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Self-Made Man: One Woman's Year Disguised as a Man [Paperback]

Norah Vincent
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Book Description

December 26, 2006
A journalist’s provocative and spellbinding account of her eighteen months spent disguised as a man

Norah Vincent became an instant media sensation with the publication of Self-Made Man, her take on just how hard it is to be a man, even in a man’s world. Following in the tradition of John Howard Griffin (Black Like Me), Norah spent a year and a half disguised as her male alter ego, Ned, exploring what men are like when women aren’t around. As Ned, she joins a bowling team, takes a high-octane sales job, goes on dates with women (and men), visits strip clubs, and even manages to infiltrate a monastery and a men’s therapy group. At once thought- provoking and pure fun to read, Self-Made Man is a sympathetic and thrilling tour de force of immersion journalism.


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From Publishers Weekly

Vincent, a tomboy from childhood, decided to see if the right makeup and skilled coaching could effect a sex transformation complete enough to get her accepted in her new guise as a man. For a year and a half, she went undercover to gather experiences such as joining a men's bowling league, getting a job in a testosterone-fueled door-to-door sales company, and going on a retreat with a secretive male empowerment club. Vincent's writing is quite evocative as she describes the process of becoming "Ned," but its disappointing that her narration doesn't demonstrate the masculine voice she developed. Her reading is mostly monotonous, only occasionally adding inflections that hint at the self-loathing she often felt as she deceived everyone she encountered. This abridgment omits two chapters, but the remaining ones still give an excellent sense of the project and the insights she gained. At the outset, Vincent notes that her experiment is not a sociological treatise but just a single woman's view of a guy's world. But her sharp powers of observation and crisp writing, which shine through even when her reading sounds bored, ensure that listeners finish feeling that they have learned a great deal along with her about the slippery workings of gender in America. Simultaneous release with the Viking hardcover. (Reviews, Nov. 14). (Jan.)
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*Starred Review* Vincent's first experiment in cross-dressing came on a dare from an acquaintance who was a drag king. When she experienced the intoxicating invisibility and safety that came from wearing the disguise, she wanted to learn more. For 18 months, she disguised herself as a man, renamed herself Ned, joined a men's bowling league, visited strip bars, and dated women. Along the way, she found that the freedom and privileges enjoyed by men were counterbalanced by a constant testing and severe limits on emotions. She also found women to be distrustful, ever ready to criticize men for being emotionally distant yet clearly preferring men who met stereotypical images of strength and virility. Vincent is frank about her experiences--the hard business of sexual transactions devoid of emotions, the easy bonding between men, fear of sexual attraction among men, and, ultimately, the explosion of her own notions of sex roles. She also explores the guilt she feels about her deception. Writing from the perspective of a gay woman who had a view of the male world that women don't get to see, Vincent finds unexpected complexities in the men she meets and in herself as well. Vanessa Bush
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Product Details

  • Paperback: 287 pages
  • Publisher: Penguin Books; First Printing edition (December 26, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0143038702
  • ISBN-13: 978-0143038702
  • Product Dimensions: 5.3 x 0.7 x 8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (194 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #70,383 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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One of the most interesting books I have ever read. ladyr  |  26 reviewers made a similar statement
Men have been programmed and victimized by society too! Lucille  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
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130 of 136 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An Eye-Opener in Every Way.... January 19, 2006
Format:Hardcover
I was lured by the title/cover photo....I was hooked by the synopsis and thought this would make a diverting read. I knew I would laugh at Ms. Vincent's exploits and adventures, what I was completely unprepared for was the sense of sadness that overcame me as I finished 'Self-Made Man'.

In her guise as "Ned", the author explores such bastions of manhood as strip-clubs, the world of dating women, a monastery and a men's support group. Her experiences are intriguing as well as entertaining and will make most people think about how men and women are perceived by each other.

I think this book should be required reading for any woman who is currently married, engaged to or in a relationship with a man. It made me seriously examine my attitudes towards men and my perceptions of their behavior. It underscores so sublimely the need for men and women to HONESTLY communicate with each other...on ALL levels.

