Shopping for Time: How to Do It All and NOT Be Overwhelmed (Paperback)

~ (Author), Nicole Mahaney Whitacre (Author), Kristin Chesemore (Author), Janelle Bradshaw (Author)
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?Like most women today, I struggle with feelings of ?too much to do and too little time to do it?! My friend Carolyn Mahaney, along with her daughters, offers practical, biblical advice to help us plan, evaluate, strategize, and make wise choices concerning our time and priorities. As a godly mentor, Carolyn takes us by the hand, points us to God?s Word, shares out of her own life experience, and shows us how to apply God?s timeless truths to the contemporary challenges we face as women.? Nancy Leigh DeMoss, author; Revive Our Hearts radio host ??We can actually do all that God has called us to do? and we can do it in a peaceful, joyful manner and get sufficient rest beside.? When I read that, a light flashed on in my soul. Of course! I knew that! Once again Carolyn, Nicole, Kristin, and Janelle have created a book that?s fun to read and filled with truth that resonates because it?s biblical and practical and manageable.? No?l Piper, wife, mother, grandmother, and author of Faithful Women and Their Extraordinary God ?Shopping for Time offers a glimpse into the delightful Mahaney household. This book offers no simplistic solutions to the perils of superwoman syndrome. Instead, it deliberately leads women to the bedrock of biblical priorities and then suggests real-life methods by which to apply them.? Mary K. Mohler, wife of R. Albert Mohler Jr., president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary --This text refers to the Kindle Edition edition.

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Overwhelmed. Miserable. Exhausted. These are often the words that women use to describe their high-demand lifestyles. How are women who are always on the go expected to cope with the demands of work, family, and ministry?

Carolyn Mahaney and her three daughters, Nicole Whitacre, Kristin Chesemore, and Janelle Bradshaw, recognize the needs of Christian women today. Shopping for Time offers the solution to women who truly desire to glorify God with every use of their time.

These authors offer five tips to help ladies do it all without becoming overwhelmed: rise early, sit down, sit longer (occasionally), choose friends wisely, and take fifteen minutes. By weaving biblical principles of God's Word into these keys, these authors give women practical advice on how to fulfill-and excel in-their daily responsibilities.

"Like most women today, I struggle with feelings of 'too much to do and too little time to do it'! My friend Carolyn Mahaney, along with her daughters, offers practical, biblical advice to help us plan, evaluate, strategize, and make wise choices concerning our time and priorities. As a godly mentor, Carolyn takes us by the hand, points us to God's Word, shares out of her own life experience, and shows us how to apply God's timeless truths to the contemporary challenges we face as women."
Nancy Leigh DeMoss, author; Revive Our Hearts radio host

"'We can actually do all that God has called us to do… and we can do it in a peaceful, joyful manner and get sufficient rest beside.' When I read that, a light flashed on in my soul. Of course! I knew that! Once again Carolyn, Nicole, Kristin, and Janelle have created a book that's fun to read and filled with truth that resonates because it's biblical and practical and manageable."
Noël Piper, wife, mother, grandmother, and author of Faithful Women and Their Extraordinary God

"Shopping for Time offers a glimpse into the delightful Mahaney household. This book offers no simplistic solutions to the perils of superwoman syndrome. Instead, it deliberately leads women to the bedrock of biblical priorities and then suggests real-life methods by which to apply them."
Mary K. Mohler, wife of R. Albert Mohler Jr., president of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

Product Details

• Paperback: 96 pages
• Publisher: Crossway Books (June 26, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1581349130
• ISBN-13: 978-1581349139
• Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 0.3 inches
• Shipping Weight: 4.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (17 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #56,997 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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39 of 39 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars time management for the glory of God, August 27, 2007

By	L. Wiggins - See all my reviews

Overwhelmed? Frustrated? Unhappy with the direction life seems to be taking you? The almighty to-do list rules many lives and many women are miserable because they just do not know how they are going to get it all done. Regardless of your present life season, all women can relate to feelings of not being able to get it all done. One can find dozens of time management books full of good advice for maximizing one's time. So, what makes Shopping for Time different from all the others? These women have learned "from God's Word that it is possible to deal with life's demands without becoming overwhelmed, miserable, and exhausted. We can surmount the numerous responsibilities that threaten to wear us down. More than that, we can actually do all that God has called us to do...A fantastic claim, we know. But it's true. We can accomplish everything God has ordained for us to do in this life. (Hint: It's probably not half of what's on your to-do list.) And we can do it in a peaceful, joyful manner and get sufficient rest besides."

The Mahaney women invite you to pull a chair up to Carolyn's kitchen table for their weekly Q & A. The Feta cheese and French fries will be flying as will some valuable wisdom and encouragement for whatever season of life you find yourself in today.

