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Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to the Perils of Dating: (How Not To Become A Bar Regular)

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This book made me incredibly angry. I bought this book for 2 reasons. The first reason is that I heard the Authors interviewed on a Montreal radio station and I found them to be entertaining. The second reason is that when I checked out their website I loved the books cover. When I started to read it I found myself getting increasingly mad at their opinions. How dare they make such bold statements. However, I found it hard to put the book down. Just when I figured they had crossed the politically correct boundaries they seemed to find a way to make me laugh with some of their rants.

As I progressed through the book I think I figured it out. Their theories though confrontational really made me think. I am not positive, but I think they are making fun of how things are. At first I did not agree with what they were saying and then I thought about my friends and the world and I am not sure if I disagree any longer. That actually made me feel sad. This book actually made me really examine how I treat people. I finally realized that this is not a self-help book or a book about how to "score". It is more about change and having a great time in the process of this change. At first I was going to give it only 1 star - after I worked and laughed my way through it I have changed it to 4 stars. If it didn't make me so angry in the beginning it would have been 5.

"The Seed & German Seed" may be just preposterous pseudonyms for now, but with the publication of this unique, immensely readable book the true authors hopefully will step forward for a much-deserved bow!

SEED'S SKETCHY RELATIONSHIP THEORIES: A GUIDE TO THE PERILS OF DATING [HOW NOT TO BECOME A BAR REGULAR] is a long title that even in its length doesn't even begin to suggest what is in store for the curious, open minded reader. This is not a 'self-help' or a 'how to' manual: Seed and German Seed have taken a long look at our present world condition, with a special emphasis on individual evaluation and interaction with the universe, and have come up with some very thoughtful ideas and precepts by which the reader can jump in and start over at this bizarre process we call living.

Starting out with ways in which we can alter our priorities to focus more on the preparation of our inner (and outer) self, Seed offers constructive advice without preaching. One aspect that may alter the way some readers approach the wisdom contained in this book is Seed's excessive use of a particular expletive. But as he explains so soundly, language is what it is and to fancify words can at times alter the wholeness of the concept - and certainly the comedy to be found in living life honestly.

Other reviewers have singled out portions of this book as favorites - an enviable task I find difficult at best! - but there is one recurring area that deserves special attention: Seed's manifesto about gay folk is sensitive and wise and well written even for the most committed phobic folk. He does this with high comedy (lists for women to use to determine if their men have proclivities versus full time commitment) all the while reassuring everyone that we all need is to live and let live and take care of our own variations of normal before raising the hatchet toward those of others.

After about two thirds of the way through this entertaining and at times illuminating book the authors lose focus and the last third feels a bit like a standup comic filling time. But in these pages are also suggestions that there will be more works from this duo coming down the pike and the pathways they are choosing sound most intriguing.

Get ready for a good time, put away your censorship for toilet mouthed humor, and open your mind (and yes, heart) to the shenanigans herein. It is a fine piece of work! Grady Harp, March 05

Hello, I decided that I want to get the word out about a new book that I have stumbled across due to the recommendation of a friend. Now this particular friend has from time to time been somewhat challenged when it comes to making suggestions regarding music, films, books and the arts in general. Lets just say that she usually promotes the above mentioned mediums with excitement and a verve that is infectious encouraging her friends to spend the coin in hopes of finding the next American Classic or Pop Culture Phenomenon. However, on a painfully repeating basis we are met over and over again with bitter disappointment.

Somehow though, this time her recommendation has been an outstanding surprise. She recommended a book called Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to the Perils of Dating (How not to become a bar regular). I must admit I was incredibly skeptical. Once again with blind faith, I decided to take the leap of faith. This time I was prepared for the upcoming disappointment.

When I went online and checked out the book at Seed Enterprises and the links to the sellers, I must admit I was slightly intrigued by both the title and the cover. I received the book on January 14th and I have just now found the time to finish it. To my surprise and dismay my friend lead me to a raw, entertaining and controversial gem. What makes this book so refreshingly entertaining is that it does not pretend to be more than it is. When the world is so desperately trying to remain politically correct, which results in a glossing over and denial of the issues that we are facing in our day to day lives, the authors boldly state their opinions. Whether you agree with what they are saying or not, there is enough in this book to make you look inward first and perhaps even come to some conclusions about your own existence. I know I did. Facing reality sometimes leads you to the right path.

The authors challenge everything, they look at the divorce rate from a different perspective, they challenge how we are playing the game of life and have the guts to suggest that maybe we are getting it wrong. They seem to invite us in to their own lives to give us an insight to where their perspective comes from. This book speaks to everyone. Not only is it controversial, it is insightful and at times incredibly hilarious. I strongly suggest picking up a copy. It is much more than a relationship book, it really is a look at life. To top it off it looks at these subjects in such a fresh and original fashion it will leave you wanting more.

Next up in my reading que, Why Men Love B-tches. Could my friend hit on two in a row.

I bought this book a short time ago and I must say that it is "Laugh Out Loud Funny". Relationship advice and comedy combined. The way it should be. I am not sure if everyone will be able to handle the reality here. If you are a [...], stay away from this book. If you are not, you will enjoy. I know I did!!!

I enjoyed this book very much. When I picked it up I never expected too much from it. I thought it would just be another gutless relationship book, promising some magical formula for finding your "true love". To my surprise it turned out to be much better than I had expected. Being a writer myself, I know how difficult it is to write well and have an interesting (not to mention humorous) message.

There are few who possess these skills in sufficient quantity, and are willing to put in the work. I commend Seed and German Seed for their effort.

