The Spiritual Rules of Engagement: How Kabbalah Can Help Your Soul Mate Find You [Hardcover]

Yehuda Berg (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: April 28, 2008

More than a decade after the runaway bestseller The Rules advised women on how to land "Mr. Right," it’s time for a new set of rules that takes a more spiritual approach. These rules are based on the timeless wisdom of Kabbalah and the very nature of the Universe itself. The Spiritual Rules of Engagement describes how Kabbalah views relationships and what makes them work (or not work); and reveals that it is the woman who holds the power to determine the outcome. The book explains the spiritual reasons behind the way in which men and women think and act differently. Although not a book of dating tips, its rules do work. They have to work: They are the Laws of the Universe. You’ll learn the true meaning of the term "soul mate;" and why it is that your soul mate has to find you, not the other way around. Written by a kabbalistic teacher who regularly provides counsel to hundreds of individuals and couples, and who is happily married himself, the book will resonate with people of all backgrounds. These are more than just rules of engagement; they’re rules for creating a happier, more fulfilling life.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 192 pages
• Publisher: Kabbalah Publishing; 1St Edition edition (April 28, 2008)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1571895922
• ISBN-13: 978-1571895929
• Product Dimensions: 7.5 x 6.5 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #145,931 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  • #42 in Books > Religion & Spirituality > Bible & Other Sacred Texts > Jewish Texts > Kabbalah
  • #86 in Books > Health, Fitness & Dieting > Relationships > Dating

More About the Author

A bestselling author and luminary authority on Kabbalah, Yehuda Berg is part of a long line of kabbalistic masters, and the son of Rav and Karen Berg. In 2007, recognized by Newsweek as "the world's leading authority on the Kabbalah movement," the magazine named him as one of the top five rabbis in the United States.

In 2009, GQ magazine's The Gentlemen's Fund honored him for being an Agent of Change in the field of Education. A progressive voice on spirituality, Yehuda is a prolific author of more than 30 books on topics ranging from self-empowerment, depression, sex, and the Bible.

His bestsellers are The Power or Kabbalah and The 72 Names of God, which have been translated into 20 and 14 languages respectively. His daily and weekly Tune-Ups are sent to more than 200,000 fans, and he contributes regularly to Huffington Post.

Yehuda speaks internationally visiting small cites like Indianapolis as well as European, Asian, and Latin American metropolis such as Barcelona, Manila, and Sau Paulo. He teaches thousands of people including dignitaries, celebrities, and prisoners, and believes strongly in the power of human consciousness as a means to create personal and global change. Utilizing Kabbalah as a wisdom of transformation, he simply delivers deep and complex concepts in a way that is applicable to daily life.

Yehuda is co-director of Kabbalah Centre International, Inc. Founded in 1922, KCI is a non-for-profit organization leading the way to bringing Kabbalah to everyone who wants to learn. As co-director, Yehuda develops programs for more than 20 Centres and 50 study groups, oversees teacher training, and directs Kabbalah Publishing. Yehuda lives in Los Angeles with his wife and five children.

For more on Yehuda:

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TWITTER: @YehudaBerg

WEBSITE: www.yehudaberg.com

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34 of 38 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Wow, Wow, Wow!, May 18, 2008

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This review is from: The Spiritual Rules of Engagement: How Kabbalah Can Help Your Soul Mate Find You (Hardcover)

