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Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm Hardcover – May 25, 2011
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"Ah! Combining meditative awareness with sexual peasure! What could be better--or more life-enhancing--than this?" -Christiane Northrup, MD, OB/GYN physician, and New York Times bestselling author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause
"Slow Sex is the real deal on pleasuring a woman. For any guy who want his fifteen minutes of sexual fame, Daedone offers practical and inspired guide to the orgasmic big leagues." -Ian Kerner, sexuality counselor and New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First
"Daedone makes her arguments persuasively, with clear instructions and a knack for the just-right analogy or phrase. This is not another tantra book....OM practice should give many people a fresh and satisfying conduit to deeper sexual intimacy. Recommended." -Library Journal
"Daedone's philosophy is a refreshing counterpoint to the porny mainstream." -Salon.com
"At a time when many women feel pressured to add sex to their Superwoman to-do list without feeling like they get much in return, Slow Sex is a much needed and welcome invitation for women and men to strip down to the bare essentials of a woman's authentic sexuality so sex can fill her up, rather than deplete her. A must-read for any woman who hasn't fully accessed her orgasmic potential and yearns to more fully embody the intimacy and surrender a loving sexual relationship can bring to a woman's wholly healthy life." -Lissa Rankin, MD, OB/GYN, author of What's Up Down There and founder of OwningPink.com
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And, it's make me understand that a man will truly focus on me - just me - for a while, and that's really okay! I always got nervous when a man went down on me...I figured he wanted me to hurry up so he could have his turn, that me must be pretending to be enjoying it, and it just stressed me out. Which makes it REALLY hard to come (so, I became a good actress).
It sounds silly written like that, but I've censored my own sexual wants and needs for so long...the concept and practice of OM is really, truly wonderful. Wanting to be touched now, in this way, is okay for me to feel, and okay for me to say.
Finally, I'm learning that there's no reason to cover up my desires and my needs with embarrassment, thinking I should hide my desires and focus on pleasing my male partner.
As with many women, my early sexual experiences were (very very) not good. I lost my virginity via rape, as a teen, during an assault by a stranger, and I guess I never really recovered. Sex was something I did because my boyfriends, then my husband, wanted/needed it. Over the years it transitioned from very scary (even with my kind, safe boyfriend) to usually very enjoyable, but I never learned to speak up and say what I wanted. I dated some great guys who wanted to please me, but I couldn't get past my own issues to tell them about my own fantasies, or even something simple, like to please "move a little to the left" as they touched me.
I read that on a message board.
So I bought Nicole Daedone's book.
On page 1: "I teach a practice called Orgasmic Meditation. It's a way that any man can bring out the orgasm in any woman, in just fifteen minutes."
Would you read on?
Very quickly I learned that orgasm, for Daedone, is not the moment of climax. It's the entire experience of sex. It's the way sexual potency is "a source of power," an "entry point" to joyful living, a "gateway" to a deeper connection with your lover.
Or would you prefer to learn, from "50 Shades," how to enjoy being whipped with a riding crop?
Given that choice, any reasonable woman --- or any man involved with a woman who prefers improved reality to romance novel fantasy --- would ask: So what is the technique?
It's not sex. It's not even foreplay. After 15 minutes, you get up and leave. It's just what Daedone says it is --- meditation. But because we're talking about orgasm, you do it with your body.
Or rather, you do it with the woman's body --- because the man remains fully clothed. She removes her pants. Lies down. Spreads her legs. From there, he does everything. Looking. Stroking. Talking.
However much I may be a man of the world, I blush to tell you the specifics. So please watch Nicole Daedone's TED Talk (yes, she made a presentation at TedxSF). I'd suggest that you start at 5:30 and cut out around the 10-minute mark.Read more ›
Obviously, this book is about sex, but in reality it is about much much more. This should be the first book recommended to struggling couples in couples counseling. Relationship problems are often most evident in your sex life. From my own experience, when things are good, so is the sex, when things are bad, so is the sex. Is this cause and effect? Is the sex bad because of the relationship or is the relationship bad because of the sex? This book will teach you how to use sex to bring you closer to your companion, regardless of their gender.
I am astounded at how powerful and effective this has been in improving my relationships over the past couple years. Buy this book, learn how to love your companion to his or her fullest. This isn't just about women. While the main focus of the book is about women, it is most useful for men who are trying to understand their women. Male and female libido are different, understanding those differences will only increase your happiness in your relationships. Seriously, I don't read sex books but this one changed my life.
From this book I learned how to easily and comfortably develop a DEEP level of passion and intimacy with my partner, no pun intended. They should make you read this book before they give you a marriage license, yes it is that amazing! Even though I haven't stayed with the girls that have worked thru this book with, because of it we are still great friends and are still very close. You will develop relationships that you never thought possible, that are long lasting, honest, and authentic, all thru the power of sex.
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I have been to two of the One taste seminars in NYC, and they do not communicate the OM concept any where near as well as NIcole does in this book. Read morePublished 26 days ago by Michael Batty
I heard about Slow Sex and Orgasmic Meditation in Tim Feriss' book, the 4-hour body - and stopped reading to order this. Read morePublished 2 months ago by Aileen Hoffman de Burbure
This could start a revolution in the line of spiritual practice that uses the sexual experience as the springboard to enlightenment. Read morePublished 3 months ago by JayJay
I was introduced to OM about a year ago. I have been wanting to take the class, but thought I should read the book first. I am excited to start this process. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Krysstweety