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Sex in the Parish

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Solid text that discusses the challenges of relationships for those who work in ministry. Its primary focus is on the warnings, cautions, and consequences of unhealthy relationships on both ministers, those who engage in relationships with ministers, and the congregations they serve. However, it also covers the challenges of ministers who found healthy and successful relationships while in the ministry.

Using case studies, current events, and surveys from ministers, the authors identify the questions, issues, joys, and dangers related to pastors' sexuality and their professional role. A very clearly written book that helps frame the questions and point us toward the answers. Key points include (1) the power differential between pastor and congregant, which makes consent usually impossible; and (2) the cultural background that supports sexism, relationship addictions, and heterosexism and makes this more than simply a question of the pastor's personal responsibility. An excellent and interesting read.

Don't be fooled by the title that includes the word "Parish." This book looks at sexual issues from a secular / liberal perspective. The writer uses no theological or biblical basis for her conclusions. If you are looking for a standard liberal book on sexual issues in the work place base (and the work place just happens to be the church), this is your book. If you are looking for a deeper theological perspective, this is not your book.