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38 of 44 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Good ideas, but...,
By almabella (California, United States) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Sex God Method - 2nd Edition (Paperback)
I mostly agree with the ideas of this book. I often recommend it to men (I am a woman). I wish more men understood this stuff and more women were comfortable opening themselves up to it, as well.Unfortunately, the author makes two grave errors in his presentation. 1. He assumes that a woman's Reptilian Brain's sexual response applies to every aspect of her life. This is true only for women (girls?) who cannot control their Reptilian response with their Higher Brain/Neocortex. But some of us actually can. Yes, the type of sex he describes IS addicting for a woman. But there are women who can control addictions that are counter-productive to their lives/goals. Women who look at the big picture. I will admit that many people when getting the best sex of their lives will throw everything else out the window, but not all. I don't really blame him for making this mistake. We live in a society that thrives on addictions: work, lust, cybersex, shopping, eating, gaming and the list goes on and on. Men and women are both encouraged to develop addictions to all sorts of things that can then take over their lives. Our brains are hardwired to do just that. Push a "pleasure button" enough times with anything and it will start to control YOU and your choices and eventually, your life. Yes, I've known the kind of sex he's talking about, but nothing, no matter how good, has ever made me lose my center in the ways he describes, virtually becoming a slave to the man to continue the sex. I think the author does not have much experience with mature women with impulse control, high self esteem and evolved characters. Which leads me to my second point... 2. He suggests that these techniques can lead to multiple partners, all aware of each other, all satisfied happy campers, all presumably doing his laundry and paying for his dinners, etc. I'm not doubting his honesty here, I'm doubting his judgment. Manipulating people with tools that cause a sex addiction strong enough to make them lose their center and make the man their world? Uh...just another form of drug dealer, if you ask me. Junkies love getting their fix, too. That doesn't take you off the ethical hook for selling the heroin, ya know? That part is sad. His ideas about what women really want in bed are spot on. As they would be. He's field tested these techniques and obviously created a cadre of "junkies" to his sexual prowess. But his knowledge is just a tool. Like most tools you can use it to either serve or subjugate. It's disturbing that the ethical implications of the benefits he mentions are not even on the table. Consider also that the man using these tools successfully is in just as much danger of becoming a "seduction addict" and finding his own life out of balance. It's a shame that he felt the need to "sell" his book with promises of just another addict's paradise that serve neither the seducer nor the seduced in the long run. Because the information here, when used for the purpose of enhancing a true partnership can really help lots of people out there. I gave Rose three stars for thinking outside of the box in order to really understand women's sexual response. Putting on the radar that the physical part of sex is only half the equation is a huge leap in consciousness raising for men who think physical performance is the beginning and end in bed. It's not. I subtracted a star because he's still in the box of Reptilian addiction infomercial marketing. And another because he does not take into account the thinking woman. Caveat to male readers of this book: Don't be surprised if your wives are put off by the stuff in this book. The Madonna/Whore dichotomy is well entrenched in our collective psyche. Many woman cannot see themselves as a "good woman" if they admit they would like the things Rose describes. That's why he talks about needing to "convert" women to feel comfortable about their sexual natures. As a "self-converted" woman, I just wish he would have done more to "convert" men to being grounded and responsible with this information for themselves and their partners.
7 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Domination is a 'flavor' of sex. Some women like it, some don't.,
By Blonde Venus (Los Angeles, CA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Sex God Method - 2nd Edition (Paperback)
I am a woman - and I agree with a lot of what Ambella says in her review.The bedroom techniques in the book will (and do) work - they are clearly based on Rose's experience in the field - and I personally enjoy them. However, I do NOT agree with Rose's speculation on WHY they work. He postulates that all women want to be dominated - not true - as evidenced by the Joe Dugan review - he clearly didn't get good results. First, domination/submission in the bedroom can be incredibly erotic. However, being dominated outside of the bedroom (workplace or socially) by a strange man can be threatening and repulsive to almost all women. I do not agree that all women crave alpha males and domination. I agree with what Joe Dugan says in his review, that women want a man they can look up to, respect, and is confident. IMHO, Rose is just wrong is his reasoning for why domination works. I think it works because when a woman is dominated by man (whom she TRUSTS) in the bedroom it is incredibly immersive for the woman. Being dominated in the way he describes, forcefully drives away any intrusive thoughts and insecure chatter in the woman's mind. When being dominated by a man there is no room in your mind to think about anything else - you can't worry if your thighs aren't right or if you look fat in this position, the mind is dominated to think about sex - his sex. This is incredibly liberating for a woman. It also provides a woman the freedom to submit. If a woman craves submission, only a dominating man can give her that freedom - this is rare and powerful for such a woman. I do agree with Rose that most men are not aware of this secret desire that is present in many women. This is a taboo thing to admit for women and both men and woman are socially conditioned against it. (Breaking any taboo in the bedroom is erotic!) I DON'T agree, however, that all women crave this in the same way. In my conversations with other women I have learned that if a woman had been subject to an overly dominating workplace, boss, father, or other influence in her life she may have had enough of this domination stuff and just not dig it. Also, if a woman has been raped, sexually abused, or the victim of a violent crime, domination techniques may produce highly distracting thoughts and bad memories that are completely counter-productive to good sex. Domination is a `flavor' of sex. Like chocolate, many, many women love it, some just don't care for it, and some are violently allergic. Be sensible. I also agree with Ambella that it must be a specific type of woman who would become a sex `addict' and give up everything for a man who provides it. (Some women spend all their money on beanie babies too.) I'm not denying the truth that he has created `sex addicts' as he claims, but you must consider they type of women he is describing. In reality, we all know that it is hard to end a relationship that is NOT working but the sex is mind-blowing, but we women do it - and men do also. I get it that women using sex to manipulate men is a cliché and permeates our society. I understand the urge to `get back' women with techniques being sold as a way to put the shoe on the other foot. However, I think that deliberately using sex to manipulate another (man or woman) to create a `sex addict' for social or financial gain is sad, misguided, and misses the point of great sex. It IS possible to have partnership of equals who pull together as a team and respect and cherish each other - AND still drop it all to enjoy the kind of explosive sex that exaggerated gender roles and domination/submission can bring in the bedroom. I know because I'm in one. It is worth working for. If you pick up the tools he offers I hope you leave behind philosophy. Look for free pdf's of the book (without giving any contact info) online.
7 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Sex advice for men that actually works.,
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This review is from: Sex God Method - 2nd Edition (Paperback)
There's a good reason why this book used to be called The Sex Revolution Handbook, and that is because this stuff isn't taught anywhere else. Most other books talk regurgitate the same topics: erogenous zones, where the g-spot is, how to stimulate the clit. This book, however, details the topics that actually make the most difference in the bedroom, the mental side of sex, things that the physical techniques alone cannot do. I highly recommend this book for all men, regardless of how good in bed they think they are. And if you want to get it for cheap, google sex god site and you'll find the link to get a deal for the book.
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