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Savage Love: Straight Answers from America's Most Popular Sex Columnist [Kindle Edition]

Dan Savage
3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (46 customer reviews)

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Book Description

Welcome to the hot new wave of writing about sex: Savage Love. Columnist Dan Savage has hand-picked over 300 letters from six years worth of "Savage Love," a no-holds-barred syndicated sex-advice column which runs in 16 papers in the United States and Canada, including The Village Voice and the San Francisco Weekly. An original and funny thinker, thrashing around in the playground of human sexuality, Savage advises on a wide range of titillating topics:

* What is the best seduction music?

* How do I come out to my fundamentalist parents?

* What is so wonderful about intercourse, anyway?

Forget Anka Radakovich and Isadora Altman. Tune in to Dan Savage as he answers these questions and much more in his own uniquely irreverent and sexually spunky style.

Editorial Reviews

From Library Journal

Sex advice columns provide enlightenment for the erotically challenged as well as voyeuristic entertainment, and the aptonymic Savage delivers on both counts. Channeling Dr. Ruth through the acid pen of H.L. Mencken, he leaves no fool unskewered while delivering startlingly frank, howlingly funny, and consistently excellent guidance for the intimate dilemmas of straights, gays, and everyone else. With his six-year-old column now syndicated in 16 newspapers, Savage maintains that his gayness gives him an advantage in his craft. Certainly his large hetero fan club?as well as this book?testify to his catholic skills. Dingbat-lovers, beware. Savage does not use four-letter words so much as wear them, with considerable and appropriate impact. The unique effect is of old-fashioned common sense, unconstrained by political correctness and cloaked in ultraradical lingo. Especially recommended for libraries in urban and university locations and wherever Savage Love is syndicated.?Martha Cornog, American Coll. of Physicians, Philadelphia
Copyright 1998 Reed Business Information, Inc.

About the Author

Dan Savage's column, "Savage Love," is a nationally syndicated sex-advice column read by more than four million people each week. He has written the column for eight years, and it runs in twenty-six newspapers in the United States and Canada. He also writes "Dear Dan," an online advice column for Savage is the associate editor of The Stranger in Seattle and a regular contributor to This American Life on NPR and is the author of Savage Love (Plume), a collection of his advice columns. He lives in Seattle, Washington.

