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Speaking of Sex: The Denial of Gender Inequality [Hardcover]

Deborah L. Rhode (Author)
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0674831772 978-0674831773 May 20, 1997 1St Edition

Speaking of Sex explores a topic that too often drops out of our discussions when we speak about sex: the persistent problem of sex-based inequality and the cultural forces that sustain it. On critical issues affecting women, most Americans deny either that gender inequality is a serious problem or that it is one that they have a personal or political responsibility to address. In tracing this "no problem" problem, Speaking of Sex examines the most fundamental causes of women's disadvantages and the inadequacy of current public policy to combat them.

Although in the past quarter-century the United States has made major progress in addressing gender discrimination, women still face substantial obstacles in their private, public, and professional lives. On every significant measure of wealth, power, status, and security, women remain less advantaged than men. Deborah Rhode reveals the ways that the culture denies, discounts, or attempts to justify those inequalities. She shows that only by making inequality more visible can we devise an adequate strategy to confront it.

Speaking of Sex examines patterns of gender inequality across a wide array of social, legal, and public policy settings. Challenging conventional biological explanations for gender differences, Rhode explores the media images and childrearing practices that reinforce traditional gender stereotypes. On policies involving employment, divorce, custody, rape, pornography, domestic violence, sexual harassment, and reproductive choice, Speaking of Sex reveals how we continually overlook the gap between legal rights and daily experience. All too often, even Americans who condemn gender inequality in principle cannot see it in practice--in their own lives, homes, and work environments. In tracing these patterns, Rhode uncovers the deeply ingrained assumptions that obscure and perpetuate women's disadvantages.


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In spite of progress that has been made over the last few decades regarding gender discrimination, Rhode (law, Stanford) makes a strong case that it is not nearly enough. Through lively writing and myriad well-documented examples, the author shows how, for the most part, gender inequality is either ignored or denied. This is true for women in virtually all stages of life and in all areas of endeavor, whether in their personal or public lives or at the workplace. Gender bias is further perpetuated through the institutionalization of attitudes about such issues as education, athletics, the media, sexual harassment, domestic violence, pornography, work opportunities, and family values. This readable yet scholarly treatment is essential for all women's studies collections.?Kathleen L. Atwood, Pomfret Sch. Lib., Ct.
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Deborah L. Rhode...gamely tackles a knotty issue in feminism: for many Americans, extant victories for women's rights render any discussion of remaining inequities tiresome. She has written a scrupulously researched, balanced, sobering, and sober book... Rhode makes the persuasive argument that the achievement of true equality requires that we first 'recognize the distance we have yet to travel'...[She] focus[es] on hard research rather than easy sensationalism.
--Jacqueline Boone (New York Times Book Review )

In Speaking of Sex,Rhode sets herself two tasks: to document gender inequality--separate chapters cover child-rearing, the media, sexual violence, work, and marriage and divorce--and to understand why so many of us are 'in denial' about it. Although Rhode breaks little new ground, the sheer accumulation of data and her cogent analyses make this an excellent guide to sexism in our time. Exhaustively footnoted and sourced, it is unlike most general-interest books on any side of this debate in that it draws on a vast amount of real scholarship and ranges widely over the available literature in and out of academia...Her calm, lawyerly, methodical approach lets the material speak for itself. And it does.
--Katha Pollit (The Atlantic Monthly )

Rhode convincingly demonstrates patterns of denial about rape, sexual harassment, domestic violence, workplace inequality, and women's poverty. She also discusses some of the tools of denial--appeals to biological determinism and `family values,' the men's movement, and media trivialization of women's issues...The book is a kind of Backlash for the mid-1990s: a wake-up call to feminists, bolstered by a copious documentation of facts. What Susan Faludi did to counter the rise of antifeminism in the 1980s, Rhode...has done for the less sensational--but equally formidable--problem of denial.
--Liza Featherstone (Ms. Magazine )

