Sober But Stuck: Obstacles Most Often Encountered That Keep Us From Growing In Recovery [Paperback]

Dan F. (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: April 19, 1994

People in recovery soon find out that maintaining abstinence from alcohol and other drugs is only half the battle. Sober But Stuck addresses the issues that can act as barriers to serenity and ultimately threaten sobriety. Topics include fear of failure, unhealthy or dependent relationships, resentments, and more. Provides needed encouragement for maintaining recovery from alcohol and other drugs.

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About the Author

Dan F. is a contributor for the following Hazelden Title: Sober but Stuck.

Product Details

• Paperback: 228 pages
• Publisher: Hazelden (April 19, 1994)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 156838078X
• ISBN-13: 978-1568380780
• Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.1 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 10.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #212,862 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Like "Big Book II" for people with several years' sobriety, July 25, 2002

By A Customer

This review is from: Sober But Stuck: Obstacles Most Often Encountered That Keep Us From Growing In Recovery (Paperback)

If you are "sober but stuck," then this book really may be for you. I know when I was sober nine years, I felt like I was slogging through mud; I wasn't happy and I felt somewhat hopeless to expect things to improve. I mentioned this feeling and somebody recommended that I read this book. I took their advice (uncharacteristically for me at the time) and got it, and I am very glad I did. Reading it and taking some of the suggestions found within really gave me a needed boost in my sobriety. The book is organized like the book "Alcoholics Anonymous," story by story, and features personal contributions from men and women on each of many tough topics that alcoholics face in recovery after they have gotten to a place of steady sobriety. Many alcoholics survive active addiction only to find they have channeled their disease into other destructive outlets like gambling, sex addiction, codependency, etc. Even if you haven't had to deal with secondary addictions, it is a highly worthy title on the recovery bookshelf, and I recommend it for any struggling alcoholic in recovery.

6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars "Alcohol is but a Symptom....", December 17, 2008

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ammospiza (Cape Cod) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Sober But Stuck: Obstacles Most Often Encountered That Keep Us From Growing In Recovery (Paperback)

When I came into AA a year ago, I heard from others with good, solid sobriety that even though the alcohol is gone, the "ism" keeps popping up in other places.... man oh man, is that true for me! The minute I opened this book and saw chapters with titles like "Fear of Intimacy", Feelings of Inadequacy", "Fear of Rejection and Abandonment" and "The Need to Control Others" I just knew I had to have this book.

Within each topic are personal narratives, like the stories in "The Big Book", in which men and women in recovery share their lives before and after coming into AA, and how they discovered and solved the problems that came up, even after years of sobriety and working the program. They have very specific ways that they worked them through, which are generously shared, and easy to identify with.

I'd recommend this book to anyone in any stage of recovery, though it seems to be aimed at helping those that are "stuck" after some years of sobriety. In my case, as a newcomer, it's helped me tremendously to deal with all the secondary addictive behaviors and issues (and Feelings) that have inevitably surfaced without the numbing affect of alcohol to keep them at bay. Can't recommend it enough.

5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Trudging the Road, July 11, 2008

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M. Daly "DBA" (Thousand Oaks, CA USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Sober But Stuck: Obstacles Most Often Encountered That Keep Us From Growing In Recovery (Paperback)

The stories in this book got me from year 5 to year 11 in my sobriety. Everyone faces struggles in life, including the path of sobriety. What matters is what one does during the difficult times, and the wisdom reaped from going through them successfully.
This is a great book of stories from people gaining wisdom from growing through challenges that they could not have even uncovered in their original fourth steps.