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Irene Watson (Author)
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October 2005
Irene Watson's work as a therapist could go no further until she faced her own past. Her poignant and inspiring memoir begins at the end, in a recovery center, where she has gone to understand a childhood fraught with abuse, guilt and uncertainty. Her powerful story is a testament that it’s never too late to change your life, never too late to heal.

"The Sitting Swing" was a rope swing, hung from a tree next to the tiny cottage her Russian immigrant father built by hand from hand milled logs and mud in the Northern Canada in the early 20th century. Any motion at all would smash the child into a vigorous rose bush. It was a sitting swing in a family not given to play, in a childhood stretched between two very different cultures.

Irene was born into a tight Ukrainian speaking community and a family struggling with guilt, shame, and grief over the death of a first born child—a son. The old world immigrant culture placed much of the blame for Irene's brothers death on her mother, causing her to hold her next child close to home, segregated from the new culture, victim to the blunt aggression of male cousins, and scornful townspeople.

"The Sitting Swing" shows us how guilt, fear and ignorance are borne by our children. Two distinct parts of the book look at an abusive child rearing and the process of recovery that takes place years later. On many levels this is a classic immigrant story showing us that change, growth, forgiveness and recovery are possible. It is also a heart warming healing story and a testament to the strength and courage of the human spirit.


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Named for a childhood swing the author remembers as being impossible to get moving because of the rose bushes directly behind it, Watson's memoir recounts her fearful, highly sheltered years growing up an only child to Ukrainian immigrants in 1940s Alberta, Canada. Watson writes from the hindsight of her 50s, living in a Quebec addiction-recovery facility, where she has checked herself in for 28 days, unsure whether she can stay married to a husband she considers as overbearing as her mother was to her. Gradually, Watson uncovers the childhood wounds leading to her personality crisis: until age six, she lived in a log cabin in the wilderness within a few feet of her prohibitive mother, who pined for her dead firstborn son. Watson was largely ignored by her farmer father, abused by cousins and neighbors, and unable at first to speak English at her schoolhouse or make friends. Denied expression and love within the family, she acted out and married a man who helped continue to make excuses for her lack of ambition. She undergoes a rigorous 12-step program and a systematic breaking down of her ego so that she can re-create herself. This is an earnest memoir, well structured, though the writing lacks rigorous urgency. (Jan.)
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Brave and inspiring, full of heartbreak and hope. -- Barbara Robinette Moss, author of Fierce

Irene Watson is no longer in hiding. -- Stan Biderman, author of Everything Changes

The Sitting Swing looks at one woman’s life as she seeks to escape childhood bonds and deal with her pain. -- TMC Reviews, October 2005

Product Details

  • Paperback: 156 pages
  • Publisher: Plain View Press (October 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1891386492
  • ISBN-13: 978-1891386497
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 0.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (44 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,371,218 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Author of "The Sitting Swing: Finding Wisdom to Know the Difference", co-author of "Rewriting Life Scripts: Transformational Recovery for Families of Addicts" and editor of "The Story That Must be Told" and "Authors Access: 30 Secrets for Authors and Publsihers." Managing editor of Reader Views www.readerviews com, Reader Views Kids www.readerviewskids.com, First Chapter Plus www.firstchapterplus.com; Host on Inside Scoop Live www.insidescooplive.com,and AuthorsAccess www.authorsaccess.com.

 

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars cleansing the memories, November 19, 2005
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Rebecca Brown "rebeccasreads" (Clallam Bay, WA United States) - See all my reviews
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Rebeccasreads highly recommends THE SITTING SWING as a simply told passionate telling of one person's wrestle with reality, & the consequences of her behavior patterns. While it's in dire need of a copy editor, it rang all my bells, as I love a good internal adventure, complete with a life-changing "Ahha!" &, by the way, THE SITTING SWING would never have been written had the author not had that "Ahha!"

This is a memoir which begins at the end, in a recovery center, where Irene Watson has gone to "understand". What, she's not quite sure. After all, she's a highly successful dynamo, with all the accoutrements of the child of immigrants dreams: career, home, family, friends.

Born into a tight-knit, Ukrainian-speaking Northern Canadian community & a family beaten down by guilt, shame & grief over the death of their first born son, Irene's world was smothered by old world immigrant culture & by her mother who kept her close to home, segregated from the new culture, & the target of aggression by male cousins, & scornful townspeople.

THE SITTING SWING is a lively & frank record of one person's adventure into the realm of self-discovery, memories, responsibility for one's own life & the art of taking it back. Taking it back from forgotten childhood events & lessons that unconsciously drive us into deadends, into rages, into obsessions with control, into immoderate use of drugs & drink -- anything to soothe those dreadful pangs of helplessness, insatiability & a boring, troubled & empty future.

While in dire need of a copy editor, THE SITTING SWING is a must read for anyone struggling with bad memories & a hopeless present.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A insightful story, October 13, 2005
This review is from: The Sitting Swing (Paperback)
The Sitting Swing is an insightful story. Ms. Watson lets you look inside her mind as she faces her childhood demons and adult struggles. With an honest voice she goes through the healing process and shows us all that it is never too late to change and never too late to heal. A well-written book that will appeal to just about anyone.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars If you love a love a good ending, you will love this book!, April 8, 2007
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April 09, 2007

The Sitting Swing is an encouraging and inspiring story of one person's experiences of growing up that rings true for most of us who have had similar, if not the same kind of story to tell of the kind of childhood abuse that programmed us to think that we are victims who are powerless and helpless to do anything about our external circumstances.

Being raised by a controlling mother and an absent father, whether it be emotionally absent or physically absent is more common than not. Few of us have been raised or treated like the children we grew up with on television's "Father Knows Best," or the "Donna Reed Show." The difference between Irene and us, however, is that she had the courage to share her reality with the world in this inspiring story, and did it in such a balanced way that both our emotional and intellectual minds can easily relate and comprehend to the kind of damage that can be done to us while growing up.

What I loved the most about The Sitting Swing was that Irene Watson teaches us how we all can take power over our programmed feelings of helplessness, and with love and understanding we too can come to terms with ourselves and go on to lead happy and healthy lives.

If you love a love a good ending, you will love this book!


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