The most telling point for me was when the author was at the men's support group retreat, when the members drew their heros & some drew Atlas holding up the world.

Read this book with an open mind, whether you are male or female and you will see there is more to it than just a cool stunt just for its own sake. I hope people will pick it up and give it a chance.
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153 of 164 people found the following review helpful
Format:Hardcover
Norah Vincent is a respected journalist who went "under cover" by dressing as a man for an extended period of time. She interacted with men and women in various contexts: joining a bowling league, working a high-pressure sales job, even spending weeks at a monastery. She writes candidly about her experiences in "Self-Made Man." The book is funny in many places, unexpectedly poignant in others, as Vincent discovers some unsettling truths about what it's like to be a guy in today's world. The book is particularly refreshing in that it is not a guy-bashing book: one of Vincent's conclusions is that it is difficult to be a man and she writes about the different expectations and cultural conventions that affect the way men act and interact. Vincent is also frank about the effect her deception had on her: she is troubled by her deception and writes in the last chapter about her own emotional breakdown after she leaves her alter ego "Ned" behind.

A thoughtful, honest, fascinating book that will make you laugh and make you think. Brava, Ms. Vincent!
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95 of 103 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Well written, insightful, quirky and VERY entertaining January 20, 2006
Format:Hardcover
I gained more insight into male behavior from Ms. Vincent's viewpoint than I have as 46 years of living as one myself. I'm extremely glad she didn't do a superficial travel log through the world of men, or a "why men suck" type of expose.

The only thing that I didn't like about the book is that it left me wanting more information on some of the friends she met as Ned. Her writing made me as fond of her cohorts as she seemed to become herself.

Highly recommended reading that folks will clearly be talking about more and more.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful Perspective
I am surprised this book hasn't engendered more interest than it has. Although I haven't completed the book, it reminds me of John Howard Griffin's study, "Black LIke Me. Read more
Published 10 days ago by Chance Gardener
2.0 out of 5 stars Sad and depressing
Very depressing part of a man's life. Always seeking the seedy promiscuous bars. Quite revolting. One thing the book did was make me so grateful I am not part of that way of life.
Published 15 days ago by Vicky Gulevich
5.0 out of 5 stars Walking a mile in someone else's shoes
It took a lot of guts for Ms. Vincent to pursue this endeavor. I credit her for pursuing such a difficult task; she has done a fantastic job writing about it.
Published 1 month ago by Neal Verma
5.0 out of 5 stars I gave this to my wife to read!
The idea that a lesbian would decide to impersonate a man to learn about a man's world was enticing. That she developed compassion for men was comforting! Read more
Published 1 month ago by Eric Wilson
4.0 out of 5 stars Thought Provoking and Deep
This book sounds strange on the outside, but it's incredibly thought provoking. It lends itself to examining what within myself makes me a 'man' and it's a great look at the 'Bro... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Kristofer Bolz
5.0 out of 5 stars Self-made man
A terrific read. Very interesting insights into the thought processes of the opposite sex. Quite challenging in some ways, but totally fascinating.
Published 1 month ago by C. DeVere
3.0 out of 5 stars Not bad
Fairly well-written. Scientific and as objective as could be with such an embedded sociological subject. Interesting, too. I'd give it a 3.5 if they had it.
Published 1 month ago by C. Hess
4.0 out of 5 stars GENDER BLENDER
Take one part female, one part male, mix in a transgendered-male with a a few shakes of transgendered-female and what do you get? Read more
Published 2 months ago by Sherril Smoger-Kessous
4.0 out of 5 stars Wish I could finish it...
I unfortunately never got the chance to finish this book. The concept of it made me instantly intregued. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Krissy
5.0 out of 5 stars Very interesting
Fascinating view into the world of men as seen by a woman. Sometimes she seems blinded to certain aspects of the male world due to not belonging to it, but other times her status... Read more
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