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Slow Love: How I Lost My Job, Put On My Pajamas & Found Happiness [Hardcover]

Dominique Browning
3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (62 customer reviews)

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Book Description

May 9, 2010

From the beloved author Dominique Browning, a humorous and moving book about losing a job and winning a life.

In November 2007, former editor in chief of House & Garden magazine Dominique Browning experienced what thousands have since experienced. She lost her job. Overnight, her driven, purpose-filled days vanished. With her children leaving home and a long relationship ending, the structure of her days disappeared. She fell into a panic of loss but found humor despite everything, discovering a deeper joy than any she had ever known. It was a life she had not sought, but one that offered pleasures and surprises she didn’t know she lacked.

Slow Love is about wearing your pajamas to the farmers’ market, packing up a beloved home and moving to a more rural setting, making time to play the piano and go kayaking, reinventing yourself, and not cutting corners when it comes to love, muffins, or gardening. This elegant, graceful—and yet funny—book inspires us to dance in the kitchen and seize new directions.

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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Starred Review. Browning's 13-year-job as editor-in-chief of House & Garden fulfillingly defined her days and her identity; when the magazine folded two years ago, she was shaken to the core of her being. Having maintained her Westchester house, family of two grown sons, extensive garden, and frequent dining out, her life and general sense of self was radically shaken over the next year, and in this enchanting, funny, deeply gracious memoir, Browning, many years divorced, recounts how she found enlightenment at the other end. Writing was one way to absorb the panic; she went on a muffin-baking binge and gained 15 pounds; lost track of days, remaining comfortingly in her pjs and yearning perilously to reconnect to a former lover she calls Stroller, who was deemed wrong for her by everyone she knew. A few small decisions had enormous impact, such as when insomnia compelled her to tackle Bach's Goldberg Variations on the piano, and poignantly she refocused on her artistic nature. There is such feeling and care on each page of Browning's well-honed memoir—her rediscovery of nature, her avowal to let love find her rather than seek it, tapping satisfying work at her own keyboard—that the reader is swept along in a pleasant mood of transcendence. (May)
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“If you read one book, make it Slow Love … advice we could all use, regardless of whether we’re gainfully employed!” (Shape Magazine )

“In burnished, exquisite prose, Browning describes her feelings of being set adrift until she gradually transforms her helter-skelter days into a deliberate, contemplative way of life. … There’s a lovely ‘thinking out loud’ quality to Slow Love that makes the reader privy to Browning’s soul.” (Judy Bolton-Fasman - The Boston Globe )

“Starred Review. There is such feeling and care on each page of Browning's well-honed memoir—her rediscovery of nature, her avowal to let love find her rather than seek it, tapping satisfying work at her own keyboard—that the reader is swept along in a pleasant mood of transcendence.” (Publishers Weekly )

“Not only an elegant and meditative writer but a pungently witty one ... Triumphantly, [Browning] makes the case for slow love achieved, a process she describes as the flip side of nostalgia: the state of 'knowing what you’ve got before it’s gone.'” (Miranda Seymour - The New York Times Book Review )

“There cannot be a person on earth who does not sometimes wonder what the purpose of their life is. Dominique Browning was lucky enough to get fired, so she had time to find out who she was or might be. And we are lucky that she was able to write (often with great humor) about her loss, her loves, her pajamas and ultimately, her return to life.” (Maira Kalman, author and illustrator of The Principles of Uncertainty )

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 250 pages
  • Publisher: Atlas; First Edition edition (May 9, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1934633313
  • ISBN-13: 978-1934633311
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 4.5 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (62 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #496,542 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Dominique Browning is a writer, editor and consultant in the newspaper and magazine fields. She blogs at SlowLoveLife.com.

She has worked with and written for The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, New York magazine, O, the Oprah magazine, Departures, Food &Wine, Travel & Leisure, Body + Soul, Wired and On Topic, among others. She writes a monthly column about environmental issues for the Environmental Defense Fund website.

Until November 2007, Browning was the editor-in-chief of House & Garden, a magazine of 950,000 readers. Browning began her career in 1977 working at Savvy and American Photographer magazines. She also worked at Esquire, Texas Monthly, Newsweek, and Mirabella magazine before joining Conde Nast.

Browning is the author of three books: Around the House and In the Garden: a Memoir of Heartbreak, Healing, and Home Improvement; Paths of Desire: the Passion of a Suburban Gardener; and Slow Love: How I Lost my Job, Put on My Pajamas, and Found Happiness. She has also authored several books under the House & Garden brand.

Browning is a classically trained pianist, and also performed with Wesleyan's Javanese Gamelan orchestra. She is the mother of two sons and lives in New York and Rhode Island.


