78 of 79 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A delightful, eloquent, thought-provoking set of portraits, April 17, 2006
This review is from: Send in the Idiots: Stories from the Other Side of Autism (Hardcover)
From ages four to seven Nazeer attended an experimental school in New York City for autistic children. Twenty years later, he decided to interview his fellow students and write a book about "how they have emerged into adulthood." Out of his dozen or so classmates, three agreed to participate as well as the parents of a fourth who had committed suicide.
The result is an insightful and captivating set of portraits, linked by their subjects' autism, of course, and also by the author's thoughtful consideration of each person.
"Autistic individuals find it difficult to develop intuition or empathy," Nazeer states in his introduction. "So much of what animates our lives - conversation, thought, creativity, friendship, politics - draws on understanding the world of other people....I hope to see more clearly not only the substance of their lives but the nature of the world that lies beyond their reach."
From this earnest premise you might expect an interesting but careful sociological approach. And you would not be wrong, just very short of the mark. Nazeer's portraits are anecdotal, sharp, colorful and funny. He works furiously at understanding, and develops illuminating insights valuable because of his autistic perspective, rather than in spite of it. He is not only entertaining and intelligent, but also eye opening.
The three who agreed to participate are, perhaps inevitably, high functioning. Though none had much in the way of language skills at the outset, two (including Nazeer) now have advanced degrees, one works with computers and the fourth had a committed romantic relationship. All came from fairly affluent families.
Each invites Nazeer to stay in his home. This is risky for both subject and author, disrupting routines, forcing spontaneous interactions. Andre is first. He's a computer researcher working on artificial vision and has become interested in the pattern differences between vision (static) and language (dynamic). Andre has problems with language and communication. As a child he habitually shoved a paperclip under his fingernail to, as he put it, force the words out of his mouth.
Now he builds puppets. He puts on shows in the neighborhood and chooses various individuals to accompany him in social situations. While it is okay to interrupt Andre, he flies into a rage if anyone interrupts one of his puppets. Nazeer spent hours locked in the bathroom after one interruption, unable to bring himself to do more than knock timidly on the door.
But while Nazeer bides his time increasingly unhappily in the bathroom, he reflects on the puppets' use, and his own observation of conversation as performance, how a story would morph in front of a group, how challenges could be thrown down on a whim, how topics could swing from the thinnest of threads.
"A phrase in what I said, a topic, a point of view, or nothing at all connects with something that you contain. Then you say something. And like this, we proceed." He contrasts these freewheeling conversations with the academic milieu at Cambridge and ruminates on why conversation there was stifled and people resorted to charades rather than chat.
Randall (Nazeer's second classmate) has a lover in his life to do a lot of his talking. Randall is a bike messenger who rides to work with his eyes closed, the route perfectly timed and memorized. He also writes eloquent, beautifully structured poems. And being the detail-oriented person he is, he has noticed that Mike, his lover, is cheating on him and not for the first time.
"I suddenly realized that I had expected to write only about my classmates, not about the people around them; my conception of this book itself had been an autistic one and it couldn't be sustained."
Craig, the one who used to interrupt his teacher's reading of the newspaper by repeatedly calling out, "Send in the idiots," has become a democratic speech writer. With the democrats out and the republicans in, he is having trouble finding a job. Nobody disputes his skill in arguing and covering all possible talking points, but his social skills are a problem.
This is the funniest of the sections, possibly because he and Nazeer have cultivated their friendship since and there's a lot of affection in the recounting of frictions - like the night they went incognito to a republican fund raiser and couldn't find an argument.
The saddest section, naturally, features the parents of the girl who committed suicide. But here too Nazeer's compassion and intense desire to understand illuminates the roles of the parents, Elizabeth's frustrations and her use of her musical skills as a form of "local coherence," like rocking, to keep from being overwhelmed by friction and complexity.
Nazeer (a British policy adviser) fuses intellect and personality perfectly in his writing. He engages fully in the topic at hand, be it the dizzying complexities of romance or the lovely patterns in a well-constructed argument. Readers will hope this is not his last book.
-- Portsmouth Herald
Help other customers find the most helpful reviews
Was this review helpful to you? Yes
No
25 of 26 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
You can't get any closer to the truth, August 17, 2006
This review is from: Send in the Idiots: Stories from the Other Side of Autism (Hardcover)
Our society has seen explosive growth in the number of people identified as autistic and an even larger growth of those identified as having symptoms on the "autistic spectrum". So I expect we'll see more and more books and articles describing these two populations and probably more books like "Send In the Idiots" which tells the story of autistic people as researched and written by an autistic person.
Reading "Send In the Idiots" by Kamran Nazeer is an interesting experience - as much for the writing style as for the content. Indeed, the writing style tells us as much about Nazeer as his book tells us about the four former classmates that he looks up and interviews 20 years later. I initially found myself criticizing the book's editing until I realized how important it was to the book's message.
For those who think an autistic diagnosis is akin to a death sentence or a sentence of life without the normal joys and disappointments, this book should be a revelation. Nazeer, in overly flowery language and excessive attention to detail, shows us how "normal" autistic people can be after (and if) they can manage the extra challenges that autism forces on them. Obsessive compulsive behavior, echolalia, depression, insecurity, paranoia, sensory overload, and other such companion effects of autism make it difficult but not impossible to live an interesting, satisfying life. And the stories of the four classmates show us that it is dangerous indeed to stereotype people with autism. They are each unique, special, human. In fact, we begin to see in them elements of our own personality and being to wonder if each of us is also on the "autism spectrum".
The book is upbeat and shows that autistic people do "get better", not in eliminating the disability but in coping with it and reducing its constraints. This is a must-read book for anyone interested in autism.
Help other customers find the most helpful reviews
Was this review helpful to you? Yes
No
12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
loved the insights, March 2, 2007
This review is from: Send in the Idiots: Stories from the Other Side of Autism (Hardcover)
My son has a diagnosis on the autism spectrum and my bookshelf is overflowing with books about autism. Unlike another reviewer I did not find this book discouraging.
This book gave me a wonderful insight into how it is for my son to learn the mechanics of communication that come intuatively to neurotypical people. And many times the mechanics are much more interesting to the author than the content of the conversation. For example he was told that his teacher had been assaulted by a parent. I was waiting for him to ask and share why this assault took place and what had happend to the parent and child but instead he went on about the conversation itself. I had to laugh because clearly very different aspects of that story were interesting to us and I appreciated that as an insight.
This book reminded me of books I have read by people traveling back to their home to find their roots to explain who they are. What does it mean for him and his old classmates to have autism? What has it ment to their lives? Autism has put odds in their way but has also forced them to become deliberate and resourceful.
So I guess if you are looking for a book that makes you see people with autism as overcoming all obstacles or being doomed or savants then this might not be your book. It is not a book offering knowledge on how to raise your autistic child. It is a book about a few people with autism who struggle and succed and fail much in the same and jet a different way as all of humanity.
Help other customers find the most helpful reviews
Was this review helpful to you? Yes
No
