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22 of 23 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
The Secular Bible of Successful Self-Improvers,
By A Customer
This review is from: Self-Directed Behavior: Self-Modification for Personal Adjustment (Paperback)
This book is widely regarded by scientifically-based psychologists as the single most effective tool available for people who want to craft themselves to become a finer person. I first read it about 12 years ago, and have used it as a kind of workbook ever since, in each of its successive editions. Everyone who has known me well has noted that I work to improve myself more than anyone they have ever known, and that I am also more successful in improving myself than anyone they have ever known. I agree. Well, I wish I could take all the credit. But the fact is that, if it were not for this incredible book, I would probably have remained just another highly motivated person spinning their wheels with self-help techniques that don't help. Thank goodness I found this book, and actively being rigorous, if you find scientific approaches distasteful, if you are not turned on by the prospect of changing yourself, if you are not willing to work real hard on an ongoing basis, if what you really would like is a quick fix (i.e., the book equivalent of a pill), if you love yourself just the way you are, then this book is not for you. Although it is very well-written and accesible, it will definitely require you to work and think and be rigorous and systematic to a degree that not many folks are willing to do. But if you think becoming an ever-finer person is worth working hard for, then this is THE book for you. Bar none.
11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
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Don't listen to the bad reviews,
By Talyssa "Unusual is good" (Southern California) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Self-Directed Behavior: Self-Modification for Personal Adjustment (Paperback)
I first had to read this for a college class and at the time I thought the same way some of the negative reviewers did -- Its boring, its "common sense". But the more I encountered situations with friends and family where I thought "you know this is something you could easily control with a behavioral therapy plan" the more I realized that what the professor I had said was true -- If you just skim the book without trying to apply the principles, it won't mean much to you. But if you think of it practically (and try a project of some kind yourself) you'll realize the power of it. Most people get discouraged when they try to change themselves because they try to do too much at once. Taking baby steps IS common sense, but if its so easy and anyone knew how to do it, we'd all be exactly the people we want to be, now wouldn't we?
I recommend this book to EVERYONE who says "I wish I could do this" or "I wish I didn't always think like that". If you want to change and you're willing to sit down, make a good plan, and follow through with it, this method will work for you. If you don't really want to change, or you don't believe you can, then you'll fail and it isn't the method's fault.
12 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
The most approachable, practical text book you'll ever read,
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This review is from: Self-Directed Behavior: Self-Modification for Personal Adjustment (Paperback)
I originally discovered this book as an assigned text for one of my courses in college. Most textbooks are dry and boring. This is one textbook I have kept and referred to often. I teach a workshop series titled "Sabotage to Success" and this book has been a rich source of information for me and my workshop participants. This book is "scientific", perfect for the skeptics of self-change, but you don't have to be a scientist to read it. The suggested projects are outlined clearly and methodically. The authors have taken pains to revise and renew the book, improving it with each edition. They listen to student input and even have a response form in the back of the book. I'm glad to see this book available on Amazon. I often recommend it to my workshop participants but haven't been able to refer them to a practical place to buy it. I paid at least $50 for this text in the University Bookstore. I wish there had been an Amazon.com when I bought it originally.
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