Product Details

  • File Size: 542 KB
  • Print Length: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Plume (October 1, 1998)
  • Sold by: Penguin Group (USA) LLC
  • Language: English
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #326,111 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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112 of 123 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Look, it's just an advice column. But a very funny one. February 20, 1999
By A Customer
Opinions on this book seem to fall into one of three categories:
1) Dan Savage is a god and his advice is perfect. Everyone must read these pearls of ultimate wisdom.
2) Dan Savage is entertaining, and people with a sense of humor about sex should read his book.
3) Dan Savage is a sick, twisted, perverted moron. No one should touch his disgusting book.
Well, since that's pretty much the spectrum of opinions about sex, too, no surprises there. But who is right?
Well, Dan Savage is not a god, and he's not always right. Pay attention to the introduction, where he explains his, um, qualifications. Pay attention to the parts where he explains his take on this - that it's advice, not orders, and it's done for entertainment, not enlightment. Pay attention to the columns with stupid mistakes, folks, 'cause he included them for a reason.
And while I'm not gonna make any judgement call about Dan Savage's moral state (he may well be sick, twisted, perverted, whatever), nor can I make any calls about his mental state (maybe he is just a moron with a really good editor), I can say this: he's answering the letters he gets from his readers in the way that his readers like. So obviously his audience can handle this content and this style. If you aren't in his audience, why are you buying this book? To burn it later? What a waste of good paper, and, incidentally, what a good way to hand money to a guy you apparently hate.
I incline to the second opinion category. It is funny - the answers have the right ratio of wit to information (20:1), and the letters are usually hysterical. (Even Savage, who often manages to make honesty sound like an ego trip, admits that the letters he gets are usually funnier than the responses he writes.
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30 of 33 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Cranky, crass and wildly funny. September 22, 1999
I've been reading Dan Savage for several years now, and couldn't have been happier than to see so much of his writing assembled in one convenient package (toting around all those back issues of the New York Press was getting my hands all newsprinty...).
Dan isn't particularly groundbreaking in his advice. Fortunately, that isn't necessary; most of the people who write into him seem to be candidates for the Darwin Awards. When he's mean, it's usually deserved.
The wonder is in the humor. Yes, the column is usually more about Dan Savage than anything else, but of course that's the subtext of most good essayists and all good comedians. Were we as interesting or funny as Dan we might also be paid to write about ourselves, but since we aren't, we put our efforts into macrame or geneology or philately. Or dreadful websites that make family Christmas letters look like Henry James.
The oddest criticism, however, is the suggestion he has no morals. (The real criticism, of course, is that his morals are different from the reader's, but that point always seems to escape these people.) In fact, Dan wears his morals on his shirt sleeve, and they're often not that much different from a lot of folks': honesty, fairness, fidelity, prudence.
My only question: why hasn't he moved to New York? He'd fit in much better here. I should know, I left Seattle!
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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Wish I'd had this book when growing up! March 21, 1999
By A Customer
What guts Dan Savage has! Finally, someone who will actually give real answers to people's questions. Sex is one of our most basic instincts, the driving force behind sports, love, romance, daily activity and most relationships. Most people pussyfoot around reality, asking indirect questions and getting less than direct answers. Dan gets to the real issues and gets people to talk about what they're really worried about. Every high school student in America would be well-served to have such information available, in my opinion, and I wish I'd had this book to read when I was growing up. The book is so very funny - I picked it up in Cleveland last fall and for awhile carried it with me on business flights. I had to stop reading the book on planes because I was causing such a comotion with my spontaneous outbursts of laughter. If you only read the book for the humor it's worthwhile but if you don't use the information and take it to heart, you're a fool. Excellent book!
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Hysterical Wisdom and 'straight' talk January 31, 2002
Our culture is so in the dark about sexuality that we make it easy for Dan Savage to unload his ultra-sharp wit while simultaneously educating our pants off. Savage will answer any question for the sake of education. For this alone, you'll read his responses to questions you already know the answers for. This book even had a few questions that would never have occured to me to ask!
I recommend it for anyone who is curious about sexuality, loves a good laugh and is mystified by the silliness of other human beings. He gives good advice that you'll pass onto your friends, even if it is with a laugh.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Funny, raunchy, and surprisingly moral April 29, 2002
By A Customer
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Dan Savage might hate to hear this, but he has a fairly conventional morality. Yes, that gay advocate of sexual pleasure, known from time to time to advocate infidelity, actually comes across as a person who, through hearing the whinings and self-deception of thousands of letter writers, has come to some general conclusions like: honesty is really a good idea in the long run, consideration will usually rebound in your favor, etc.
No, nobody is going to read this book to hear from someone with a neoconservative ethics. You're going to read it to get some pointers on oral or anal sex, or for the laughs, or to learn about the best sex tip: talking to your partner about what you want.
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3.0 out of 5 stars OK but the Podcast is better
In my opinion, Modern Dan Savage is way more interesting and engaging than this book by the Old Dan Savage. Read more
Published 2 months ago by P. Torelli
5.0 out of 5 stars Fun to read
Fun to read, enjoyed every page! The best part is wondering if people are this silly - I guess sometimes they really are.
Published 3 months ago by Lynn Mahlmeister
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book
Loved the funny. His awswers were refreshingly honest and even if you don't like his advice you can appreciate the cander.
Published 4 months ago by Chuck Jackson
5.0 out of 5 stars What a hoot this guy is
I only discovered Dan Savage from an appearance on Bill Maher's show. I have now made my way through two of his books, as a kind of guilty pleasure, but his advice and honesty are... Read more
Published 6 months ago by James D. Held
3.0 out of 5 stars Not the best from Dan Savage...
This is a collection of Savage's earliest columns and definitely reflects that he was learning as he went along. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Sipsie
4.0 out of 5 stars Beware bigots
For an atheist liberal like me, Savage isn't likely to ruffle my feathers but if you're a conservative Christian? He will make you see red. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Kestrel
5.0 out of 5 stars What is universal is, no matter who you are, you should know to ask...
Even if you are not interested in gay male sex, anal sex, STIs, you should read this to really understand the astonishing variety of what people are really thinking about, wanting,... Read more
Published 9 months ago by Beatrice Izzey
2.0 out of 5 stars Book
It's a very 'past ago' reading. This book would have been good reading a few year's back, now outdated. Wish I would have read more about it before buying it.
Published 11 months ago by E. Sanchez
3.0 out of 5 stars A little overboard
While I realize that Dan Savage was bullied as a child, and that he has a right to defend his sexual identity, it is my personal opinion that he sometimes goes overboard in making... Read more
Published 17 months ago by Art
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book whether you have an awesome sex life or not
My wife and I enjoyed reading this book together - part of one of those getting to know each other kind of things. Read more
Published 17 months ago by DSeverance
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More About the Author

Dan Savage is a writer, activist, and TV personality best known for his political and social commentary, as well as his honest approach to sex, love and relationships.

Savage is the author of: American Savage: Insights, Slights, and Fights on Faith, Sex, Love, and Politics; The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage and My Family; Skipping Towards Gomorrah: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Pursuit of Happiness in America (Lambda Literary Award for Nonfiction); The Kid: What Happened When My Boyfriend and I Decided to Get Pregnant (PEN West Award for Creative Nonfiction); and Savage Love. He co-authored How to be a Person. The Kid was adapted into an Off-Broadway play and has recently been optioned for film.

Savage is the Editorial Director of The Stranger, Seattle's weekly alternative newspaper, and his writing has appeared in widely in publications including The New York Times, The New York Times Magazine, GQ, Rolling Stone, The Onion, and Savage is also a contributor to Ira Glass's This American Life. "Savage Love" is syndicated in newspapers and websites throughout the United States, Canada, Europe and Asia.

In 2010, Savage and his husband, Terry Miller, launched a YouTube video meant to offer hope to bullied LGBTQ youth. The It Gets Better Project has become a global movement, inspiring more than 50,000 videos. Savage and Miller co-edited the It Gets Better book, published in March 2011. In 2012, the It Gets Better Project received the Governors Award at the Creative Arts Emmys.

Savage grew up in Chicago and now lives in Seattle, Washington with his husband and their son, DJ.

Photos by LaRae Lobdell.


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