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5.0 out of 5 stars
Full of insight into the making of the self-help culture, October 19, 2005
This review is from: Self-Help, Inc.: Makeover Culture in American Life (Hardcover)
This book isn't the one you turn to when you want an extreme makeover. It's the book you turn to when you want to figure out why you want an extreme makeover to begin with.
Self-Help, Inc. sets out to examine how and why the current self-help culture was created and what its impact is on individuals and society -- and it boldly hits its target dead center.
Dense with facts, history and insight, Self-Help, Inc. examines the movement of self improvement. How did the idea of making oneself better not only start, but become en vogue? What is its impact on the individual, society and the workplace? How does the idea and history of self-improvement differ between men and women (which, as a woman, I found incredibly fascinating)? Where has self-help culture come and where is it going? And what is the long-term advantages and disadvantages of living in a society that puts such a high value on a nearly impossible to achieve "extreme makeover"? Micki McGee, Ph.D., uses her sociology expertise and many years as an NYU professor to answer these questions and more. And she does so with eloquence and intelligence, making this a truly fascinating and illuminating read.
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3.0 out of 5 stars
Good questions, flawed answers, March 17, 2007
This review is from: Self-Help, Inc.: Makeover Culture in American Life (Hardcover)
The best part of the book comes at the very beginning, when author McGee takes us through a history of self-help. Coaches and gurus often associate "spirituality" with "prosperity." I must admit I've wondered myself about parallels with early Calvinism and I was intriguted by McGee's thorough review.
I also like the premise of the book. Why has self-help become so popular -- not just in the US, but world-wide? But I had some concerns about the way the question was answered.
First, self-help is a very broad genre. If you think about it, any how-to book can be considered self-help, even "how to plant a greener lawn" or "how to de-clutter your home." So why not have books like "How to cope with difficult people" or "How to find a job you want.
Second, McGee chose an archeological method to evaluate self-help. She chose a collection of texts and analyzed the contents. This method makes sense if say, you turn up a collection of documents on a dig. It's the way many scholars evaluate documents associated with the founding of world religions.
But, as religious scholarship demonstrates, these methods can lead to distorted interpretations. Many scholars emphasize that contemporary readers of the current Bible would have recognized stories as myths and legends, not as absolute truth. \
Since many readers of self-help are alive and accessible, why not ask them how they read and apply self-help to their lives? I believe many readers of self-help read selectively and skeptically. I think readers embark on affirmations and create treasure maps in a playful sense of fun. I don't think most readers study these books with the author's intensity.
And I think most readers (and certainly publishers) recognize the importance of packaging. These days, we've been conditioned by advertising to apply the puffery discount as we make choices and as we read. My own ebook "9 Steps to a new career" sells many more copies with a new title promising a 21-day "extreme career makeover."
Third, some of the author's examples seem misleading. For instance, McGee criticizes Sinetar's definition of "right livelihood" in her best-selling book, Do What You Love: The Money Will Follow.
Actually, Sinetar is one of the most grounded, down-to-earth writers around. She does refer to spirituality and vocation. But that's not woo-woo. In other books and tapes, she's very open about her commitment to Catholicism. An earlier book was about being a monk or mystic in the world.
If you read Do What You Love with care, her message really is, "Do what you love: the money will follow, but not very much or very fast." I've recommended her tapes of To Build the Life You Want, Create the Work You Love and The Mentor's Spirit.
McGee also criticizes Cheryl Richardson's appearance on Oprah. Cheryl's coach-y solutions don't seem to help an overworked, underpaid mom who holds dowon two jobs. True! But I find many coaches have trouble explaining that their approaches are targeted to a specific readership segment.
As I tell my own clients, you need to be at a certain comfort level before you can begin to consider a career change. When you're a few months away from welfare, you need to get back to basics. The harried mother won't benefit from Richardson's techniques...but she also won't benefit from fashion makeovers, power yoga classes or psychoanalysis.
And that brings me to another point: I've been critical of some self-help but I would also ask, "What's the alternative? And what's the harm?" People do face problems that their parents and grandparents never confronted. Mainstream psychology has offered good solutions but also perpetuates ideas that are not backed by research. Carol Tavris has written that popular theories of anger ("let it out") are not accurate. Others have criticized popular mainstream trauma practices ("relive the experience"). Read Annie Paul's book, The Cult of Personality, to learn how psychologists, corporations and courts use tests that have no more validity than horoscopes.
Finally, McGee associates current interest in self-help with economic downturns. But in my experience, most self-help readers come from upscale, educated backgrounds. I believe it was Pascal Boyer who suggested that New Age is the first religion to be created in an era of prosperity. Readers, coaching clients and Tony Robbins followers want to know how to make good lives better (although they may not use those phrases consciously).
Bottom line: We need a solid analytical discussion of self-help. McGee offers a starting point. I'll be interested to see more.
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