ice breaker comments upon meeting people, she uses them all. She also tries to impress people with her chains of facts.

Scott also helps Casey see that people who call themselves her friends while asking her to do their work for them are just taking advantage of her. He also helps her learn to "empathize" by saying that she might ask how he's doing after he broke his arm. He watches movies with her and turns the sound down and asks her how the characters might feel in given situations.

In time, Casey realizes she has Asperger's, the spectrum partner of autism. She is a wonderfully plausible character that people with Asperger's can relate to; like Chris of "The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night Time," people with Asperger's will recognize themselves in Casey. Her demand for order, e.g. insisting that her geodes and dolls be placed in a certain order; her social naivete and bewilderment over people's responses will certainly be recognizable. It is through Scott's loving diligence that Casey learns that her father has Asperger's as well. He is, by his own account "a computer geek;" his special interests include old movies and doing character voices. Like Chelsea, he is bound to following a routine and does not like to deviate from it.

Casey realizes that she shares a place on the spectrum with her father and sister. One part that I just loved was when Casey, forced to endure a playdate as a young child pulled her playmate's hair when the other child wanted to play with her dolls. Casey could not understand the rationale for "talking" for the dolls and wanted them to remain in the order in which she had placed them. Since the playdate was more for the girls' mothers than the girls themselves, I just loved it when Casey asserted herself. Even so, that gave a good example of spectrum behavior.

This is an excellent book about acceptance; tolerance and understanding the confusion that people on the a/A spectrum contend with on a routine basis. What makes this book all the more interesting is that it is about identical twins, who share an identical genetic makeup. Scott even pointed out that in many cases involving identical twins and autism, only one twin has the condition. All in all, an outstanding work.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Wow!, January 20, 2003
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I loved this book! The characters are so involved, they grow continuously throughout it. I loved the way Casey had to adapt as she went through the book in order to survive everyday life. All in all, a very good read.
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4.0 out of 5 stars very good, July 16, 2002
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this book is great. i loved it and loved the chacters in too bad it was so short. i am hoping for a sqeul
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