Every woman knows that a good day of shopping begins with proper planning. Women spend time searching out coupons and special sales, making lists of what to buy and who to buy for, noting which stores to shop and which ones to avoid, marking the days for the biggest sales, memorizing which seasons certain items are on sale, and most women who love to shop know exactly which racks have the biggest mark-downs. They know exactly where to go and when so that they do not waste any time. Yet when it comes to how we spend our lives, we miss some of the best deals because we fail to plan wisely. Too often, poor planning in our everyday lives carries a hefty price tag. Women must learn how to shop for time the way they shop for the best bargains.

The theme of this book comes from Ephesians 5:15-16, which reads, "Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil." Carolyn & Co. show how to wisely plan your days according to your particular season so that you do not misuse the time God has given you. They do not make it complicated or rigid; they offer five sound principles that will work for any woman regardless of her age or stage. They are:
1. Rise early
2. Sit still
3. Sit and plan
4. Consider people
5. Plan to depend

Each step builds on the one before it. The first step to becoming a savvy time shopper is joining the 5:00 AM Club. That doesn't necessarily mean one has to rise at 5:00 AM. "Early" looks different for each woman. It simply means that a woman rises before the rest of her family in order to sit still at Jesus' feet and prepare herself for service. You won't find any condemnation in this book if you do not rise at 5:00 AM. You will find compelling, encouraging, and practical reasons for rising before the rest of your family, or roommates as the case may be.

The second step is sitting at Jesus' feet. In this chapter, the Mahaney women offer encouragement for your quiet times. They believe it is imperative that women learn to spend time with God, so they provide some very good ideas and sound practices for becoming more consistent in the daily discipline of Bible reading and prayer. Again, you will not find any condemnation here, however, you will find a loving reminder that consistent quiet times do not earn us favor with God nor do our inconsistent quiet times cause us to fall out of His favor. As with the other books written by Mahaney women, the writing is centered on one person, Jesus Christ. Even in a book about time management, God's grace through Jesus is emphasized.

The third step is to sit and plan. This chapter explains how to have a personal retreat. If you've read Feminine Appeal, then you're already familiar with this term. The personal retreat is a special time a woman sets aside so that she can evaluate, pray, and read her Bible in order to create an action plan for living out her priorities, such as: growing in godliness, loving her family, serving in the church, fellowshipping with other believers, evangelizing non-Christians, attending to her work, and caring for her physical health. Each woman will have her own list of priorities, but the principle remains the same. According to the Mahaney women, to sit back and let life take you wherever it wants to go is a plan to continue making the same mistakes and leads to a foolish use of the time God has given.

The fourth step is to consider people. While on a personal retreat, in addition to considering your priorities, you must consider your relationships. The Mahaney women provide biblical wisdom regarding the many kinds of relationships women have: from family relationships to friendships to mentor/mentee relationships to relationships with those who need to hear the Gospel.

The fifth step is the everyday plan to depend on God. The main point to remember about this step is to remember to depend on God's grace for every day. In this chapter, the Mahaneys share some important tips for effectively managing daily life. This chapter also includes their combined wisdom regarding the busy seasons of life like when you welcome a new baby, move, start a new school year, or Christmas.

What good is all of this planning? With dozens of good things vying for our time, planning helps women know when to say, "Yes," and when to say, "No." The Mahaney women believe that the Christ-centered planning of priorities, relationships, and every day life will help women know how to decide where, when, and with whom they need to devote their time and energy so that they live fulfilled, fruitful lives for God's glory. "In the end, our highest goal each day is not flawless execution of our plans or increased productivity. It's our relationship with God, walking in dependence upon him throughout the day." It is a life carefully lived that is worthy of the Gospel.

"It's our prayer that this book will help you become a wise shopper of time in every season of your life, so when you pass from time into eternity, you can know the intense and indescribable joy of our Savior's pleasure and commendation. We look forward to meeting you there and hearing how God, by his grace, helped you to make the best use of your time here on earth."

This book reminded me that God's grace is there for each new day, and God will provide the necessary energy and strength to accomplish what He has called me to accomplish. Also, it reminded me that as a Christian, I have the responsibility to plan the wise use of the time He has given me to use for His glory. Shopping for Time is perfect for any woman, especially those women who want to say goodbye to frustration, misery, and feeling tired all the time. The time management (or life management) principles offered are timeless and Christ-centered. Christian women from about age 17 on up will enjoy reading and benefit from the wisdom presented by the Mahaney women.

