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Since Darwin's day, we've been told that sexual monogamy comes naturally to our species. Mainstream science—as well as religious and cultural institutions—has maintained that men and women evolved in families in which a man's possessions and protection were exchanged for a woman's fertility and fidelity. But this narrative is collapsing. Fewer and fewer couples are getting married, and divorce rates keep climbing as adultery and flagging libido drag down even seemingly solid marriages.
How can reality be reconciled with the accepted narrative? It can't be, according to renegade thinkers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethå. While debunking almost everything we "know" about sex, they offer a bold alternative explanation in this provocative and brilliant book.
Ryan and Jethå's central contention is that human beings evolved in egalitarian groups that shared food, child care, and, often, sexual partners. Weaving together convergent, frequently overlooked evidence from anthropology, archaeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, the authors show how far from human nature monogamy really is. Human beings everywhere and in every era have confronted the same familiar, intimate situations in surprisingly different ways. The authors expose the ancient roots of human sexuality while pointing toward a more optimistic future illuminated by our innate capacities for love, cooperation, and generosity.
With intelligence, humor, and wonder, Ryan and Jethå show how our promiscuous past haunts our struggles over monogamy, sexual orientation, and family dynamics. They explore why long-term fidelity can be so difficult for so many; why sexual passion tends to fade even as love deepens; why many middle-aged men risk everything for transient affairs with younger women; why homosexuality persists in the face of standard evolutionary logic; and what the human body reveals about the prehistoric origins of modern sexuality.
In the tradition of the best historical and scientific writing, Sex at Dawn unapologetically upends unwarranted assumptions and unfounded conclusions while offering a revolutionary understanding of why we live and love as we do.
I was looking for biological context about why people cheat and divorce and this book provided that. Read morePublished 1 day ago by Nichole French
Great read with something for everyone from the lay person to a sexuality major. I particularly like the comparisons between guerrillas, bonobos, humans and other apes in relation... Read morePublished 3 days ago by Ashley Bronson
This is a very interesting book that highlights the problems with the monogamy norm of today's society and the true nature of human sexuality. Read morePublished 4 days ago by Patrice
This is an interesting read on many levels; from the perspective on human sexuality, to the history of science, to informing how to raise emotionally healthy children. Read morePublished 6 days ago by Benjamin B. Weber
Makes a fastening and solid case, developed from a number of different lines of evidence. The challenge we're implicitly left with is the question of how to develop new healthy... Read morePublished 8 days ago by M. Thomas Frederiksen
Pure Pseudo Science! I knew there were going to be problems when he would start a chapter with we will prove to you that ... Read morePublished 10 days ago by jbtule
Along the lines of evolution meets psychology, this book is page after page of thought provocation. That's all I can say as have mutual good friend of the authors.Published 13 days ago by Jeffrey Svestka
An incredible book. I was inspired to get this from Christopher Ryan's TED talk he recently did on the same subject. Read morePublished 14 days ago by Cody S