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Seduce Me! How to Ignite Your Partner's Passion

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"Seduce Me" is primarily a book about sexuality between couples. Many couples recall when they were first dating and it seemed that they were constantly touching each other. At time wears on that touching becomes less and less and sexual activity also declines. Author Darcy Cole discusses physiological and psychological factors in this change and how to get back the sexual fire. She notes that it takes very little to get men in the mood for sexual relations but men don't generally understand what is required to get a woman in the mood. This book details the various factors involved and how they work together to get a woman interested in sex. "Seduce Me" is very detailed in its descriptions and provides a wealth of information for those who want to understand the process of female seduction. While many parents would have a big problem with this book being included in a high school library, it is a very appropriate book for those wanting to increase their partner's sexual desire.

I was disappointed after reading this book. It was written for men who want to get their partners more interested in sex. It does nothing for the woman who wishes to get her man more interested. Believe it or not, some women have higher sex drives than their man. If you're a man needing some help with your partner, this is a good read. For a woman needing help with her man -- keep looking -- this book is not for you.

I learned so much from this book, particularly the scientific explanations as to why women and men react they way they do. For instance, I had no idea how birth control pills or other medications can affect desire for sex, or how types of stress cause hormonal changes that ruin sex drives. I also learned alot about the female psyche and how what is going on in her mind interferes with getting her in the mood. Once you understand the problems, the solutions make alot of sense. I really enjoyed this book and recommend it for any couple wanting to keep the fires burning, whether they need a little spark, or a major overhaul. You can read it quickly, get a comprehensive treatment of the topic, and put the solutions to work in one weekend.

After reading "Seduce Me! How to Ignite Your Partner's Passion", I immediately made arrangements to purchase an initial order of 50 copies for our medical office. Through our patient-centered obstetrics and gynecology practice, we treat thousands of women annually and receive questions and concerns about sexual libido daily.

I found this book to be very informative, presenting scientific biochemical data and psychological insights in a manner that any of our patients could easily comprehend.

Beyond that, the recommendations offer clear and fun solutions, addressing both sexual and relationship issues. I would estimate that 1 in 4 women I see daily ask me about problems with sexual desire and fulfillment, and I am very pleased to be able to provide "Seduce Me!" to them as an excellent and enjoyable resource.

Why does he fall asleep on the couch, rather than coming to bed? Why does she so often have a headache? What happened to the spark of electricity that was there when you just started seeing each other? Where is the passion?

It isn't really gone. It might be hidden under levels of stress or lost among the maddeningly packed calendar of events, but it can be re-sparked. The key is to look into the whys of the roadblocks to the bedroom. Clear those up and you will be free to proceed down the highway of intimacy again.

With a background in health care management and business consulting, it is clear that Darcy Cole is a problem solver who cares about the problem! Applying scientific research, anecdotal evidence and yes, personal experience to the development of "Seduce Me!", Darcy has completed a guide that offers advice and clear speaking factual information that answers the many questions we all have. Like "Why am I not in the mood?" and "How can I get my partner interested in sex again?"

With understanding of a roadblock we can plan to take a detour. Understanding a reluctance to release inhibitions is the answer to overcoming them. Men will come away knowing what a woman needs to get into the mood and women will understand what makes the male brain tick. You might learn something about yourself too!

Darcy clearly explains the differences in male and female arousal systems while providing keen insight to the mental beast as well. The mysteries are explained here. But that's not all! Darcy offers some remedies for those situations you have just learned about. She even gives a whole chapter of Seduction Scene Strategies and explains why they work. If all of that isn't enough for you, Ms. Cole offers a generous list of additional resources.

This title should be a mandatory gift for every wedding couple, every 50th anniversary and every couple undergoing the mundane tasks of living.

When I started reading the Seduction Scenes chapter I felt that sexual tingle of excitement...just by reading it I was turned on! I thought that part of me was dead. After being married for almost 17 years with two active boys, I find it difficult to take the time to really enjoy sex like we used to do. Lately, it has been nothing but "quickies" so that I can sleep! Both my husband and I are looking forward to experimenting more with the Seduction Scene Strategies and Role Playing. I was telling my girlfriend about the book and she can't wait to read it!

The pages seemed to turn themselves! One minute I was embarking into Chapter One, and shortly later I found myself turning the last page with a satisfied "Hmmm...".

Seduce Me! is a book I'd freely recommend to any couple who wants to restore the "sugar and spice" to their relationship. Whether dating, engaged, or involved long-term, Seduce Me! can help couples retain and renew that "new love" passion.

I found this book throughly researched and rich with useful information. The host of included role-playing scenes provide an imaginative and provocative spark, sure to have couples racing home from work and eager for "playtime". The text was easy to follow, and was presented in a "meat and potatoes" style without the use of flab to merely add pages.

It's clear that Darcy has done her homework. I'll be keeping this handy and helpful reference nearby.

Donald L. Hicks
Understanding the G-Spot and Female Sexuality

THIS book really helps to explain what is in a woman's heart and mind. The constant pressure to keep the household running smoothly and taking care of everyone else's needs leaves little time for my needs. Thank you for writing what I could never explain to my husband.

I did find Cole's analysis of seducing a woman's mind first by helping her clear it useful. Other than that, it's like reading a cheap novel, but without much vulgarity. There are more credible resources. And frankly, I think there's just nothing new here.