A Simple Christmas: A Faith-filled Guide to a Meaningful And Stress-free Christmas (Spirit of Simple Living) [Paperback]

Sharon Hanby-Robie (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: October 1, 2006

Oh, the sweet joy of Christmas! What more could we want than family, friends, goodwill, and the peace and hope of Christ's birth to celebrate in our hearts? But how can we keep the holiday simple and meaningful? How can we slow the rush, preserve the sacred and truly savour this special holiday? With inspiring narrative, real-examples and expert tips, and eight pages of full-colour photos, Sharon Hanby-Robie helps readers make choices that keep them attuned to the true spirit of the season. Topics include setting realistic expectations, developing creative ideas, initiating new traditions and activities, overcoming the holiday blues, and adding sparkle and glitter to holiday decorations. Readers can stop the worry, take a deep breath, and find out how "A Simple Christmas" can help move them brilliantly through the holiday season that God wants us all to enjoy.

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Oh, the sweet joy of Christmas! What more could we want than family, friends, goodwill, and the peace and hope of Christ's birth to celebrate in our hearts? But how can we keep the holiday simple and meaningful? How can we slow the rush, preserve the sacred and truly savor this special holiday?

With inspiring narrative, real-life examples and expert tips, Sharon Hanby-Robie helps readers make choices that keep them attuned to the true spirit of the season. Topics include setting realistic expectations, developing creative ideas, initiating new traditions and activities, overcoming the holiday blues, and adding sparkle and glitter to holiday decorations.

Readers can stop the worry, take a deep breath, and find out how A Simple Christmas can help move them brilliantly through the holiday season that God wants us all to enjoy.

From the Back Cover

"Don't despair. There is hope, and some of it is right here in this book. My goal is to help you add a little peace and quiet to your holiday celebrations and make room for meaningful time with loved ones." Sharon Hanby-Robie

What better way than God's way to celebrate Christmas?

Let Professional design expert, speaker and author Sharon Hanby-Robie show you how to set realistic expections and find new ways to celebrate the Christmas season. Find out how to:

-Discover simple, personalized decorating themes
-Create traditions that will bring memories for years to come
-Come up with new ideas for thoughtful gift-giving
-Survive the big family gathering
-Shop smartly and avoid the crowds
-Experience more goodwill through volunteering
-Prioritize your time for what's most important

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Product Details

• Paperback: 184 pages
• Publisher: GuidepostsBooks (October 1, 2006)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0824947037
• ISBN-13: 978-0824947033
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 8.3 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,049,072 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars This practical book will be one to which you'll refer each holiday season., June 5, 2007

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This review is from: A Simple Christmas: A Faith-filled Guide to a Meaningful And Stress-free Christmas (Spirit of Simple Living) (Paperback)

Have the holidays become mostly meaningless jingles and commercial hype for you? In A SIMPLE CHRISTMAS, Sharon Hanby-Robie, QVC's resident home décor expert, offers some practical tips to help change the way we approach the holiday. "Some people spell Christmas as s-t-r-e-s-s, but these holy days are gifts from God through which we stay connected to family and friends," writes Hanby-Robie. Think of this book as a good pep talk to remind you of things you want to do for Christmas --- and the things you promised yourself you'd give up!

Hanby-Robie starts by asking the reader to identify what they value most. "It is only by choice that we can redeem Christmas," she says. By choosing to focus on what we value, we can make decisions in light of what is most important to us. Mixing personal anecdotes from her own Christmases with practical advice and ideas for reflection, Hanby-Robie keeps everything she covers in line with making Christ and family the central focus of the holidays. Sections in the book cover attitudes, traditions, ambiance and activities, and gift-giving.

In a section on traditions, she offers some good ways to figure out what is most important to us. "Think of one childhood Christmas memory that you replay in your mind," she suggests. "Does it need to become part of your celebration this year?" Or, she suggests finishing the sentence, "Christmas wouldn't be Christmas if I didn't....". These are good ways to get started figuring out what traditions are most important to us.

I appreciated her chapter on depression, especially for those who tend to suffer from it around the holidays. It's a needed discussion of why the holidays are not happy times for everyone. Her prayer --- "Father, teach me to recognize the signs of those who need reminders of Your love. I know that in lifting others I, too, will be in a higher place. Amen." --- is a good one to keep in mind during the holidays. There's also a welcome section on blended families, interfaith marriages and keeping the holidays. And what about Christmas when you are alone? There are good insights on these lesser-discussed aspects of the holiday season.

Some of her tips you'll already know, but they are worth repeating. Don't lose your sense of humor. Let go of perfection. Don't travel out of guilt. Exercise. Get enough sleep.

However, you may be surprised by some of her advice. "Just because we love each other doesn't mean that spending Christmas together is the best thing to do," she writes in one chapter. "...The mere fact that you are already dreading the family holiday gathering is a tell-tale sign that things are not going to go well." Her questions are fairly open-ended, allowing each reader to personalize the text. "Ask yourself who energizes you," she instructs the reader in one section on deciding who to spend Christmas with.

However, she acknowledges that we can't all escape dysfunctional family gatherings, and gives some good survival tips. Practice answers to questions you know you are sensitive or touchy about. Have an exit strategy in mind in case things get too heated. Put your immediate family first. I would have enjoyed seeing some more concrete examples of each of these ideas, but with a little imagination you can flesh them out yourself.

In her section on decorating, I picked up a practical tip on stringing Christmas lights on the tree: go vertically, from trunk to tree tip, rather than horizontally around the tree. Ideas on gift-giving are also particularly valuable --- from using technology to best advantage, letting go of the "I have to reciprocate" myth, to gifts of time and talent. Surprisingly, there are excellent ideas about driving without rudeness during the holiday season and being a good guest, which were welcome reminders.

I didn't find the color photo section insert with ideas for decorating particularly helpful, and the oversized format of the book, although attractive, is less portable. A few paragraphs on the value of television shopping seem a bit self-promotional, given her occupation. But these quibbles were few.

As Hanby-Robie reminds us, "Celebrating Christmas is simply a time to remember that the Babe in the manger was born only because he was sent by God the Father to fulfill a mission for us, mere mortals. However we choose to celebrate, our goal should simply be toward a mindfulness of this great miracle." This practical book will be one to which you'll refer each holiday season.

--- Reviewed by Cindy Crosby

5.0 out of 5 stars Title says it all, October 14, 2010

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This review is from: A Simple Christmas: A Faith-filled Guide to a Meaningful And Stress-free Christmas (Spirit of Simple Living) (Paperback)

The author has titled this book exactly what she is trying to say to her readers. Christmas should be simple, meaningful and stress-free and she gives wonderful ideas on how to create it that way. I have been trying to do that for many years. Enjoyed the book.

5.0 out of 5 stars Invaluable!!!, November 23, 2009

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This review is from: A Simple Christmas: A Faith-filled Guide to a Meaningful And Stress-free Christmas (Spirit of Simple Living) (Paperback)

This book is an invaluable guide for the holidays...It's always been a paradox that the season associated with joy is all too often associated with stress and depression...Our expectations are way too high, and when they're not met we feel depressed and disappointed. If this is how you've felt during the holiday season, you NEED to read A Simple Christmas. This book helps you focus on what is really important during the holidays. It could have been called A Peace-filled Christmas. This book will help you feel the Spirit of Christmas...

Another book (fiction) that will leave you with the Spirit of Christmas: Christmas Gifts, Christmas Voices: A Holiday Novel of Hope and Healing