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Laughter and Redemption for a Gay Catholic, May 21, 2008
This review is from: Since My Last Confession: A Gay Catholic Memoir (Hardcover)
Pomfret nails what it's like to be a gay Catholic in this funny, vivid portrait of a man on a mission to be accepted in a Church that often makes it clear it doesn'[t want his kind. Peppered amidst the story line are little sidebar items and quizzes that make for fascinating learning about others (one looks at how to tell of Cardinal O'Malley is a homosexual) and yourself (one asks questions to determine if you're a gay Catholic; I scored 12 out of 14! I guess I know where I sit!) Employing contemporary imagery with well researched history and facts, Pomfret creates a personal tour-de-force. Pope Benedict XVI (who Pomfret calls B16), probably wouldn't be too happy, but, then again, maybe he would. Pomfret ultimately embraces all the imperfections of the Church, just as he embraces all the imperfections in himself and those around him. In the middle of a gay-Catholic discourse that usually ends up in bitter division, it's a masterful achievement of Pomfret's to end with laughter and redemption.
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I am validated at last, May 26, 2008
This review is from: Since My Last Confession: A Gay Catholic Memoir (Hardcover)
Scott Pomfret is a genius. This is a must read for every GLBT Catholic on the face of the planet. Every 100 years or so someone comes around and writes a brilliant and also funny account of lifes circumstances. In this case it is being GLBT and Catholic. Mr. Pomfret does it with such intellegence and wit. I feel like Mr. Pomfret has channeled my life of 64 years as a gay catholic man. No one understands gay humor like another gay person. I could not put this book down. Mr. Pomfret has validated every nuance of my life as a Catholic Gay Man. Dealing with the Hierarchy of the Roman Catholic Church is made easier once you understand them better. Mr. Pomfret does a brillant job of peeling away the layers of Church B... S... and lays open a human experience that reflects our lives. I am so grateful to Mr. Pomfret. Every Roman Catholic Priest, Bishop, Arch-Bishop, Cardinal and Pope should read this book. Free at last, free at last, thank God Almighty and Mr. Pomfret, I am free at last. I am not alone.
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9 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Give us this day our daily Father Bear Daddy ..., June 2, 2008
This review is from: Since My Last Confession: A Gay Catholic Memoir (Hardcover)
Does being a self-assured and proud gay man make you a bit of a hypocrite in also proclaiming to be a practicing Catholic? That's the question that Scott Pomfret asks himself in his hilarious (as well as insightful and seemingly historically/scholarly accurate) memoir. Starting with remembrances of how it felt to belong to the Church in his youth, he resumes practicing his faith in Catholicism, at a time and place where more people were leaving it: in Boston, at the time of the Church's lobbying to repeal gay marriages.
Pomfret (who works as a government attorney during the day and, with his partner Scott Whittier, is responsible for the "Romentics" series of explicit gay romantic novels) shows a knack for describing the stereotypical yet colorful individuals, both gay and straight, he met while involved as a lector (reader) at church services, and attending meetings of Dignity and a gay spirituality group. There's the tough pastor Father Bear-Daddy, a trio of elderly Irish lady volunteers he calls the Hale Marys (they're all named Mary), spirituality group leader Mama Bear, and the worldly Father McSlutty, among others. He also has a few choice names for the Archbishop, as well as the Pope (Pope Benedict XVI, whom he calls B-16.) He rants at, yet tries to reconcile, the rules and politics of the Church, which he correctly points out, largely came from individuals throughout history, not God. Ultimately, he focuses on the reality that the Church is made up of a diverse group of individuals, gay and straight, clergy or not, and spotlights the more memorable (or outrageous) among them.
As a "product" of 12 years of Catholic education (enough to turn off ANYone to organized religion for life!), I must admit I roared with laughter dozens of times at the author's spot-on depictions of the Church's less-than-logical rules and pronouncements. He deals with many concepts that would be considered in bad taste, and joyfully leaps over "the line" to tell it like it is. He almost (but not quite) made me want to give "my" church another try as well, which is certainly a miracle worthy of papal-declared sainthood! My only beef with the book is that it is somewhat unfocused and rambling, with many "déjà vu" moments that seem to overlap with sections that went much earlier in the book. Don't know if non-Catholics can relate much to it, but I do recommend the book highly for both practicing and "lapsed" Catholics. Give it four stars out of five.
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