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Shut Up About...Your Perfect Kid! Paperback – February 1, 2007


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  • Series: Shut Up About. . .
  • Paperback: 172 pages
  • Publisher: Shut Up Industries, Inc.; 1st edition (February 1, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0979071305
  • ISBN-13: 978-0979071300
  • Product Dimensions: 0.5 x 7 x 10 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (108 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,465,337 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Instead of emphasizing the problems they face, Shut Up About. . . Your Perfect Kid! celebrates the strengths of children with disabilities and their families. It illustrates wonderfully the power of humor as a tool for coping with the challenges raising children with disabilities and those who love them. The combination of warmth and hilarity evident in the stories in this book will help parents of children with disabilities find new ways to maintain a healthy perspective on the joys and pains they face every day. The honesty, openness, and self-deprecating humor of the mothers who wrote this book -- and the children who let them write it -- provide many valuable and hilarious lessons that will be appreciated by any parent of a child with special needs. --Deirdre Logan, Ph.D., Psychologist, Children's Hospital Boston

Shut Up About . . Your Perfect Kid! is a delightful compilation of anecdotes from the real lives of sisters who parent their children with unconditional humor and do so with resounding success. Their ability to make the ordinary family experience one of extraordinary poignancy, by honoring the humanity in each of their special children, is a blessing for all parents who struggle with their own family issues of acceptance, expectation, and authority... Above and beyond the contagious humor within this book is the caveat that it contains for all of us: open your eyes to the gifts that each and every one of us bear -- young or old, large or small, abled, or challenged -- you may miss the most brilliant gems in life if you merely scan the surface of human existence. --Sally McCue, LISCW

Shut Up About . . Your Perfect Kid! has it all; humor, practical advice and inspiration. Most of all, it is a heartfelt outpouring of love from two mothers with special children who discovered themselves along the way. Read this book and you, too, will discover yourself. --John Alexandrov, best-selling author of Your Spiritual Gold Mind, Affirmations of Wealth, and The Money Chi

From the Back Cover

Us. vs. Them Battle: "It's hard to hear how good their kid is on the baseball field when yours would rather catch real flies."

Medication: "We've met parents who feel guilty for putting their kids on meds...for not putting their kids on meds...even for taking their kids' meds."

Food: "Yes, my daughter would like a Happy Meal. Please hold the meal and she'll be happy."

Marriage: "You can remember the name of Beaver Cleaver's first-grade teacher, but you can't remember to put your son on the bus?"

Sports: "Do we have to follow the ball Mom? It's more fun following a bee."

Everyday life: "Sorry, I missed the bus, Mom. I was practicing my funny faces in the mirror."


More About the Author

I'm Gina Gallagher, an imperfect author/speaker/mother/housecleaner/recordkeeper/daughter/blah/blah/blah. As a freelance copywriter and former humor columnist, I knew I was going to write a book someday; I just didn't know what it would be about (minor detail, I know). It wasn't until I experienced what was then the most difficult time of my life -- watching my daughter, who was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome, struggle to find her place in a perfection pre-occupied society. When my sister and co-author, Patty Konjoian, joked that she was going to write a humorous book about her daughter's struggle with bipolar disorder, I finally knew what that book would be about. Together, we penned Shut Up About Your Perfect Kid, A Survival Guide for Ordinary Parents of Special Children, which encourages all parents to learn to let go of their perfect expectations for their children and to love the reality. And most importantly, to understand that life doesn't have to be "perfect" to be meaningful and fulfilling.

I'm Patty Konjoian, the smarter, older (though I prefer to say "more mature") sister. I'm a Family Partner for Northeast Behavioral Health, as well as an award-winning freelance videographer. I'm also the mother of three wonderful, but, blissfully imperfect children, one of whom was diagnosed with bipolar disorder at the age of 11. While there was nothing humorous with watching Jennifer struggle, I did often joke that some of the things we had to go through were humorous. For example, I was sure I had a promising career as an Emergency Room critic, who could rate the E.R.'s based on the magazine quality, vending machine selections, and colorfulness of staff scrubs. When my daughter was struggling in her younger years, I felt overwhelmed, frustrated, and scared. Today, my daughter is doing amazingly well and attending college. Through our book and speaking, I am able to share her message of hope.

