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James Douglas Barron grew up in the Midwest and now lives with his wife and their two children in New York City and Connecticut.
1. She's going to have a baby -- Congratulations!
But along with all those knowing winks and slaps on the back comes the realization that you're going to have a baby, too. Isn't that just great --Well, isn't it --?
2.If this is all so great, why do you feel as if you're about to have a breakdown.
Your wife hugged you to her chest and whispered warmly into your ear, You've just made me the happiest woman alive. Okay, maybe she didn't ex-actly do that, but you read the message in her eyes. You reveled in it, felt yourself swelling like a hot-air balloon-but you felt a distinct tugging, too, as if you were being held down, tethered to sandbags.
Sure, the first golden moments after finding out are greeting card-ish. All the things you ever thought would make her happy -- the ultimate tumble in the sack, a diamond ring, a home with a yard-are nothing compared to this. She's ecstatic, out of her mind. And you already feel queasy. Why? Because you feel responsibility looming above you like some ominous storm cloud. You can hear crashing thunder; she can't. You see lightning; she doesn't. You're taking the keys out of your pockets so you don't get electrocuted; she's not. You find the difference in your re-actions very disconcerting.
Your best remedy here is simple: learn from your wife. Don't look too far ahead or you won't appreciate the moment. Sure, take measures. Start saving (now!) if you're already worried about college tuition. But don't get so caught up in planning and plotting that you can't see the great beauty you've helped to create. Nobody can take that away from you. In other words, cut the strings, toss out the ballast, and soar.
More good news: you won't have a breakdown during pregnancy. Sometimes you'll think you're having one-but you won't be. (Then, dur-ing the first six weeks after your baby's born, you'll swear you're having a breakdown-but again, you won't.
Copyright ) 1998 by James Douglas Barron
My wife is in the first trimester of pregnancy, and I feel I have a better understanding of what to expect.
A quote from the book - "be sure to being small plastic cups with you for car trips and plane trips in case your wife can't make it to the bathroom in time."
Infact me and my wife are now reading it together (my second time) because it was so much better than any of her books.
More of a kitchey funny thing. My husband didn't really dig it that much.Published 1 month ago by Buyer
I wish they had this 47 years ago!! This is the definitive book for father's, family support, and attentive sperm donors. Read morePublished 2 months ago by Cat@rNell
Total disappointment. No real details into mood swings or emotions which is really what this book implied. Read morePublished 10 months ago by Shortzilla
This book is terrible. It's insulting to women and is a complete waste of time. A quote from the book - "be sure to being small plastic cups with you for car trips and plane trips... Read morePublished 16 months ago by Tasha N. Wilkins
This book was great. It was funny, full of great information, and I thoroughly enjoyed reading. Infact me and my wife are now reading it together (my second time) because it was so... Read morePublished 17 months ago by Katie
great book for dads to be, bought for my husband when I was pregnant and I even read it, it added humor as well as seriousness, something desirable to the first time fatherPublished 21 months ago by Sydnee Tucker
So funny my son and daughter in law love this book. Having their first baby. A great gift idea for men.Published on January 16, 2013 by Peggy L. Lamb