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Smart Discipline: Fast, Lasting Solutions for Your Peace of Mind and Your Child's Self-Esteem

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I was skeptical at first. The day before I bought this book, I cried for 2 hours after my daughter left the house to go with her father. My boyfriend asked me for about the 5th time, have you looked to see if there are any books written that would help you with this discipline problem you are having with your daughter? So, I went to the bookstore and bought Larry's book on Smart Discipline. The Smart Discipline process worked for me because it helped me to know what the rules are in my home. Sound too simple? I am a single mother, whose 10 year old daughter spends 1/2 time with her father each week. He is the disciplinarian, I was not. I was so glad to see my daughter when she would arrive back with me, that I had no control over her behavior. She is not one of those easy children to raise. She has a definite mind of her own and seems to thrive on stepping over the line and then watching the fireworks. There were countless mornings where I would go to work feeling guilty for how the early morning had gone trying to get her ready for school. Then there were the evenings with homework! I started Smart Discipline with my daughter about four weeks ago. She didn't like it at first and tried all of the behaviors Larry said she would, to try to get me to stop. It is not easy to hold fast when you are used to giving in all of the time, but it pays off. Last week she had no X's! And, she was proud of it. She suggested that maybe we didn't need to do the chart anymore. Ha! I told her I thought we did. She seems more at ease, knowing where the line is consistently. And, I know I am more relaxed. Now I won't tell you it will be a piece of cake. It is not. But, I will tell you that reading Larry's book, saved me and my daughter from endless days of fighting over silly stuff like whether or not she was going to take a shower or brush her teeth. With the problems I was having now, my thoughts about what she was going to be like at 15 were not good. Now I see a better future for us. If you feel like your child is out of control, and want to do something about it, read this book.

Not that I disagree with the author. As far as discipline concerned, this book offered wonderful method for behavior modification that I would gladly apply.

However, this book doesn't cover psychology of children (which is exactly my intention of buying the title) nor give you understanding of their behavior.

If you are looking for simple and ready-to-use method of disciplining your children, this book is for you. But if you are looking for deeper parents-children relationship, you need to find elsewhere.

What else can I say, for the first time in over 4 months I can finally breath and smile in the mornings. I thought our case was to tough for this technique, so far we had been implementing something very similar and we had seen some minor changes of attitude, so we made the some adjustments to adopt this plan and WOW wat a change, our Foster child, soon to be adopted changed from one day to another, it is liek something clicked on him. He woke up in the morning without complaining and got ready for school. WE DID NOT HAVE TO REPEAT OURSELVES, not once. Every parent, foster parent, adult should read this book.

Every parent needs this book. Not only will it assist you in creating the family atmosphere you want and need, but it will make your relationship with your child better. My daughter is 8 and we've seen obvious improvement in only two weeks. Thanks Dr. Koenig!

My child attends a school where smart discipline is used. I have a child that never had a discipline problem and loved school. Now, he feels that he can't do anything right in school because they send home this "smart discipline" (behaivor sheet)home everyday pointing out everything he did wrong. It even gave us the impression that our child was having a problem. I don't like it and think it's just focuses on the negatives (most things that are not even really behaivor issues), without any positive reinforcement. Children are constantly looking for approval and praise from those they love, not constantly be reminded when they aren't perfect. Maybe this is good for those kids with discipline problems, but I don't think it's worth sacrificing the other kids, to get a couple of others to act right.

I recieved the book in a timely manner.The book itself was in pretty good shape. Very satisfied with the book to say the least.

this is a copy of the email that i sent to "peonygirlz":
Peonygirlz,
Thank you for your prompt delivery of the book I ordered. The book was package well and in excellent condition. I would not hesitate to order again from peonygirlz.