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Good, December 17, 2004
This review is from: The Shade of My Own Tree (Paperback)
I really liked this book, but I didn't think it was as good as Dancing on the edge of the Roof. I wish she gone into more detail of the emotions battered women face when they leave their abusive husbands. The author could have expanded more on Gloria's, Opal's boarder, struggle between rebuilding her life and her guilt for not going back to her son's father. I think Opal's husband would have been more realistic if he hadn't always been so hostile. Often abusive husbands try to woo back their wives once they've left, Opal's husband does not attemtpt to do that. Also, I would have liked Imani to have been a little angry with her mother not leaving sooner. Overall I thought the book tried very hard and did a good job of explaining the complexities of leaving an abusive relationship. I think Ms. Williams made it clear that leaving an abusive relationship involves more than just physically picking up and leaving. I like that in both of Ms. Williams books her lead characters are middle aged women who are just discovering themselves. Ms. Williams really seems to be able to write about women who are on the edge in gripping, beautiful language.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
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Getting Your Identity Back, January 21, 2004
This review is from: The Shade of My Own Tree (Paperback)
Sheila Williams has come back at us with, The Shade of My Own Tree. Domestic abuse is something that not every woman or man has a chance to walk away from. If they are lucky to do so, starting over may not be as easy as they envisioned. Will they be able to make it? Be able to stay strong and not go back to the abuser? Opal Sullivan made that choice to walk away and start over before it was too late. This is her journey to reclaiming her identity. What seems to be a trend in William's stories, you meet a rainbow of characters. From the eccentric Bette Smith, the adventurous vampire slaying Troy, the moving rag mat dog Bear, to the mysterious woman in black living in the coach house. One big step for Opal, after leaving her husband, Ted, was finding a place of her own. That came in an old Victorian by the river, that looked as if it had seen better days. Like Opal, the house and its occupants, were on a road of discoveries and second chances. Opal rediscovers her passion for painting, and love where she least expected. There were times when the story lulled, but Ms. Williams has a way with words that keeps you tugging on. This is a great story of people learning to lean on each other and ask for the help that they thought they would never receive. Thus reclaiming themselves. Jacki R.E.A.L. Reviewers
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For every woman in search of her own life, October 6, 2003
This review is from: The Shade of My Own Tree (Paperback)
In under THE SHADE OF MY OWN TREE we sit with Opal Sullivan as she tells the story of why she set out on her quest for her own life; of the solitary confinement of her marriage; her husband's constant belittlement of her spirit, & his beatings. Even after her daughter is born the battering continues, & so Opal becomes "there but not there, lurking around the edges of my daughter's life" (Page 10) for 20 long years. & if she thought that was tough, then the divorce lawyer gets his digs in too. It takes quite a while before Opal finds she has the soul of an artist, before she develops the irreverence of a stand-up Feminist, & her mind begins to work again. Before she knows it she's become an inquisitive, earthy being. Oh, & by the way, Opal is African-American. THE SHADE OF MY OWN TREE is one of the best stories about domestic violence, its appalling cost & how one woman got out from under it. RebeccasReads hopes it becomes a "must read" for Reading Groups everywhere because it is dangerous, exciting, funny, filled with redemption & well written.
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