Amid the rising tide of neofeminists bashing the women's movement, Speaking of Sex returns the focus of the debate to the question of gender inequality...With careful research and...insightful analysis, [Rhode] says the advances won by the women's movement in the past three decades have resulted in widespread and deeply engrained denial that gender inequality still exists.
--K Kaufmann (San Francisco Chronicle )

In spite of progress that has been made over the last few decades regarding gender discrimination, Rhode (law, Stanford) makes a strong case that it is not nearly enough. Through lively writing and myriad well-documented examples, the author shows how, for the most part, gender inequality is either ignored or denied. This is true for women in virtually all states of life and in all areas of endeavor, whether in their personal or public lives or at the workplace...This readable yet scholarly treatment is essential for all women's studies collections. (Library Journal )

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Harvard University Press; 1St Edition edition (May 20, 1997)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0674831772
  • ISBN-13: 978-0674831773
  • Product Dimensions: 9.7 x 6.4 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,631,772 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Deborah L. Rhode is the Ernest W. McFarland Professor of Law and the Director of the Center on the Legal Profession at Stanford University. She has a Yale BA and JD, and is a former law clerk of Justice Thurgood Marshall, a former president of the Association of American Law Schools, a former chair of the American Bar Association's Commission on Women in the Profession, and a former director of both Stanford's Center on Ethics and its Institute for Research on Women and Gender. She is the author or coauthor of twenty books and over 200 articles, and is the nation's most cited scholar on professional responsibility.

Author Photo by David Weintraub, photographer.


 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Eminently sensible, worth four and a half stars, April 28, 2002
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Reading this sensible and intelligent book, and remembering how much I enjoyed Rhode's later book on the reform of the legal profession, I wondered why it is that such an eminently reasonable and articulate woman, who has provided such a thorough and well documented defense of feminism, should be so obscure in the world of public intellectuals. Rhode teaches at Stanford Law School, this book is published by Harvard University Press, and she does not write in a the complex academic jargon that all good journalists are trained to hate. Yet she is never called upon when journals like The New Republic or the New York Review of Books thinks it should have a female contributor.

Pity, because this is a good book. Let's start off with "Ideology and Biology." Rhode points out the flaws in biological explanations in sex differences. There are species of primates where the men tend the infants and the women forage for food. Media trumpet studies that point out gender differences, and ignore the many studies that find no difference or are ambiguous (especially on PMS). Over the last thirty years the differences in math scores between boys and girls has dropped dramatically. Those differences that do remain "have not taken account of even obvious influences such as the number of courses taken." "Many studies find no correlation between levels of testosterone and violence, hostility, or aggression." Much of the gender gap on physical strength is clearly related to our aesthetic desire for unhealthily thin women and our desire to encourage boys sports. "Men may be more likely to use speech patterns to establish control because they are more likely to occupy positions where they are IN control." "Beginning at Birth" starts off with how in 1918 one journal stated that boys should be clothed in pink and girls in blue, since it was obvious that pink was the more masculine colour. And we're off to how toys rigidly reinforce gender rules and unreasonable body ideals. If you think that it may simply be PC to worry that Barbie Dolls are unrealistic, consider the survey of 33,000 females. Three-quarters considered themselves too fat, though only a quarter were overweight and a third were underweight. "In recent surveys [of children's books], male characters come up with solutions five to eight times as often as females, and females care for children eight times as often as males." Then it's on to Media Images, about how the media euphemize rape and how incredibly snotty TIME magazine was towards feminism during the 1970s.

