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Seeking Arrangement: The Definitive Guide to Sugar Daddy and Mutually Beneficial Arrangements Paperback – June 30, 2009


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Product Details

  • Paperback: 264 pages
  • Publisher: Bush Street Press (June 30, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0979424569
  • ISBN-13: 978-0979424564
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.9 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,291,195 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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About the Author

Brandon Wade is a leading dating expert, and the Founder and CEO of the websites SeekingArrangement.com, WhatsYourPrice.com and SeekingMillionaire.com. As an entrepreneur, he's started numerous internet and mobile companies, as well as retail and tour businesses. Prior to these endeavors, he served as a management consultant with Booz Allen, and held executive roles at several Fortune 500 companies, including General Electric and Microsoft. Originally from Singapore, Wade moved to the United States to study at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, from which he graduated with a BS and an MBA degree. Since then, he has lived in Boston, New York, Seattle, New Orleans, San Francisco, and more recently Las Vegas.

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Brandon Wade (AskBrandonWade.com) is a leading dating expert, and the Founder and CEO of leading dating websites SeekingArrangement.com, WhatsYourPrice.com, SeekingMillionaire.com and MissTravel.com.

As an entrepreneur, he's started numerous internet and mobile companies, as well as retail and tour businesses. Prior to these endeavors, he served as a management consultant with Booz Allen, and held executive roles at several Fortune 500 companies, including General Electric and Microsoft.

Originally from Singapore, Wade moved to the United States to study at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, from which he graduated with a BS and an MBA degree. Since then, he has lived in Boston, New York, Seattle, New Orleans, San Francisco, and more recently Las Vegas.

To contact Brandon, please write him on Facebook.com/AskBrandonWade

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32 of 39 people found the following review helpful By Gregory on August 30, 2010
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I'm all for the Sugar Daddy lifestyle, so my negative comments are only directed at the author and his book. The book is nothing more than a shameless attempt to promote his online website. You'd have to be living in a bubble if you learned anything new after reading this book. There are countless references back to his website, all designed to encourage you join his site and pay monthly fees. He even goes so far as to say that searching for the right arrangement could take a year or more, so you need to be patient. Oh, how clever!. I suffered through each excruciating chapter hoping there would be some glimmer of insight, something that I could use to justify the money I paid for the book, but nothing came of it. Save your money, there are no secrets to success in this book.
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22 of 31 people found the following review helpful By Hank Reed on December 15, 2009
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I was hoping this book would suggest some good approaches to writing to women on the site but it did not. All the suggested rules were just obvious things like, "Don't ask for nude pictures", "Don't be crude", et cetera. I believe it was written by someone involved with ownership of the site, so any advice would have to be "Taken with a grain of salt". I found nothing useful in this book.
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17 of 25 people found the following review helpful By Stephan on November 9, 2009
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I saw this book featured on the 20/20 piece about SeekingArrangement with John Stossil, and I must say it both shocked and intrigued me. I thought "before I actually delve into this sugar daddy dating world, why not read the book first" - I'm a workaholic and always do my homework, especially before investing in any lifestyle change.

Indeed, it's because I AM a workaholic that the mutually beneficial dating concept coined by SA intrigued me...
This book is way more than just the best ever "how to guide" to sugar daddy dating, but actually gives insight into why, or why not, making mutually beneficial arrangements is right for you.

This book deserves way more attention than it's getting - it is a comprehensive, genuine, all around guide and companion for anyone interested in non-traditional sugar daddy/sugar baby type relationships. I actually didn't know that I was stuck in a 'limerent' relationship for 2 years until reading the book, which, by the way, defines and classifies a variety of relationship types that many if not most of us have found ourselves in - whether we knew it or not.

Thanks to reading this book, I knew exactly what to look out for, what to expect, how to negotiate an arrangement, and how to be in-tune with what a potential sugar babies needs would be as well.

I found the "When the Sugar Sours" chapter especially useful for me - nothing lasts forever, and this upfront and honest approach to dating is compatible with that fact. I am glad to say that despite my initial fears, this book is not tinged with self-promotion or BS. If you're serious about becoming a 'sugar', this book is definitely worth buying, keeping, and sharing.
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I like this book because the owner of website gives you an idea of what sd and sb's are doing. He's a sd so he know's. This gives me good direction on how to approach the website and other places. Go Brandon Wade Seeking Arrangement was a masterpiece website.
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1 of 2 people found the following review helpful By NewYorker on July 21, 2014
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Most people don't understand what being a sugar daddy or sugar baby is, and they plunge into the lifestyle only to be disappointed. This guide is important for beginners who want to enter the lifestyle. It lays out what to avoid and how one must take note of what they want out of a relationship. Dating the rich and successful is an art, but it is most certainly not the same as dating regular people. And the best way to get a wealthy man to spend money and shower you with gifts is through the art of seduction, not readily spreading ones legs for him. Enjoy your adventure.
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4 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Gatsby on June 27, 2012
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As an Account Executive, I found it very difficult to date women with such a busy and tentative work schedule. That is, until a family friend introduced me to Seeking Arrangement. Honestly, I was quite skeptical at first--a lifestyle that terms gentleman as "Sugar Daddies" made me worry..but also wonder. I thought to myself, "Why not?" I really had nothing to lose.

I wanted more insight into "Sugar Dating," so I purchased the book as a guide. And since then, it really has improved my love life. I am currently in a relationship (2+ years) with a beautiful and successful woman that I met on the website. She is young, vibrant, and driven. But most of all, she makes me happy.

Simply put, buy the guide if you are seeking other options than traditional dating/online dating. For the price, it's a worthwhile investment for a lifetime of happiness.
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4 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Baby Doll on June 27, 2012
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I really love the things that I learned from this BOOK!!! It was fun and honest and something that everyone wants to know about it
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