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About the Author

Douglas Weiss is a licensed professional counselor and the executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Centers in Colorado Springs, Colorado. He is the author of Intimacy, and Sex, Men and God and is a regular guest on national television (both secular and Christian) as well as radio.

 

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  • Paperback: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Siloam (May 7, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0884198812
  • ISBN-13: 978-0884198819
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.6 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #440,570 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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The book "Sex, Men and God" is immensly helpful in understanding the underlaying reasons for sexual addiction. The problem is affecting men all over the world. Dr. Weiss gives you a thorough understanding of the problem and clear real-life examples. He also gives you practical step-by-step guidelines for working through the problems and solving them on your way to sexual success. The author obviously has years of counseling experience on the subject. I strongly recommend the book.
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If you are a Christian male and have struggled with sexual issues, pornography or relating to your wife this is the book for you! Easy to read and understand. Immediately applicable to today's life and challenges. Also discusses how to deal with and talk to teenage males about sex.
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I am not under 13, but wrote the review like that to keep my review anonymous.
There were many things I really liked about this book -- and many things I didn't.
The book's premise is if your brain associates sex with anything but loving relationships, you will be less satisfied. On the other hand, if you associate sex with one female (wife), and you verbally praise her a lot, she'll want to have sex with you and your brain will desire her more, benefiting both of you. The author was a player when he was younger, became a sex addict, found Christianity, and now counsels about sex addiction. He definitely was not the type of guy that had trouble attracting women.

I liked his explanation of how fantasy and porn affects your brain and will affect your future marriage. Too bad he didn't cite any of his sources. Nor does he tell single people how to ensure good sex in marriage (well, one is no porn, for the rest, read Sheet Music by Kevin LeMan, Finding the Love of Your Life by Neil Clark Warren, and No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover). I liked his three a day. I also liked how he emphasized the need for verbal praise with sex. I am Asian and never learned the importance of verbal praise. I also liked the rubber band technique for controlling fantasies.

What I did not like is that he gives the impression he's trying to promote his books and counseling center. Many times he cites his experience, but he never talks about the Nice Guy Syndrome - the guy who can't get women to like him and whose only choice is to masturbate. In fact, in his other book, and Joe Zychik in Most Personal Addiction make a bigger point that men who remain virgin to marriage could have bigger issues with porn and their future.
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Best book on the subject. For men or teenages 14 or over only. Highly recommend compared to any other book on this subject. This book was issued to me at his conference and his outline followed the book on two or three chapters. Best book for helping your teenage boy deal with these issues or marriage issues as a result of problems in this area. For believers or non-believers..Writer has been sober for 15 years and has interviewed 1000 people with these problems.
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I have been struggling with sexual impurity. When I went to my pastor he said "Just love God enough to stop being sexually impure". Easier said then done.

But when I was handed this book the blinders were taken off. Dr Weiss did an wonderful job at explaining the categories of the mind and men's behaviors. I walked out of my pastor's office confused, alone, and hopeless. I finished this book excited, knowledgeable, and filled with great hope that I can overcome my behaviors.

If you are looking for any book to guide you though sexual impurity rather it's pornography, adultery, simply staring with lust at women, etc...stop looking for any other book and buy this one. You won't regret it.
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By B on November 14, 2006
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I have come back to this book again and again. It has helped both my husband and I understand the compulsion and the psychology at the core of the issue. It has tons of life application and is written at the perfect level for understanding. I HIGHLY recommend this book. I have read others concerning the same topic and this is the best I've come across so far!!
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I would give only 1 star for the section that I've read. However, I will give it two stars as I did not read most of the book. That said, what was said at the end is so detrimental to marital sexual relationship that I have to give it a 2 star only.

I am a therapist. This book was recommended to me by a client who wanted me to read the section on Sexual Agreement. The author suggests couples to enter an agreement on the frequency of sex and if one party fails to initiate when it's her turn (usually her, as the book is written for men), there has to be "consequences" such as hand washing and detailing the husband's car, or give the spouse a 60 to 90 minute massage, etc. Does the author even understand basic human sexuality? If one has to initiate sex because it's your turn and if you didn't do it, you'd have to wash your husband's car, how's that going to make sex better? I can think of the wife's brain now associating sex with not having to wash the husband's car. Does the husband really want that kind of sex? Sex is not just about sex. It's about deep love and intimacy. I can't comment on the rest of the book as I didn't read it, but if you are struggling to get sex from your wife, try loving her as Christ loved His church (willing to die for her) as the bible instructs. A woman's love is a responsive love, just as the church's love for Christ is a responsive love. Just as God did not demand we love Him but love us so much so we respond to His love by loving Him, don't try and demand or make rules about how your wife should love you.
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