Customer Reviews

Not a badly written book, just one that is unfocused , unrelatable and uninspiring. ireadabookaday  |  7 reviewers made a similar statement
This author is honest, brave, adorable, funny, and generous. S. Robinson  |  14 reviewers made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
62 of 67 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Moving Honesty April 20, 2010
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Dominique Browning's thoughtful, sensitive writing invites us to share in deeply personal, often unshared feelings of our own. Her ability to write about her own vulnerabilities and her insight into overcoming these is moving, honest and inspiring. She leaves us feeling a voice has been put to feelings we have not quite been able to articulate, even to ourselves. Her spirit is triumphant and glorious in a meaningful way and reminds us of how we should really live this life. Life is here to be savored, not spent on false pretenses created by us and the corporations we serve. Life can be beautiful, even in its sorrow, if you take the time to allow it in. Brava for this wonderful, wonderful book!
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224 of 260 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars UNEMPLOYMENT FROM A PRIVILEGED PERSPECTIVE May 4, 2010
Format:Hardcover
Not many people who lose their jobs are able to enjoy the comfortable unemployment that Browning does.( Several houses, freelance and consulting jobs, trips to the opera, , etc.) She does have a brief period of staying home in her pajamas ( see the subtitle) -but only Lanz and Brooks Brothers, anything else would be unfashionable.

Except for recently unemployed New York media executives, who can really relate to her position? While I understand that job loss is stressful for anyone, it is less stressful when one has no worries about how to feed and clothe and house herself. Browning has an epiphany about baking muffins ( striking a faux naif tone -after 15 years of being single how can she have never cooked or shopped for herself?) which leads to a 15 pound weight gain ( the fancy wardrobe doesn't fit anymore), for which she consults with a wonderful doctor ( whom she seemingly has no difficulty paying- I guess she's not worried about the cost of health care) And she decides to sell one of her two houses- not so hard when you have another. The one portion of the book in which Browning seems truly distressed is in discussing her muffin- related weight gain- for this woman being a size 10 seems to be worse than losing a job or ending a relationship.

But aside from being unable to relate to her privileged position, one reason I cannot see why I'd want to take advice from or lend much weight to this woman's insights is that though she insists several times that she is lost without work, she seems to give up very easily on the idea of finding another job, and her biggest concern seems to be how to pleasurably fill her time and structure her days.

A surprisingly large part of this book is not about recovering after a job loss, or learning to live a simpler life, but recounts Browning's lengthy relationship with a married man who demonstrates time and again that he will never commit to her, and she stays with him even after he tells her outright that he does not believe that love can last. Oh, and he goes to London to shop when she's recovering from cancer surgery. What a catch!

So...is this someone whose advice and insight I should give much credence to? I think not.

Not a badly written book, just one that is unfocused , unrelatable and uninspiring. It seems designed to appeal to the Eat Pray Love crowd, which for all its flaws is a superior book.
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50 of 56 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Unemployed.. and Living in Newport! August 5, 2010
By Sababa
Format:Hardcover
Dominique Browning spins a really good tale. I went along with her story, watching as our heroine downsized to a modest little house on the water in Rhode Island. Wow, she really broke away from all that House Beautiful stuff. Or did she? The author lives in a $2 million+ house near Newport, Rhode Island! That revelation sort of destroyed the author's credibility for me. Kind of like seeing the guy behind the curtain in the Wizard of Oz.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Read it when you retire
This book is not just about losing your job. It is about life changes. No sugar coating and phony stiff upper lips. This is real life as told by a real person.
Published 1 month ago by mlouise
2.0 out of 5 stars It goes on and on and on and on........but nowhere really.
A great vocabulary, too much time and money on her hands with great connections and some journaling = SLOW LOVE. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Wendy B. Watson
5.0 out of 5 stars The best thing that ever happened to Dominique Browning? Losing her...
"Slow love" is a good description of the way I've come to know Dominique Browning. After decades of a nodding acquaintance when we worked at glossy magazines, we started reading... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Jesse Kornbluth
3.0 out of 5 stars Not award winning but worth the time to read
While this book lacked a good plot line or easy to follow story (it seemed to jump around a lot and was a bit scatter brained) it had tokens of charm and I can site numerous quotes... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Avolyn
3.0 out of 5 stars Slow Love book by D. Browning
Did not enjoy the book as much as I thought I would. Expected some more realistic experience of an average person and did not find that with this book. Did not finish reading it.
Published 3 months ago by K. Kaczmarek
5.0 out of 5 stars Slow Love, How I Lost My Job, Put On My Pajamas & Found Happiness
I loved the story line. She made me think of how we as women face things in our lives. We chose our roads and start traveling thru the years. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Quilt Lady
2.0 out of 5 stars A disappointment
To put any bias on the table before starting, I am a Dominique Browning fan and have been for many years. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Sharon Green
1.0 out of 5 stars Still Waiting
Do men ever write books about waiting for some married woman to leave her husband to marry him? That he mopes around trying to make sense of the fleeting years as he watches... Read more
Published 6 months ago by dudnpad
5.0 out of 5 stars Source of encouragement
This author did an excellent of job of turning a hard time in her life into a time of introspection and change. Read more
Published 7 months ago by C. Kalel
5.0 out of 5 stars Dominique does it again....
Dominique and I sometimes seem to be living parallel lives. Her "Around the House and in the Garden" found me just in time to feed my soul, as I suffered feelings of depression and... Read more
Published 8 months ago by Laura Lee Carter
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