Product Details

• Actors: Jay Mohr, Bill Murray, James Spader, Lara Flynn Boyle
• Directors: John McNaughton
• Format: Color, Widescreen
• Number of discs: 1
• Rated: Unrated
• Run Time: 96 minutes
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
• ASIN: B0002972EQ
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #185,129 in Movies & TV (See Top 100 in Movies & TV)

Editorial Reviews

A female marriage counselor and a male depression expert try to solve the marital problems of a troubled couple.

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36 of 37 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A hilarious sex comedy that will keep you laughing!!!, August 18, 2004

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LaDeBoBo (Aurora, Illinois United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Speaking of Sex (DVD)

SPEAKING OF SEX is a highly entertaining film that will keep you laughing the entire time you're watching it! Melinda and Dan are a married couple who are struggling to solve their emotional and sexual issues. They end up seeking help from Dr. Emily Paige, a marriage counselor who happens to be thrice divorced. She decides that Melinda should see her colleague, depression expert Dr. Roger Klink (James Spader). When Melinda and Klink have a carnal encounter in an elevator, the stage is set for malpractice lawsuits and personal vendettas!

This film is wacky in every sense of the word...and the main theme (as you can probably guess) is sex. Despite its absurdness, however, it is a cute story about several messed up people who manage to find what they need and want in a relationship.

James Spader gives a brilliant performance as Dr. Klink (who is not TECHNICALLY Melinda's therapist, mind you)! His comedic gestures and awkwardness are really entertaining to watch and this film is a must for Spader fans! It isn't his best or most intriguing performance, but it is enjoyable nonetheless!

The remainder of the cast is also good, even though some of the scenes seem more like Saturday Night Live skits than actual film acting. Bill Murray delivers a solid performance as Klink's attorney and Laura Flynn-Boyle is amusing as Dr. Paige.

I would highly recommend this wacky comedy to anyone who can appreciate a low-budget story about sex, repressed desires and the need to find the right partner. It isn't Academy Award material, but I love it just the same!

6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Unexpectedly Entertaining, December 8, 2010

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Eric Hutchins (Bakersfield, CA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Speaking of Sex (DVD)

In wine, I'm always on the look-out for the $10 bottle of $20 wine. In movies, I'm always on the look-out for good acting and good writing... in short, an entertaining movie that exceeds expectations, and... the wider the margin, the better.

I ordered this little gem after watching "Secretary" and going on the prowl for something else entertaining with James Spader. This got the best reviews and the price was much better than "Storyville," so I bought it.

Having been married too many times and been in the presence of too many marriage counselors and attorneys, I was delighted with the writing and the modest sex scenes (there to serve the plot rather than to tintillate). All the characters where caricatures to make the point that, during "mating season" (roughly 14 to 55), we are all more or less at the mercy of the gods, and no amount of education can suppress the ensuing chaos.

The "attorney caricatures" were the perfect embodiment of professional vultures only too happy to amplify and exploit something that would have otherwise worked itself out. So... being unable to surpress the chaos, we have found ways to make six-figure incomes off of the sexual chaos in the lives of others.

As the Pagans recognized (along with the book of Genesis, the Laws of Manu, etc.), women are the portal of sexual chaos into the affairs of men. (No need to get huffy and shoot the messanger over this... it's just the way it is.) Men are the hapless "George Burns" of the world to the "Gracy Allens" and "Lucille Balls" everywhere among us. At the end of the day, Mother Nature will do "whatever it takes" to get the next generation, and there is little that we can do to alter that fact.

This movie makes an excellent opener for a double feature that includes "Intolerable Cruelty." Both are farces of the sexual manners in a society that takes sex, greed, and litigation way too seriously. "Cruelty" has better production values and more of a marquise (sp?) cast. However, for my money, the writing and acting in "Speaking of Sex" is every bit as good. This movie might also pair well with "Men vs. Women" (another guilty pleasure for grown-ups).

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars funny and entertaining not goofy or erotic, but watch it with your spouse, January 23, 2010

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Kenneth P. Behm "tellesonic" (Cleveland, OH, USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Speaking of Sex (DVD)

very funny and entertaining. not silly goofball, has a "connectiveness" about it, you'll like it. watch it with your spouse even has a positive theme and a funny amicable ending.