One cannot go into full detail about the next chapters, which look at sex and violence, about the problems of women's work, about family values (and in particular, welfare, child custody and teenage pregnancy). What one should point out is how well documented this book is, with 79 pages of notes to 250 pages of text. Moreover consider the depth of the sources. Rhode quotes anti-feminists in considerable detail. She has read very widely not only in her own chosen field of law, but also in science, education, media criticism, sociology and economics. The scholarship quoted in widespread and representative. She demonstrates in considerable detail that in rape, domestic violence, employment discrimination and sexual harrassment cases the presumption of innocence is definetely alive and well. One is struck at how difficult it is to prove these cases. Rhode quotes cases about how a woman who was maced, taunted and handcuffed to a toilet did not prove sexual harrassment. There is the (admittedly exceptional case) about the convicted murderer who got custody of his child over the lesbian mother. Or consider the open and shut case of discrimination at Price Waterhouse. Though ultimately successful it took seven years for Ann Hopkins to claim partnership at a firm where 98.9% of the partners were men, where she had billed more hours and brought more business than any other nominee that year, had gotten high ratings from her clients, and who was unfairly criticized as lacking in "charm," while similarly "abrasive" men had no problems getting promotions. We get a useful introduction to pay equity, where otherwise nurses would earn less than tree trimmers, schoolteachers earn less than state liquor store clerks and librarians earn less than street crossing guards. The book is not perfect. Katha Pollitt pointed out that the book is rather weak in providing political strategies, though if it were easy to think up it would already have happened. And comic books have provided more female heroes in recent years. But it is a book that everyone should read, and by a woman who should be a leading public intellectual if male centrists had the courage to listen to what she had to say.

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4 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Informative, yet still lacking., March 6, 2004
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"Rhode breaks little new ground," wrote one critic (Katha Pollitt, for the Atlantic Monthly) about Deborah L. Rhode's 1997 book Speaking of Sex: The Denial of Gender Inequality. While she has admirable intentions, her writing has several shortcomings which destroy the effectiveness of her book, even for some of those who may agree with her. Rhode received her B.A. in 1974 and her J.D. in 1977, both from Yale. She has an extensive list of legal and political honors and positions. Currently, Rhode is on the faculty at Stanford University. Several of her books have met with moderate success. Given Rhode's qualifications, it is disappointing that the thesis of Speaking of Sex is weak, making for a poor read. Throughout the book, Rhode's arguments are riddled with contradiction. Possibly the most prominent weakness of this book is that it fails to call the reader to action. While the book has some merits, such as its basic intents and its informative value, it falls short of making the world a better place for women.

One of the most obvious downfalls of Speaking of Sex is its frequent self-contradiction. At times, Rhode seems to call for complete equality between the sexes, essentially producing a unisex society. At other times, she argues that female qualities should be celebrated in an effort to raise the status of her sex. In other examples, Rhode contradicts herself about the political aims of current feminism. "A way we avoid confronting gender inequality . . . is to individualize the issues," she explains. Only a few pages later, she complains, "We settle for equality in form rather than equality in fact." These clashing aims illustrate the contradictions, or perhaps conflicts, within the feminist movements of the past couple decades. Laws and some policies are changing and have been changed in favor of gender equality. Feminists haven't reached their ideal level of equality, but the social momentum is certainly moving in their favor.

Rhode's thesis in Speaking of Sex seems only to be "Gender-based discrimination exists." While knowledge of this fact may be important, it alone will not provide any solution. Awareness of gender inequality may not be widespread among the general population. However, the audience of this book will likely be predominantly feminist and progressive, leaving only the result of "preaching to the choir." This could very well result in a more passionate feminist movement, but with little action. If Rhodes would add direction to her discourse, it would carry much more potency, resulting in real improvement in gender equality. However, she rarely proposes solutions, leaving the reader unsure of how to handle the problem at hand.

In all fairness, Speaking of Sex has the potential to be valuable to certain audiences. Rhode covers a variety of women's issues ranging from domestic abuse to fairness in the workplace to abortion. Where she lacks in suggesting a course of action, she succeeds in providing an informative, comprehensive book on gender issues. To an uninformed reader, Speaking of Sex gives plenty of evidence that women do not have the same opportunities and status that men may enjoy. Even an informed audience may glean fodder for debate from the book.

Though Deborah L. Rhode's Speaking of Sex may inform some readers about the problems facing women in society today, it fails to provide a solid foundation for solving these problems. There may exist other books which are equally as informative that also propose solutions and lack contradictions. Such books would be an improvement upon Speaking of Sex for educated readers.

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