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Secret Daughter: A Mixed-Race Daughter and the Mother Who Gave Her Away [Hardcover]

June Cross (Author)
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May 18, 2006
A powerful memoir about the complicated but ultimately loving relationship between a black daughter and her white mother

Secret Daughter is a deftly drawn and moving portrait of a childhood spent in two very different worlds: one white, one black. In 1957, when June Cross was four years old, she was sent by her white mother to live with a black family in Atlantic City. Her mother, Norma, had left June’s abusive father, a comic in the well-known black vaudeville duo Stump and Stumpy, and gave June up when it became clear that her dark-skinned, kinky-haired child could no longer "pass." Within her adopted family, June struggled with her identity as the black radicalism of the times collided head on with her family’s more traditional ideals. Summer vacations were spent with her mother, now in Hollywood and married to F Troop TV actor Larry Storch. For many years, Norma, afraid that Larry’s career would suffer if anyone discovered the truth about her illegitimate daughter, told friends and reporters that June was adopted. Secret Daughter, which grew out of Cross’s Emmy Award–winning documentary, traces this thorny story with poignancy and skill. It is both a vivid snapshot of race relations in America and an inspiring journey of understanding between a mother and daughter.



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Using her 1997 Emmy Award– winning documentary, Secret Daughter, as inspiration for her memoir of the same name, Cross, a TV producer and journalism professor at Columbia University, narrates her life as the daughter of a white woman and a well-known black vaudevillian (Jimmy Cross) who was handed over to a black couple for rearing. Several elements fight for the center of this memoir: the emotional roller coaster of life spent between her bourgeois adoptive black family in Atlantic City and her Hollywood show business biological mother (who usually introduced her daughter as a niece or having been adopted); her undergraduate difficulties at the Harvard Crimson, "a club of smart-assed white boys and prefeminist women, more butch than liberated"; and life in the '60s ("It was the season of Angela Davis's trial, so prisons were hip"). She also weaves in gossipy show business tales that follow the career trajectory of F Troop actor Larry Storch as well as some settling of scores (Jerry Lewis borrowed from her father's act "Stump and Stumpy" but didn't send flowers to his funeral). Unfortunately, the bits and pieces fail to cohere, and her narrative often falls flat ("I rose from the piano stool and crossed the room") in what is otherwise an intriguing story. (May 22)
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At four years old, Cross was sent by her white mother, Norma, to live with a childless black couple in Atlantic City. Norma had finally comes to terms with the difficulty of raising a mixed-race child in the 1950s, especially after the failure of her relationship with the child's father, a comic who was part of the famous black vaudeville act Stump and Stumpy. For Cross, it was the beginning of a life of confusion about racial identity, straddling the middle-class black world, where well-mannered behavior might stave off mistreatment, and her mother's freewheeling bohemian life of white entertainers. Her mother confided that if June hadn't darkened after birth, she would have kept her. After Norma's marriage to actor Larry Storch, it was even more urgent that it not be known that she had an illegitimate, mixed-race child, and Cross had to pretend to be Norma's niece or adopted daughter. This is a poignant follow-up on Cross' Emmy Award-winning documentary portraying the strains of a complicated family structure, ruptured by race, secrecy, and human fallibility. Vanessa Bush
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Viking Adult; First Printing edition (May 18, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 067088555X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0670885558
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (39 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #896,366 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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43 of 46 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A powerful book - well worth reading!, May 26, 2006
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I just finished reading this powerful book and dissolved into tears. It is so honest and personal an account of a life lived in two places, one black and one white and the inner struggles and outer slights that resulted from this displacement. It is also a love story of a white mother who couldn't keep her bi-racial daughter, didn't always understand the shoes that she walked in, but loved her the best way she knew how from afar. The author writes from such a deep place that anyone can identify with her, no matter what their background. The writing is moving, wonderful and well crafted, often poignant and gut wrenching. It is also a success story of someone putting back the pieces of a fragmented life torn with racial dissent and misunderstanding. But it will help you understand your world better and hers as well, so that it becomes one world- not hers, not yours, but all of ours. It is not filled with self pity, does not lecture, has wonderful show business and socially significant insights and will make you laugh cry and think. Anyone who reads this will be all the more richer as a human being for doing so.... I know I was!
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25 of 26 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Complex mother, December 25, 2006
This review is from: Secret Daughter: A Mixed-Race Daughter and the Mother Who Gave Her Away (Hardcover)
June Cross first told her story in a PBS series tracing her black father's history. In this book, we get a more in depth look at the white mother who gave her away.

Truthfully, Norma, June's mother, didn't come off well in the television special. In the book, she comes across as more complex though the reader can't help but sometimes be annoyed by June's loyalty to her especially when she denies June is her daughter to rich and upper class friends in her famous husband's circles. This is compounded by June's failure to truly appreciate Peggy the woman who raised her. But Norma's decision to give away her daughter is almost understandable considering the racial attitudes towards interracial relationships in the 1950s.

The situation is further complicated when we learn Norma had two other white children who she neglected just as much as June. No matter how much the daughter tries, Norma is obviously self involved and an example that not every woman who gives birth is meant to be a mother.

The book is interesting reading and shows even famous people have complex family relationships.

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19 of 20 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A moving memoir as well as an informative history lesson, July 20, 2006
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Struggles between mothers and daughters have existed since the beginning of time. Add to that the issues of race barriers, ignorance, family and social pressures, and you find a moving memoir that you just can't put down.

Being a Mother to a bi-racial child, and having the fortune to see June Cross speak in-person regarding her experiences, I was drawn to purchase this book. June's story definitely pulls at the heart-strings. Its a wonderful example not only of a strong woman's journey to persevere through her personal struggles, but also her ability to bring her two, very different worlds, together.

In addition to the moving personal insights, June manages to bring a "tale of the times" into her book. Personal observations of the civil rights movement in America, from both sides of the fence, as well as pop-culture references, provide a unique historical view.

As a mom, it would be easy for me to judge Norma, June's biological Mother, for not having enough backbone to be the Mother she should have been. However June brings to light, the pieces of Norma's history that ultimately pave the way to her poor decisions. Regardless the negative circumstances, June and Norma manage to surmount the adversity and maintain a love for each other.

Truly a wonderful read.
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I search for my mother's face in the mirror and see a stranger. Read the first page
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Aunt Peggy, Atlantic City, New York, Uncle Paul, Uncle Hugh, Aunt Hugh, Los Angeles, United States, Indiana Avenue, Larry Storch, Las Vegas, Shirley Temple, Teacher Pat, Sammy Davis, Uncle Ernie, Uncle Gum, Long Beach, North Indiana, Atlantic Avenue, Aunt Syl, James Cross, Miss America, Ronald Reagan, Teacher Helen, Aunt Norma
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