Customer Reviews

Bravo to the sisters for embracing their imperfection!
Sethany Griffin
A lot of what's in this book will make you laugh, a little of what's in this book will make you cry, and some parts will make you do both at the same time.
Nina Erickson
I highly recommend this book to everyone who has a child or knows a child with special needs.
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28 of 29 people found the following review helpful By Sethany Griffin on August 10, 2010
Format: Paperback
As the mother of two boys ages 9 and 11, one with autism and bipolar disorder and one with signifigant anxiety, this book was a refreshing positive change from all of the typical gloom and doom books out there on this subject matter. The "Shut up Sisters" have shined a bright light on the truth, that children with special needs are a huge challenge, but a huge blessing as well. Each of the sisters gives her own personal perspective on the happiness, joy, heartbreak and pain that comes with this difficult job of parenting special needs children that none of us are prepared to take on, and sends a very clear message, "You are not alone." Sometimes, just knowing that is what gets us through the day.

This book made me laugh and it made me cry, but most of all it made me realize how truly lucky I am to be blessed with the family and the support system I have. Bravo to the sisters for embracing their imperfection!
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13 of 13 people found the following review helpful By Mad bin Tod on March 27, 2007
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Shut Up About...Your Perfect Kid is exactly what parents of special children need to read. In addition to sharing extremely funny stories about special children, the authors break down barriers within the special needs community as well as throughout mainstream culture. Using humor, wisdom and revealing their own personal journeys, the authors create a "we're all in this together" reading environment. The book validates the fears, limitations and challenges of parenting special children; at the same time, the book encourages parents to examine our expectations and perspectives about our special children and appreciate the gifts they bring to our lives. Expect to sigh, cry and laugh out loud.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful By Deirdre Carey on May 24, 2007
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This is no "make lemons into lemonade" book! These two sisters open their hearts and their homes to the world to share an exceptionally honest and insightful approach to raising children with challenges. You'll laugh, and you'll cry. This is also a great read for parents who DON'T have children with special needs - so they can have a better understanding of what it is like...and then maybe they'll "shut up about their perfect child!" Way to go sisters! I've never read a book that was so heartfelt, and raw, and truthful! And I commend both the writers for having the strength to keep their families intact regardless of the many hurdles they've needed to overcome, and what is most impressive is their ability to find the dark humor during very difficult circumstances. Buy your copy TODAY!!!!
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Deborah A Stephens on August 3, 2010
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This book is excellent! It is a heart-warming and humorous journey of two sisters each raising a daughter(s) with a disability. If you feel as if you are the only one struggling to raise your special needs child, grab a tissue and sit down to read.
The book goes through their different reactions to their daughter's diagnoses and follows along through the good and the bad. Walk with Gina and Patty as they go thorugh IEPs, team meetings, appointments with psychologists and psychiatrists. Cry and laugh as they describe their daughters going to school, inclusion classroom, private school and life in general.
While their daughters have Asperger's, Bipolar disorder and NVLD you will enjoy reading no matter what your child's disability may be.
Join them and their many fans on Facebook as well "Shut-Up About Your Perfect Kid". Learn that while others brag about the honor roll or star athlete, your child has qualities worth bragging about as well.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By reading is fun on April 9, 2007
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Finally! A book that understands exactly how I feel on the days when I think there is no hope in sight and that I can laugh at some of the bumps in the road.
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Darcy Rubino on August 4, 2010
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I laughed, I cried.....SERIOUSLY! This is an informative, fun book for anyone who is related to, is friends with, or knows a family who has a special needs child. I love the personal stories that Gina & Patty tell, as well as the informative sections. The index is a great addition to the book as well. As a parent of 3 special needs children, it is comforting to know that I am not the only one who feels the way I do. It is also nice to be able to take such a serious subject and be able to find humor in it. You have to laugh at least once during the day to avoid crying all day.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Suri Fineberg on September 19, 2010
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This book is a great read. So enjoyable, I started and finished it in one day. You know how these thoughts pop into your head at times but you just keep your mouth shut? Well these ladies have these very same thoughts and speak their mind(s) in this book. It's refreshing, funny, and honest. Get out of my head ladies! I can't wait for these sisters to come to NY. We are waiting for you.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Elaine Scherer on March 5, 2007
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The BEST medicine for a parent when dealing with the many challenges of children with different needs! The book contains the wisdom and humor that we all need to reduce our challenges and anxieties of today's chaotic world and the raising of our children. Not only is it possible to manage our stressors, but when reading this book, we are also in an enjoyable experience! Great medicine for the heart!
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