Sick and Tired of Feeling Sick and Tired: Living With Invisible Chronic Illness [Paperback]

Paul J. Donoghue (Author), Mary E. Siegel (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: June 1994

Millions of people suffer from invisible chronic illness, that is, disease characterized by chronicity and by symptoms that are not externally apparent. Sufferers may look well and even function normally while suffering extreme fatigue or pain or any number of distressing symptoms from such illnesses as MS, ME, chronic fatigue syndrome, migraine or Crohn's disease. This book describes the anguish that these individuals endure and then offers the means to cope with their illness. It teaches them how to become more aware of the attitude they have towards the illness and how they can communicate with loved ones and doctors in a way that meets their needs. For sufferers and their spouses, relatives, friends, employers and doctors, this book offers both understanding and practical guidance.

Editorial Reviews

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An invaluable source of help and comfort to those who suffer from invisible chronic illness and to their caregivers and friends. -- Katherina Dalton, M.D.

One of the most helpful books about chronic illness that I ever run across....This book is captivating, informative, and sensitive. -- Allergy Aware

About the Author

Paul J. Donoghue, S.M., Ph.D., is a  psychologist in private practice in Stamford, Connecticut.

Mary E. Siegel, Ph.D., is a psychologist in private practice in Stamford, Connecticut. --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

Product Details

• Paperback: 288 pages
• Publisher: W W Norton & Co Inc; Rep edition (June 1994)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0393311546
• ISBN-13: 978-0393311549
• Product Dimensions: 7.9 x 5.3 x 0.9 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (26 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,863,486 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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62 of 62 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Validation for what you probably already know, April 23, 2002

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"dannonb" (Atlanta, GA USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Sick and Tired of Feeling Sick and Tired: Living with Invisible Chronic Illness, Second Edition (Paperback)

Unlike a lot of books with this theme, this one seems to do a good job of ferreting out the different ways that people deal with chronic illness. It is appropriate for most people with chronic illness, although it does focus on "invisible chronic illness". I was impressed that there were few places that made me want to roll my eyes and toss the book across the room. Usually books like this are filled with cheesy advice, such as "take time out for yourself" and "a good bubble bath can do wonders for your psyche". This one is written on a more intelligent level and talks about the real issues and challenges that face people with chronic illness and their caregivers.

44 of 44 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars!, November 5, 1998

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This review is from: Sick and Tired of Feeling Sick and Tired: Living With Invisible Chronic Illness (Paperback)

Excellent Guide to Emotional Health & Wellness I loved this book! Written by two psychologists who suffer from chronic illness, it offers hope and ways to cope. People with Crohn's, colitis, lupus, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, IBS, etc. will like this book because it's about invisible chronic illnesses in which the symptoms are not always externally apparent (like when your friend says, "You look just fine" but you're not). This can lead to lack of compassion, understanding, and strains relationships with family, friends, and coworkers. I especially like how the book helps focus awareness on illness and gives you ways to exercise greater control over it and over life in general. An extremely practical book, with techniques you will use in everyday life.

69 of 74 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Even my Dr. wants to read it!, August 23, 2000

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This review is from: Sick and Tired of Feeling Sick and Tired: Living With Invisible Chronic Illness (Paperback)

Hello, I have been diagnosed with several "invisible" chronic illnesses, meaning the symptoms are subjective for the most part and hard for others to "see" my pain and illness, therefore it is hard to get the support I need.

This book totally understands my experience, it validates every thing that has happened since I was diagnosed, and it helps me get the support I need. It is also excellent to give to others who you want to understand what you're going through. After reading this book, it will be impossible for anyone to ever say again "but you LOOK good".

I had an appt. with a doctor the other day and he saw the book in my hand and asked to look at it. He asked my opinion on it and said he had heard it was a great book. So I of course gushed on and on about it, how the authors truly understand the effects if ICI on our self-esteem, self-concept, the guilt and shame, the frustrations, the lack of support and the suspicion we are often confronted with because our symptoms are not visible (we don't have a wheel chair or a cane, or an easily recognizable condition). So he's going to buy it so he can understand what his patients are going through and be more helpful to them!

Next I am passing this book onto my husband, might buy a few copies for relatives for Christmas and sending the link to the members of my chronic pain support group. Pass the word, this is the book that will finally change how the world responds to us.