100,000 COPIES IN PRINT! The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and similar consensual practices. With chapters on everything from partner-seeking to afterplay, including step-by-step guides to bondage, spanking, flagellation, roleplay, erotic torment and much more, Jay Wiseman's SM 101 has taught the fundamentals of safe, exciting SM to tens of thousands of people of all genders and orientations! "If you want to read SM nonfiction that has a pulse and passion, that inspires as much as it instructs, SM 101 is the book for you." - Joseph Bean, Drummer
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It goes by many names: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and more. In Jay Wiseman's SM 101, the long-taboo subject of consentual sadomasochism is accurately, insightful presented in the context of adult human sexuality, experience and tradition for the interested non-specialist general reader. SM 101 surveys the entire spectrum of consentual sadomasochistic practices from from bondage, to spanking, to erotic role-playing, and more. Now in an expanded second edition, SM 101 includes a new chapter on starting and running sadomaschistic organizations and events for consenting adults. Greenery Press has an extensive title list in the area of human sexuality and maintains a site on the World Wide Web (see the above URL) with a complete roster of their publications in various aspects of human sexuality and practices. -- Midwest Book Review
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221 of 222 people found the following review helpful
By SH in Tampa
Format:Paperback
BDSM, by nature, is shrouded in a world of fantasy. This is fantastic if you are sitting down for a good erotic "read", however, it is more problematic if you are contemplating trying to act out your SM fantasies. Fortunately, readers now have access to a non-titillating , realistic guide to SM play. Jay Wiseman is an experienced SM player and a popular lecturer/speaker at many BDSM events and his book, SM 101, has condensed down his years of scene experience into a very readable guide to SM play.
It is somewhat of a `technical manual' that explains SM terminology, the mechanics of `erotic pain' as well as how to use clamps, bondage, flagellation, erotic torture and humiliation. The second part of the manual introduces the reader to SM organizations, SM relationships and how to construct specialized types of scenes. This book is a definite must have for anyone contemplating exploring the public BDSM scene. The terminology and basic safety rules are "musts" at any responsible event.
Because this is book is written by a scene player, it does move a little quickly over the initial exploratory stages that many couples go through to get into SM - Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns has a somewhat more elaborate introduction into the SM mindset. However, if you have decided that you are going to play and want to know how, there isn't any better book out there to get started with.
122 of 124 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
"SM101, A Realistic Introduction, Second Edition" by Jay Wiseman is what I consider to be the best book for newcomers to BDSM and those who want additional information about things they haven't yet tried or understanding terms and techniques that they may not be familiar with.
Jay writes in an easy style; the book is written in plain language and is completely understandable... infinitely "readable". He defines most all the current usage terminology, discusses the basics of SM play and Dominance and Submission better than anyone else in my opinion. It is a "How To" and a "How Not to Do" with explanations about every phase of BDSM play.
The best reason to buy this book, however, is to really understand what safety is all about. Also the book contains lots of resources for further information about the lifestyle as well as a wonderful "negotiation" form for new and experienced partners so that their sessions will be mutually safe and pleasurable. He stresses something that I know is true from my many years in the lifestyle and that is that open communication between consensual partners is of the utmost importance.
99 of 101 people found the following review helpful
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
SM 101 contains all the essential information that BDSM beginners desperately need, written in a way that newcomers can understand. Though the introductory chapter says it isn't intended for people who are already members of SM community, I would argue that this is an excellent guide even for people with years of experience. I have been a member of several BDSM organizations over seven years, and I found this book to be thought-provoking and helpful. This book has provided me with information and advice that is more honest (and more accurate, I think) than much of what I have gotten from years of workshops, lectures, and demonstrations.
I think the primary advantage of this book over others on the subject is its depth. Its introduction to the basics of BDSM is particularly thorough. Personal anecdotes, both amusing and poignant, give real-life insight into what it's like to play with BDSM. It has a strong emphasis on safety without being pushy or patronizing. Most books just recite arbitrary rules. SM 101 gives information, suggestions, and advice designed to help readers make their own decisions about the risks they want to take.
One of my favorite parts of this book is a collection of off-handed remarks overheard at BDSM events. These quotes, scattered in margins of the pages, range from clever to hilarious to profound. Another nice touch is advice on finding partners, and a step-by-step guide to negotiating SM play. There are even negotiation forms that can be copied and used to make sure that all the points are covered. I strongly recommend the safety precautions this book suggests for playing with someone new.
All in all, SM 101 is a book I would highly recommend to anyone who is seriously considering exploring safe, sane and consensual BDSM.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars
If you are looking into BDSM this book is a must!
Jay Wiseman is a good author here with his insightful tips in how to survive and enjoy the "scenes" played out. BDSM has rules and this book nails them.
Published 5 days ago by Chrissy M. Strawn
5.0 out of 5 stars
101
Just as the title says, this book was written for beginners, easy to follow and tastefully written. I would recommend this book to a friend.
Published 29 days ago by mmorris
5.0 out of 5 stars
Possibly the Very Best
Few have written with more knowledge and experience from living it than Mr. Wiseman on the subject of BDSM. Read more
Published 2 months ago by ChuckO
4.0 out of 5 stars
SM101
Jay Wiseman does a great job of defining and creating a clear picture of BDSM and power exchange between Tops and bottoms. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Kimmi
5.0 out of 5 stars
A wonderful choice for first timers
As the title states, a wonderful resource for people either just getting into SM or who are just curious about what it all entails. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Delilah Howard
5.0 out of 5 stars
Excellent beginner intro to BDSM
I bought SM101 after a suggestion from an experienced member of the local scene. Wiseman gives newbies an excellent intro to the social rules, ideas and conventions of BDSM. Read more
Published 4 months ago by M. B. Barrett
5.0 out of 5 stars
informative
Jay Weisman gets called to be an expert witness in trials that involve bdsm. I really enjoyed learning from his expertise. I have met him in person and hold him in high regard. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Michelle Jacobsen
5.0 out of 5 stars
good reference book
Isn't really a sit down and read kinda book. Its a better reference guide because there are multiple chapters of just information, definition and instruction.
Published 4 months ago by Alexandra Powers
5.0 out of 5 stars
novice
thanks, I bought the book for my husband, and ended up reading it, after reading 50 shades, wanted to get into the lifestyle, it gave us the knowledge thanks
Published 4 months ago by Christine A Wagner
1.0 out of 5 stars
It is what it says SM 101
If you have had sex twice while tied up or having tied up someone else......you have already passed this class.
Published 5 months ago by Gus Tav
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