Is Sex Necessary? Or, Why You Feel the Way You Do [Paperback]

james thurber (Author)

Product Details

• Paperback
• Publisher: Harper (1929)
• ASIN: B001FE4EAW
• Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)

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44 of 47 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Ahhh... the sexual revolution--30 years early!, July 5, 2004

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Bob Manson (Berkeley, CA United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Is Sex Necessary?: Or, Why You Feel the Way You Do (Harper colophon books) (Paperback)

You've probably heard of E.B. White--he wrote "Charlotte's Web" after all, quite possibly still required reading in many middle schools (as a lead-in to 2pac Shakur's poetry, I'm sure). James Thurber may be a bit more obscure to some of you, but he was an Ohio State alumnus (go Buckeyes! *cough*), an awesome cartoonist/artist, and an author possessed of a wonderfully ascerbic wit.

The combination of the two in this book is a rather uniquely bizarre experience that I found joyously uplifting.

The subject under discussion is indeed, in a rather obscure and indirect sense, sex. But we never *quite* seem to get there; non sequiturs abound, blank pages, discussions of how to avoid sex, bluebirds, flowers, a section on how children should explain sex to adults, and even a "letters from readers" chapter--but no actual sex. Lots of drawings, but nothing that anyone might find helpful for improving their sex life. (Bowling, yes. Bicycling, definitely. Obscure interpretations of unconscious artwork, absolutely. Sex, no.)

This book wasn't so much a reaction to Freud per se as it was to the wacky influx of psychologists and "sexologists", and their (unfortunately for us, entirely successful) attempts to complexify and obfuscate human behavior. This particular brand of snake oil started in the 20s and hasn't stopped flowing, and we're covered in an ever-growing deluge of how-to relationship manuals, self-help books, and other ludicrous efforts at explaining "the human condition".

White and Thurber's work explains, in the main, nothing. It asks more questions than it answers. The humor is dry and obscure, there are a ton of rather dated references, and if you're under 30 you'll probably need a dictionary. But...

if you need a laugh without a laugh track... you're fed up with "self-help" and "Men are from Saturn, Women are from Liverpool" type books... or you happen to think sex is vastly overrated (it is), give "Is Sex Necessary?" a try. You might be surprised at the answer.

37 of 42 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars What a romp!, September 26, 1999

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Marla Perkins - See all my reviews

This review is from: Is Sex Necessary?: Or, Why You Feel the Way You Do (Hardcover)

Thurber's and White's text satirizing the hullabaloo that our dearest lunatic, Mr. Sigmund Freud, began takes whatever cake is being handed out for satirical writing. It's universally funny, lucid, and did I mention funny? It's hilarious. One should pull out one's thesaurus at this point to find other such words, and all will be a propos. The book should have been a trilogy.

7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Classic White & Thurber, January 8, 2009

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Michael F. Herrmann "MFH" (Albuquerque, New Mexico) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Is Sex Necessary?: Or Why You Feel the Way You Do (Paperback)

A parody in classic vaudevillian style of the (then) newly emergent do-it-yourself psychology books. Thurber's drawing on p. 52 (Queen's House edition, 1978) with its accompanying text "This peculiar posture was discovered by Dr. Titbridge in a patient who for thirty years, boy and man, had been unable to tell love from passion and who allowed it to prey on his mind. Drawing from the Titbridge collection of American male postures." is, by itself, worth the price.