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Smart Sex: Finding Life-Long Love in a Hook-Up World Hardcover – July 1, 2005

ISBN-13: 978-1890626587 ISBN-10: 1890626589 Edition: 1st

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 262 pages
  • Publisher: Ruth Institute Books; 1 edition (July 1, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1890626589
  • ISBN-13: 978-1890626587
  • Product Dimensions: 9.6 x 6.3 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (17 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,118,908 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"SMART SEX is more than timely; it is vital." -- Chuck Colson

About the Author

Jennifer Roback Morse is a renowned marriage and family scholar. She is the author of Love and Economics: It Takes a Family to Raise a Village and of numerous major academic and public-policy articles for journals ranging from the Journal of Economic History to Forbes, Fortune, and the Wall Street Journal.


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The truth is that every human being is created for relationships because every human being is created for love.
Angela R. Vogt
This book is clearly the outcome of a lot of personal anguish that forced the author to rethink her own life and to change her ways and her views.
Veronica Singh
A must read for Teens to avoid our destructive culture and older men and women wondering why they are so unhappy.
Mike Hamilton

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83 of 90 people found the following review helpful By Angela R. Vogt on August 7, 2005
Format: Hardcover
Dr. Morse speaks for a growing chorus of women my age who were duped by the false promises of feminism. We were sold the completely unsustainable notion that contraceptive sex....that is, recreational sex, is the ultimate sign of power and control over our lives. In fact, the opposite is true. Recreational sex has left a trail of tears, abortions, STDs, broken homes and children without in tact families. Perhaps, worst of all, recreational sex has left us with hardened hearts, incapable of hearing the good news about a truly humane version of sexuality......a quite revolutionary and seldom seen phenomenon today......monogamous, married sex!

Dr. Morse has sharpened our cultural lens by revealing the truth about recreational sex. First, she explains that today's notion of sexual freedom has required an inhumane definition of freedom. Today's false notion of freedom, according to Morse, is being COMPLETELY unencumbered by relationships. To sustain such a tortured understanding of freedom, women have bought into the "Sex in the City" version of freedom, or as Dr. Morse coins it, "consumer sex." Trading boyfriends, girlfriends, marriages, children from multiple fathers, fathers acting as merely "sperm donors," all the while pretending that this is normal, healthy behavior, has left us in a permanent state of adolescence and chaos.

The truth is that every human being is created for relationships because every human being is created for love. But love is not a sentimental momentary feeling of gratification, nor is it a domestic arrangement agreed to by consenting adults and it is most certainly not found in the promises of career success, financial security and autonomy.
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55 of 61 people found the following review helpful By Anne Hendershott on September 1, 2005
Format: Hardcover
As with all self-help books, Dr. Morse offers a promise to help us "Find Life-Long Love in a Hook-up World." But, unlike most self-help books with "sex" in the title, Dr.Morse offers no suggestions on how to choose the perfect lover, or how to improve our lovemaking techniques. Instead of reassuring us that we too can find the perfect mate, or have the perfect marriage, she reminds us that none of us are perfect in an imperfect world. And, those who seek such perfection in a mate are doomed. While she offers some practical suggestions on how to deal with feelings and communication, and she begins the book with the promise that Smart Sex "is about how and why to stay married," the real focus of Smart Sex is much deeper. Early in her book, Dr. Morse advises us that "the self help books aren't going to be enough because they deal with the superficial symptoms of much deeper problems." Instead of techniques, Morse focuses on the nature and meaning of sex and marriage. Instead of easy answers, Morse explodes some of modern society's most cherished and destructive myths about the "joys of recreational sex."Of course, this has not stopped amazon.com from suggesting on these very pages that customers interested in this title would be interested in a link that promises to help readers "Hook up with more women through doubleyourdating.com." Dr. Morse would probably be amused by this because it really proves the point she has made throughout her wonderful book--that the idea of sexual freedom has reduced sex to a commodity-and has left people more empty than before.
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31 of 35 people found the following review helpful By Deborah Strubel on January 29, 2006
Format: Hardcover
Don't worry that this book about sex by an economist will be boring. Quite the opposite! This easy-to-understand treatise by Dr. Morse, a free-market economist and former professor at Yale and George Mason universities, is both rational and passionate. She uses enough good logic and hard data to be convincing without overwhelming and enough personal experience to be disarming. "Smart Sex" examines the idea that sex is nothing more than a private act between consenting adults with no moral or social significance. It explains how ideas about sex have consequences for individuals and society, in particular our society's erroneous idea that freedom means being unencumbered by relationships.

The sections about how male and female hormones knit couples together are most interesting. Dr. Morse shows how these hormones can blind a cohabiting couple's judgment about their compatibility, just as these same hormones may make it difficult for a battered woman to leave her abuser and enable those in arranged marriages to fall in love.
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27 of 30 people found the following review helpful By Jeff Crouere on July 24, 2005
Format: Hardcover
Jennifer does an excellent job of highlighting a topic that needs to be discussed. With our media portraying casual sex as the norm and the nuclear family as being a relic of the past, it should not be surprising that our divorce rate is very high and too few children are being raised by both parents. Her message needs to be heard by this generation of young people. In this country, we desperately need to change the way we view relationships, families and raising children. Jennifer has provided a vaulable service that will hopefully lead to positive change in this critical area.

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27 of 30 people found the following review helpful By Evelyn L. Zuercher on September 29, 2005
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I purchased this book for my grandaughter who is a graduate student with a major in psychology. I consider it one of the most valuable tools for her future career in clinical psychology. It is an accurate presentation of life as it is for women today. I have been in the work place most of my life; while retired now, I have seen the changes in the sex patterns of both women and men over the years. I don't like what I see. Jennifer Roback Morse, a bright and gifted professional woman has lived it and has written about it. Great job!
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