In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man [Paperback]

Michelle McKinney Hammond (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: October 21, 2003

The Secrets to Finding, Nurturing–or Being–an Irresistible Man.

Never before has the search for real connection between the sexes been more important–or more confusing. Single women want to know what they should ask for–not settle for–in a mate, while married women wonder how they can nurture godly character traits in their husbands. Men, both single and married, wonder what women really want. Both genders are long on questions and short on answers.

Where Can Men and Women Go for Help?

In Proverbs 31, Scripture presents a powerful composite of a virtuous woman. But what about the virtuous man–what does the Bible say about him? Popular Bible teacher Michelle McKinney Hammond tackles this timely and important question, digging into Scripture to study key men–from Adam to Christ himself, the ultimate bridegroom–to learn what God requires of husbands and men, and to lay out a trustworthy model of how men and women can live in healthy, fulfilling relationship.

Find out what you can do to identify, nurture–or become–a truly godly man and mate in In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man.

“This is not a man bashing book, but one that champions the original design for their lives. Women need real men.” –Michelle McKinney Hammond

Editorial Reviews

Review

“Men, if you want to become a truly godly man and husband, In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man is a must-read. Women, if you want to know what to look for and nurture in a lifelong mate, this book is for you, too.”
–Dr. Greg Smalley, president and CEO, Smalley Relationship Center

“Michelle McKinney Hammond tells it like it is, without pretense or sugarcoating. In her own unique style, she relays simple truths concerning the essence of masculinity from God’s perspective. Every man wants to be ideal, but not many know what it takes to be God’s ideal man. In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man identifies God’s heartbeat concerning men. It points out the fact that a false understanding of manhood can be damaging not only to the individual, but to those for whom he cares a great deal. This book shows you that the Proverbs 31 man is not damaged goods; instead, he’s a ‘polished diamond’ in the eyes of the Great Diamond Maker.”
–Dr. Creflo A. Dollar, CEO of World Changers Ministries and author of The Successful Family

“Michelle McKinney Hammond never wastes even a second of your time. She skirts no issues, never runs from controversy, and consistently engages her readers in authentic and entertaining dialog. She is so quick-witted, outrageously funny, and she holds your attention from start to finish. This is one of her most perceptive books. It’s right on the mark. It goes to the heart of the ever-present man—woman debate, and it weighs in on the side of truth, of what works, and of what it takes to build a satisfying relationship that will last a lifetime. She speaks strongly to men, and she speaks just as strongly to women. As a ‘seasoned’ clinical psychologist, I find her ideas highly stimulating and unusually helpful.”
–Neil Clark Warren, Ph.D., founder of eHarmony.com

“Who isn’t in search of the Proverbs 31 man? This book is for singles who want to know what character qualities are a must in a mate; for men who are confused by our culture and want to know what kind of man God esteems; and for women, tired of pressuring their men, who want to find the freedom of being a helper and soul mate. Michelle McKinney Hammond helps us discover the power of a Proverbs 31 couple who is willing to do it God’s way.”
–Jan Frank, speaker and coauthor of Unclaimed Baggage

From the Inside Flap

The Secrets to Finding, Nurturing?or Being?an Irresistible Man.

Never before has the search for real connection between the sexes been more important?or more confusing. Single women want to know what they should ask for?not settle for?in a mate, while married women wonder how they can nurture godly character traits in their husbands. Men, both single and married, wonder what women really want. Both genders are long on questions and short on answers.

Where Can Men and Women Go for Help?

In Proverbs 31, Scripture presents a powerful composite of a virtuous woman. But what about the virtuous man?what does the Bible say about him? Popular Bible teacher Michelle McKinney Hammond tackles this timely and important question, digging into Scripture to study key men?from Adam to Christ himself, the ultimate bridegroom?to learn what God requires of husbands and men, and to lay out a trustworthy model of how men and women can live in healthy, fulfilling relationship.

Find out what you can do to identify, nurture?or become?a truly godly man and mate in In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man.

?This is not a man bashing book, but one that champions the original design for their lives. Women need real men.? ?Michelle McKinney Hammond

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Product Details

• Paperback: 208 pages
• Publisher: WaterBrook Press (October 21, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1578564514
• ISBN-13: 978-1578564514
• Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.6 x 9 inches
• Shipping Weight: 9.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #114,967 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Michelle McKinney Hammond is the author of over 30 books on living, loving, and overcoming. She is the President and Founder of HeartWing Ministries, which hosts annual DIVA Weekend Getaway Conferences. As a relationship and empowerment coach, internationally known speaker, singer and television co-host, it is Michelle's mission and passion to help women and men to first be intimately connected to God and then empowered to become their personal best in order to experience victory in every area of their lives.

Michelle's ministry began many years ago when she suffered a devastating leg injury from being hit by a car. The accident was a spiritual turning point, a wake up call to embrace her purpose and fulfill her destiny. Those bedridden months gave her time to complete her first bestselling book, "What to Do Until Love Finds You."

Michelle eventually left behind her career as an advertising art director/writer/producer for clients such as Coca Cola USA, McDonald's Corporation, Ford Motor Company, and others, to speak to audiences, encouraging people to fulfill their God-given purpose in life.

Customer Reviews

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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Totally beneficial for life's questions on gender roles., April 30, 2005

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MrsCybersmitty (Washington State) - See all my reviews

This review is from: In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man (Paperback)

Even though In Search of the Proverbs 31 Mans' main focus is to understand and emphasize the male role in life, the author explores the perspective of both female and male points of view for a well rounded look at our different callings. Biblical characters are researched and treated as real people to more explicitly explain the gender roles. After reading this book you will know where you stand in line with God, man or woman.

This book is one of the best relationship books ever written! Everybody should get at least one chance to read it. It can only be beneficial to the soul. It is very well written, to keep the readers attention. The author knows her bible very well and has done her research.

27 of 30 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Reading for Men and Women!, May 29, 2004

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Tyora Moody "cookieaisle" (Columbia, SC, USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man (Paperback)

So much has been shared about the Proverbs 31 woman. This "superwoman" has intimidated many women through the years. Often readers forget the Proverbs 31 woman had a very supportive husband. In verse 28 it says, "Her children respect and bless her; her husband joins in with words of praise (The Message; emphasis mine)."

In her latest book, In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man, Michelle McKinney Hammond goes through a list of characteristics a Proverbs 31 man should possess. Unlike some of her other relationship books, this one was not written with just one particular group in mind. Men and women whether married or single will benefit from the principles addressed. Some principles seem unattainable, but Michelle emphasizes God strengthens people through the Holy Spirit to fulfill their current or future roles as Proverbs 31 mates. Thought-provoking reflections and further study ideas are provided at the end of each chapter for each gender and couples.

This was a well laid out and thoughtful book. The book is definitely not just for men or single women in search of a mate. For those who have been married for a while the principles presented will serve as a reminder "nothing is impossible" with God.

14 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Have a relationship w/God; know yourself, what you desire..., July 21, 2004

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D. Daniel (Los Angeles, CA USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man (Paperback)

If you have read the previous works of Ms. Hammond, have a true relationship with God, know something about yourself and what you desire in a godly mate, then this book will assist you in clarifying what you need. It will also bring clarity to your role in the relationship whether you're male or female. With discernment you are able to identify which information applies to you, even if you are without your mate. This is an excellent book for single males, females and a definite must for godly couples. God has a purpose for the marriage relationship. Here Ms. Hammond helps us to begin to grasp His concept.