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Shepherding a Child's Heart [Kindle Edition]

Tedd Tripp , David Powlison
3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (615 customer reviews)

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Book Description

Shepherding a Child's Heart is about how to speak to the heart of your child. The things your child does and says flow from the heart. Luke 6:45 puts it this way: "...out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks." Written for parents with children of any age, this insightful book provides perspectives and procedures for shepherding your child's heart into the paths of life.

In this revised edition of Shepherding a Child's Heart, Dr. Tedd Tripp not only draws on his thirty years experience as a pastor, counselor, school administrator, and father, but he also shares insights gained in many years of teaching this material in conferences worldwide, providing more valuable help for parents.


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  • File Size: 594 KB
  • Print Length: 244 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 0966378601
  • Publisher: Shepherd Press (July 22, 2011)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B005GG6BYC
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410 of 489 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
The key thing that distinguishes Tripp's book from most parenting books is that he rightly understands that our goal in parenting is not to produce children who are obedient, nor is it to produce children who are happy. Rather, both of these are the beneficial result of raising our children in such a way that we are always addressing the issues of the heart (selfishness, rebelliousness, discontent, etc.) rather than just working on the externals.
Tripp gives some very practical advice to this end: how to recognise the "teachable moments", how to spank, the problems with strategies that don't work (e.g. bargaining or bribery). He also makes it clear that discipline only works in an atmosphere of trust and communication. I was very pleasantly surprised to see someone agree with me that in a situation where you "know" your child has done something wrong, but you don't have the evidence to prove it, the right thing to do is to encourage honesty on their part, but if necessary to let them get by with it, rather than acting on a presupposition that might be wrong and injuring the trust between parent and child. He also writes a good bit about parenting goals and strategies for different age groups (from toddlerhood to teenage).
The book does have its flaws, though. The most serious is that Tripp does not do a sufficient job of setting the context of what we are about in parenting. Doug Wilson's Standing on the Promises does that well, and should be viewed as a necessary companion to this book.
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373 of 445 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars How about a balanced review? September 30, 2008
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I read this book because it seems to have such a polarizing effect on those who read it. Wow. Either this is a one-stop parenting book, or it's a license to abuse children written by a nut! There's no in-between, is there!

Well, yes there is. I'll give this book a solid three stars, and here's why, from a free thinking Christian perspective (I'd like to think).

First of all, contrary to some of the more hysterical one-star reviewers, experiencing a few moments of sting from the buttocks is not the worst thing that can happen to a child, and it's not child abuse or perverted. It's what's happened to untold millions of children throughout history who became adults who contributed to their civilizations.

I believe the dominant form of child abuse occuring in our culture today is neglect. Leaving a child on his or her own to grow up as an undisciplined, untrustworthy narcissist is a far greater abuse to a child than the "spankings" it might have took at an early age to teach a child accountability.

Tripp's "spanking doctrine" is described within a context of communication and consistency, and within that context makes sense. Children are often irrational, and often don't respond to complex psychological manipulation techniques or reasoned negotiation. Spanking to me is a last resort. I think I've spanked one of my two sons an average of once a year, and not out of venting rage but because at the time there was nothing else I could do to end a bad situation.

Truth be told, I'd likely be a better person than I am today if I'd been raised according to all the principles described in this book. Hurts to write that, but there it is.

However, the author's biblical mandate for spanking is just plain poor logic.
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48 of 54 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Some Great Content With Some Not So Great Assertions February 8, 2012
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Written in 1995 and revised in 2005, Shepherding a Child's Heart contains some truly timeless truths about children: they are sinners in need of Christ. With this foundational assumption, author Tripp lays out what he believes parents should do according to Scriptures in order to shepherd their children into loving submission under their Creator.

The first half of the book breaks down what Tripp believes to be "foundations for child rearing." In this section, he writes about short and long term goals in raising children and about methods, biblical and unbiblical, for accomplishing them. The second half of the book focuses on the stages of childhood and the objectives and techniques unique to each stage.

Much of this book is excellent. Discipline, the brunt of the book, is not punitive, but restorative. Tripp rightly clarifies that a child's disobedience is rebellion against God and against His command to honor and obey one's parents, and he urges parents to help their children understand this concept. Understanding this opens a door for parents to talk about grace and our need of Christ's supernatural strength to do what He calls us to do. The focus of discipline is not on changing behavior, but addressing a child's heart. The "why" of behavior is weighted far more heavily than the "what."

There are two major flaws in the book, in my opinion. The first is the lack of control that the author gives a child over his own life . Up until the teenage years, parents are urged to make all decisions and to assert authority simply to teach a child submission. Tripp maintains that "when we allow our children to become independent decision makers we give them a false idea of liberty and a mistaken notion of freedom.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Solid, challenging teaching
Very informative for a basis for raising children from a biblical world view. It is broad on age groups, but is a must read, especially for young parents.
Published 2 days ago by Michael Podorski
3.0 out of 5 stars so-so
so-so
Published 2 days ago by Rhonda Webster
5.0 out of 5 stars What a blessing to have read this book!!!
this is not a guide how to abuse your children. Some of these comments are mind blowing. You can't read this book and all you get is "child abuse" people!?!??!?!?!? Read more
Published 8 days ago by Tim
4.0 out of 5 stars Very good theory. Need more example based
Very good theory. Need more example based, put into practice information. Led me to do more research and was a good start to developing better skills that are God-centered.
Published 9 days ago by LoraRM
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
Great book, every parent should read.
Published 13 days ago by grandma of twins
3.0 out of 5 stars Not exactly what it seem
I thought it was the revised edition. It was the orignial book and all my friends have the one that looks like the picture, which is the newest edition. Read more
Published 15 days ago by Amazon Customer
5.0 out of 5 stars excellent reminder of God's plan for parents
I truly enjoyed reading this book. I needed a reminder of my job as given by God. It is a great tool to get you back on track if you have fallen off the wagon or to get you started... Read more
Published 19 days ago by A. jones
5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars
I enjoyed this book and the author's perspective.
Published 23 days ago by Chris Yetzer
5.0 out of 5 stars LOVE this book
Grounded in scripture!!! LOVE this book!!!
Published 23 days ago by Josh
1.0 out of 5 stars Where is love?
I wish I could give this book zero stars. I kept looking for a mention of love, but there is none in this book. But, there is plenty of talk of spanking your child. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Sharon Thomas
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Dr. Tedd Tripp is pastor of Grace Fellowship Church in Hazleton, Pennsylvania and author of Shepherding a Child's Heart.

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