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Shopping For Time, April 4, 2008

By	C. L. Blakey (Laguna Hills, CA United States) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

Carolyn Mahaney is one of my favorite authors. What I enjoy so much about her books is how consistently loyal she is to the Biblical text and how personal and practical she responds to those passages in her writing. Her two other books-Feminine Appeal, a book about Titus 2 and Girl Talk, a book for moms and daughters about Biblical womanhood-have been instrumental in my personal growth and ministry.

So, when I saw this book pop up on my Amazon suggested products page I was excited, especially because Caroyln wrote it with her three grown daughters who all contribute to the GirlTalk blog. I didn't want to even waste time waiting for it to come in the mail so that same week I visited the local Christian bookstore and bought it and after reading this review, I hope that is what you will do too!

Shopping for Time helped me think through my days and how I spend my time and I easily saw how I need to readjust a few priorities, step-it-up in some areas and completely overhaul others. I know that I don't always manage the time God has given me with the intensity and purpose that I ought to, so as I read this book I began to see that even though I thought, "I'm doing my best" managing my time, I really wasn't.

What I enjoyed most about this book were the five practical tips to help me evaluate and accomplish the things that God has called me to do as a Christian woman. Too often we are harried, frazzled and overwhelmed as we run around trying to get done all that we think we need to do each day. This book is not a "system" or 5-step plan to life success. It is simply the disciplines the Mahaney women have exercised over the years that have greatly maximized their usefulness for the Lord. Here is a glimpse at the 5 Time-Saving-Tips:

Tip #1-Rise early, they propose that you join the "5 AM Club" to reap benefits both for your spiritual life and the good of your family.

Tip #2-Sitting at Jesus' Feet, making reading and studying God's Word, prayer and meditation top priority.

Tip #3-Taking a Personal Retreat, a time to study God's Word, read pertinent books to where you are in life, devise solutions to some of our problem areas and make goals and plans that are thought out and Biblical for the upcoming months.

Tip #4-Consider People by evaluating relationships carefully. Do your friends sharpen you? Do you have a mentor and are you a mentor to someone? Are you reaching out to others by being a friend? Are you evangelizing those who need salvation?

Tip #5-Plan to Depend: being productive in daily life. One thing in this chapter that has really helped me is what they call the "15:4 rule." Fifteen minutes of planning in the morning, saves four hours of your day. When I read this chapter I started doing this the next morning and have found each day to be so productive because I wasn't wasting time trying to nail down what I needed to do next.

I hope reading these five ideas that you have some ideas about how you may need to change your schedule tomorrow! This book is simple, easy-to read and short, only 94 pages! What made this book so helpful is that it's not about teaching us how to perfectly execute our daily plans, but to make sure our heart is wholly God's, focused on Him and His priorities, relying on Him to accomplish each task and being intentional about living every day for His glory!

4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Finding the best deals...in time, February 17, 2008

By	Stephanie Van Gorden (Pennsylvania) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

"There is no such thing as simply a busy month or a busy year. It's a busy life, pure and simple...[But] we can actually do all that God has called us to do" (p. 13).

Sound far-fetched? Absolutely it does - it did to me! I've read stacks of books, just trying to learn what my schedule should look like, what my to-do list should look like...and on and on. Shopping For Time has been one of the simplest, most concise, and clearest helps in this process. "We wouldn't dream of going to the grocery store without a shopping list, or buying a car without haggling over the sticker price, or purchasing new shoes without checking the price tag, but we throw away our time as if we had an endless supply" (17).

In a sweet, conversational style, the Mahaney girls paint with appropriately broad strokes a picture of a life that is joyfully submitted to God's to-do list. This short (under 100 pages) book clearly, helpfully, and gently offers five tips on how to "shop for time," and it recognizes some things that many other time management or "Godly woman" books barely touch on or miss altogether:

The authors explain that we need to rise early (remember, flexibility!), sit at Jesus' feet, plan, consider the spheres in which God has placed us, and humbly recognize our dependence on God to be productive. The main thing this book has going for it is flexibility. What's required to act wisely will look different across the spectrum of women who're reading the book. What works for one won't work for all in exactly the same way. There are different seasons in each life, and application of these principles will look different during each one. Managing time wisely for the glory of God isn't something that can be done haphazardly. Your effort will depend on how complicated your life is, but there will be effort. Motivated rightly, though, our lives can be fruitful and joyful expressions of our love for the Savior and delight in serving Him.

"In the end, our highest goal each day is not flawless execution of our plans or increased productivity. It's our relationship with God, walking in dependence upon Him throughout the day. ...This book will help you become a wise shopper of time in every season of your life, so when you pass from time into eternity, you can know the intense and indescribable joy of our Savior's pleasure and commendation" (90, 94).