When I started reading the book, I approached it like I would any other book: read it from start to finish. But then my curiosity started getting the better of me. I started spot-reading chapters. It definitely is a book that can be enjoyed in this way. At this point, I think I've covered everything, but I haven't shelved the book yet. I keep stumbling across previously unread gems, or in some cases re-reading certain parts.

Many of the theories the Seeds presented are true and their expression is provocative and clearly expressed. Even in cases where I didn't particularly agree with a theory, I found their arguments compelling and, equally important, entertaining. They've really dumped a lot into this book. I got a very voyeuristic feel as I read the outtakes. Interesting exchanges between Seed and German Seed. The stuff between Seed and what's-her-name...what can I say...!!! Nice work! I highly recommend this book.

Wow! What can I say. There is not another book on the market like this. Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories may be the only book that tackles tough subjects with both brutal honesty and fresh entertaining humor. It makes the readers look in the mirror first, before encouraging others to change.

When other popular books seem to be just teaching women how to play games and men to become wimps. This book actually seems to have the guts to dig deeper into the problems that plague modern society. The authors make the readers think by challenging them to challenge the theories presented. If you want to read an honest biting commentary on relationships and the world, while sometimes splitting your side with laughter, this is a book for you. It even contains some images to illustrate some of the points presented. I laughed, I swore, I found myself nodding my head, but most importantly it made me think. I recommend this book to both men and women. It will at least make you think.

Raw, passionate, controversial, edgy, honest and filled with unique humor. That would be one way to describe Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to the Perils of Dating (How not to become a bar regular). This book has many aspects to it. It is much more than it appears to be. The authors examine how the sexes are treating each other in the dating game. It doesn't just suggest quick fixes. I found the authors to have the courage to challenge the course we are all taking. It makes many observations of the current state of society today and they do not sugarcoat their opinions.

Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories really made me think about my life and how I am treating others. If you are not too sensitive you will realize that they encourage positive change. The book also pokes fun at societies norms and offers some simple suggestions on how to change them. This book tackles a tough subject matter with a fresh perspective. I really enjoyed the fact that this perspective came from "Real People" and it is filled with comedic touches to encourage us all to have a blast on this planet while we work our way through our day to day challenges.

I must commend Seed. He has tackled a very tough subject matter and spared the fluff that most books on relationships inflict upon us. He has shared big parts of his life to give the reader an understanding of where a lot of his knowledge comes from. It is very refreshing to see that he never held back on his opinions. He seems to say what everyone else seems to be afraid of saying and he talks from the heart. The book is laced with deep thoughts and yet it is filled with original comedy to keep it light and fresh to read. If you read it with an open heart and an open mind, Seed provides a very powerful positive message. I highly recommend this book to anyone trying to sort out their personal relationships or for those who simply want a good laugh. It is rare but Seed provides us with both. I wish him great success.

Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories - A Guide to the Perils of Dating : (How Not To Become A Bar Regular)Penned By: The Seed & German Seed. This book on relationships in today's dating world is totally "off the wall" but great fun to read, although often gramatically and politically incorrect and full of foul-mouthed expletives. It is definitely not for the judgemental reader. However, the authors, both men who still refuse to reveal their identy (for reasons obvious when you read the book) hit the nail on the head with what are the problems in today's failing marriage and love relationships and other relationships as well. With total candor and often hilarious situations and comments, they offer solutions for the real world which might work in solving relationship problems: first and foremost, to become a whole person by yourself before you enter a relationship. Relationships do not fix your shortcomings. The combined wisdom and difficult situations adn experiences of the two authors, one who lives in Canada and the other in Europe, are shared and bared in ways not many have the boldness to write. Often in letter or stream-of-consciousness style, the book rambles some, but overall it is a fun read, and has some sage advice administered in a novel and quirky way!

Seed's Sketchy Relationship Theories is a raw, unpolished, incredibly funny and at times crass look at relationships and life. It offers 47 individually unique chapters on these topics, each containing a powerful positive message. The authors do not offer the same quick-fix solutions to relationships and life problems that other books and magazines do. Instead they challenge us to think for ourselves and draw our own conclusions that align with our morals and values. They make us work for the 'pudding.'

When I first read this book I immediately became defensive, to the point that I found myself swearing out loud and I had the urge to punch or kick the authors if given the chance. I found their theories to be somewhat offensive and blunt. I also found their choice of language to be a bit much. Then strangely, after they offered some insight into their lives and perspective I found myself wanting to know more about what makes this pair tick. At other times, I found myself laughing so hard that I nearly wet myself.

Then a funny thing happened. I started to pay attention more to the world around me. When I would go out with my husband and our friends, I started to realize that most of the time their theories were, "DEAD ON." Out of 10 couples that we know that got married around the time of me and mine, only 5 are still married. And, to make matters worse the kids of the divorced families are all paying a heavy price.

I hadn't realized it, but I had become numb to everything around me. After reading the book, I started to notice couples on talk shows and it became crystal clear that they are really just telling us how it is. The scary thing is they may be right. I found myself starting to offer relationship advice based on the book.

The second time I read the book, that's right the second time, I discarded my defensiveness and really enjoyed it. Some chapters are weak, the writing could be more refined, however, other chapters border on brilliance. As for the foul language, the second time, I realized it is just their way to smack the world and encourage us to face reality.

I asked my husband what he thought of the book: He just smiled.

This book really cannot be categorized. It is much more than a relationship book. The Seed's stay away from using manipulative studies and data and just tell it like it is.

Will I read it a third time? I don't know. Let's just say its still on my coffee table.