Simply AWESOME! --- Such a VALUABLE Book!
I didnt even know much about Kabbalah, wasnt really interested neither, although I've heard of it, I thought that it was just another religion. When I first bought this book on Amazon there were only 2 reviews (one with 5 stars and one with 1 star) I usually buy a book based on the number of good reviews however, I need to thank the negative review entitiled "Rubbish" because after reading it I knew that the person writting that review was a christain "fundie" -- you know how that goes...we are all born sinners so you NEED to be born again (because you NEED to be forgiven first) to reach heaven with a God who is separated from you and resides in the sky, and if you dont do this through Jesus,(because this is THE ONLY WAY to get to heaven) you go straight to hell when you die...for ETERNITY!...Oh, yeah, and God loves you unconditionally even though he allows you to go to that flaming Hell for chosing to not be saved and somehow his hands are tied now, he cant help you at this point..even though he's God with all the power that created everything from the very beginning!..and this is Christianities version of UNCONDITIONAL LOVE??!..I laughed when that review said: "This book is dangerous because it will draw you away from the truth to set you truly free." hee hee hee..Yep, I guess according to the "fundie's" we all better live in fear,huh? I often hear Christians ask: are you a GOD FEARING person?! funny! I usually reply--NO, I dont fear god at all I'd rather LOVE God.--Fear only creates more fear and more chaos in this world..havent we learned yet? I just need to say THANK YOU to that christian "fear based" negative review. After reading it I knew this book would be a good read but I was wrong; This book IS BETTER THAN GOOD it's LIFE CHANGING and gives you great powerful insight into Spiritual (not dogmatic) relationships between men and women implementing both the physical and non-physical. (Women will especially LOVE this book!)to make it even better Yehuda Berg is EXCELLENT in his practical, easy to understand, entertaining way of writting...I couldnt put the book down! If you are a person who likes reading books to give you more insight on improving your relationships and it doesnt matter if you are single or married because his book addresses both issues, infact it doesnt even matter if you are a Kabbahlist or not you are definitely in for an enlightening and eye opening treat! This book is a gold mine for those wanting to improve not only their relationships but their lives! Kabbalah even states..dont believe them, apply the universal principals and see for yourself! They encourage you to always question authority and dont just believe everything they tell you! This information is good for all religions, faiths & beliefs. If you like Quantum Physics you'll notice that the information in this book will blend right in. Kabbalah knew way back then what Quantum Physics are finding now. I've been ordering from Amazon for years and never wrote a review because I was never inspired to...this is my first, because I believe that this book deserves great reviews. I am now interested in purchasing Berg's other book: The Power of Kabbalah. I'm sharing this book with my friends and others too as I feel that it is highly needed in today's uncertain and confused society. I want to give my eternal gratitude to Yehuda for helping mankind by bringing this awareness to us in an entertaining,easy to understand book--Thank You my brother! I also want to thank that negative review by: "Rubbish" K.Zukowski "Whatever is Pure" -- not in a cocky or sarcastic way but in a deep appreciative way -- Thank You for motivating me to buy this book...we are all one -- may love shine on you!

24 of 27 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Yay, I've been waiting for this!, April 25, 2008

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Annie C. Hart - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Spiritual Rules of Engagement: How Kabbalah Can Help Your Soul Mate Find You (Hardcover)

Yay, Yehuda! Thank you for presenting me with the perfect guide to the Universe of relationships. I have been waiting for this book. It intuitively matches many of my personal beliefs and spiritual practices.

For anyone reading this. Yehuda Berg's writings and the work of the Kabbalah center are transformative and life changing. I have read just about every book he has written and they are all amazing, practical and transformative.....if you use their insights and put them into practice.

But this book is the best yet! I've been wondering to myself - how do I know if a relationship is right? How do I attract just the right person? And what exactly do I do to prepare myself inside?

This book answers it all. I'm sitting happily now waiting for the invevitable arrival of my soulmate. It's assured. Hope you find yours too. Read this book! (and I am not being paid for this raving review :>)

27 of 31 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Kudos, Yehuda Berg!, May 9, 2008

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C. Jager (Northern Pacific USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Spiritual Rules of Engagement: How Kabbalah Can Help Your Soul Mate Find You (Hardcover)

Apparently K. Zukowski didn't read this book; I did. It's a valuable, practical guide to understanding the energy of life and using it as we're supposed to. It provides the tools we all need to make the right choices in our lives. No cookie cutter answer that if you pray and wait, God will step in and fix it all for you. Instead, you take an active part in your life and your relationship with God, and you take responsibility for being the best person you can be, both for yourself and in any soulmate relationship.

There is nothing anti-religion or anti-God in this book--or Kabbalah itself. Everything Jesus stood for is what Kabbalah stands for. It isn't a cult. It DOES make you think and take personal responsibility for your life and how you live it. There is a plan for your life, and you can discover it through a variety of tools such as those Yehuda Berg shares so clearly in this book. Or, you can always hide behind fear and judgment and then wonder why your life isn't fulfilled.

Personally, I opt for lasting fulfillment and sharing the blessings that the Creator has given me.