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Single: The Art of Being Satisfied, Fulfilled and Independent

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I was looking for the perfect book as a gift to my sister, when Judy Ford's book, "Single" caught my eye.
In the past I have attended one of Judy Ford's workshops, and I have also read several of her other books, all which have been positive experiences. As I read through the comments and scanned the chapters, I knew instantly this was it.
When I got home I intended to wrap it up, but I opened it again and soon realized that I was caught up in reading the book myself.
I love this book!
The author's approach to the condition of being single is refreshing, and she keeps it honest. It defines why it is so important to cast aside the tired and outdated stereotype of what being single means. There is something for everyone here, and this book recognizes that we are all individuals who approach the world differently. Judy Ford's book encourages singles to embrace the person they are, living life to the fullest.
I especially like the way this book provides specific exercises that help realize self confidence and personal awareness. This is all done in a warm humorous manner that makes this book useful, informative and fun to read. I highly recommend it.

I do not know what I expectd when I bought this book, but what I got was much more than I thought it would be. This is not an easy book for me to read, but it is illuminating. I have been divorced for three years and while reading this book, I realized that without intending to I have put my life on hold. I've been waiting for the right someone to come along so that I can start enjoying my life again. This is not a good way to live. This book has gently shocked me into facing the reality that right now I am single. I have felt sad and ashamed about my situation, but after reading the author's story, I felt proud of her and of all single men and women who refuse to settle for less and have figured out how to be satisifed, fulfilled,and independent. I want to be one of those too. The author's funny and wise words have inspired me. The tips at the end of the each section are genius.

I feel very lucky to have discovered this gem. Most books on the subject either treat the single life as though it is one big, never-ending, carefree party OR they treat being single as though it is a terrible sickness needing to be cured giving advice only about how to find a mate as opposed to talking about how to be satisfied in life regardless of your relationship status. What Judy Ford does so brilliantly in this book is help comfort that lonely feeling that resides within all of us. Becuase the truth is that even within the most fulfilling relationships, all of us have moments when we feel terribly alone, longing for something more. Judy Ford helps to make sense of that feeling, to be comfortable with it instead of fear it.

This is not your typical self-help book. Single is miraculously funny and deep at the same time. Parts will make you laugh out loud! It is valuable read for anyone who wants to create a truly fulfilling life for herself (or for himself too, of course!).

The author is a widow and a divorcee, as one she mainly speaks to singles in their 30s and 40s looking to desperately settle down, showing them that there is a way of living happily single, even if it means forever.

What she doesn't do is convince you with applicable, viable examples of day to day life. For instance, she tells the story of how she was dreading to go to the theater alone on a Saturday night after her husband had passed away. She describes that she felt miserable, and like everyone was probably looking at her and feeling sorry, pity for or even disdain from her. Instead of explaining how she mustered the courage to stand, alone, in line for a ticket, she's abysmally mortified by how daunting the situation is, and instead of buying herself a popcorn and a soda, she buys herself 2 popcorns and 2 sodas, thereby "tricking" the popcorn lady and solving the situation (at least so it seems, since the author then concludes that "it's not so bad to go to the theater alone"). Is this the kind of advice that will get you signing up to singleness? So every time I encounter an awkward situation I need to go out of my means to assure the environment there's nothing wrong with me?

I know this was a bit long but that really stuck out to me and I felt like the author wasn't really being sincere with her advice. I mean, if she can't be truly happy being single, and it's all a sham, why would I take her word for how ostensibly great it is?

The book is also a bit cheesy and sophomoric in its "tips". One of her regulars in every chapter is "spread your arms to the heavens and shout "YES!"". Seriously?

Maybe I'm just not the one to particularly respond to this kind of literature. I was looking for a guidance book to help me overcome my obsession with partnering up, and just being fulfilled being on my own. The book starts out very well, but it just goes downhill from there.

I recently ended a eight year relationship and was feeling lost as to how to build a life as a single again. This book not only gave me some practical ideas to get me started, but more than that, it infused me with excitement. I know that I can have a full life regardless of my relationship status and I intend to focus on what inspires me rather than who I am dating. I think this is a top notch book that will help all singles create a great life. Cheers to Judy!

This is the most charming and intimate book on being single that I have read.It lifted my spirits and gave me a down to earth perspective that I hadn't considered. It is a happy read and after I was finished, my single world was brighter and more interesting. I loved it! I hope Judy Ford writes another book on this subject because I didn't want to stop reading. Reading Single is like having a conversation with a really good friend.

. . .the person who was once married, but is now divorced or widowed; the person who has never been married; the person who has been married more than once; the person who feels like life is not worth living unless he/she is in love; the person who wonders if men and women can ever be just friends; the person who feels envious of those who are married; the person who is raising a child or children alone; the person who was engaged but decided to back out of a wedding; the person who has just dumped or been dumped; the person who feels the need to jump from relationship to relationship for fear of being alone; the person who's being pressured by family or society to be coupled up; the person who feels like a loser for not having a significant other; the person who wonders if he/she will find that special someone; and the person who wonders how he/she can be happy in a world that seems to sanctify "Leave It to Beaver"-type families.

If the any of the above describes you, then this book is absolutely for you. After you read it, you will discover a wonderful math equation: single does not equal loser or loneliness.

This is an honest, heartfelt look at both sides of the single coin and that is why I like it so much. On one side of the coin, I really like the single life that I've created for myself and on the other side I feel lonely in what often seems like a world of couples. After reading this book, I felt good about the life I am living.I liked the tips and quotes. Thank you Ms. Ford for givng singles dignity.

This is a fabulous book. As a single woman in my late 40's this was a wonderful read. It was a thought provoking book that me laugh and cry. I felt good when I finished. It made me feel empowered and peaceful in my singledom. I will be reading it over and over again.

I would reccomend it to all!

I just got Judy Ford's great new book "Single" and immediately got inspiration. I have never felt "bad" about being single and enjoy my freedom to pursue life, love, and happiness all on my own. I agree wholeheartedly with Judy Ford's proclamation that the "best revenge is a good life." It always bugged me that "Sex and the City" had to pair all four girls up at the end of the series. Maybe if the had read "Single" they would have honored single women everywhere instead!