Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex [Paperback]

Robert J Rubel (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: September 18, 2007

This book is both for married men and for single men. I wrote this book because I have never seen anything like it in print. It's taken me many years of reading and application to master this material, and if I'd had such a book decades ago, it would have changed my sex life forever.

Editorial Reviews

Review

I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Rubel at a Fetish Convention in Dallas, Tx recently. This man MUST be a woman trapped in a man's body! His book is easy to read without pages of boring medical jargon. It explains simply, but in exquistite detail, how to utilize a woman's natural anatomy.

My wife is usually completely averse to reading anything like this. She loves romance novels and reads them all the time. When I brought this book home, she just wrinkled her nose at it, and said "Oh no, not another one of those sex books."

A friend of mine knows the author and suggested that sight-unseen I'd probably be amused. I'm more than amused, I'm sort-of amazed. I have to admit, this book cuts new ground. I've never seen a sex techniques book that isn't about intercourse. This one is about everything except intercourse.

About the Author

Robert Rubel has been involved in the BDSM scene for a number of years, throwing himself into the literature of the field as though it were an academic study. He frequently attends BDSM weekend conferences. Within his local community,

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Product Details

• Paperback: 178 pages
• Publisher: Nazca Plains Corp; 1 edition (September 18, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1887895647
• ISBN-13: 978-1887895644
• Product Dimensions: 0.5 x 7.9 x 9.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (32 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #157,712 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Robert (Bob) Rubel is an educational sociologist by traininig (which is why you find some of his old books on here dealing with crime prevention in public schools). He has been heavily involved in the world of alternative sexuality since 2001, throwing himself into the literature of the field as though it were an academic study. He frequently attends weekend conferences in this field, where he is a presenter (generally on topics related to Master/slave relations, Leather protocols, fire play, and how to pleasure a woman).

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

115 of 130 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Wife Loved This Book--Coached Me With It August 31, 2007

By Greg Speed

Format:Paperback

My wife is usually completely averse to reading anything like this. She loves romance novels and reads them all the time. When I brought this book home, she just wrinkled her nose at it, and said "Oh no, not another one of those sex books." I just left it in the drawer of the reading area table, where I could slowly read it, a chapter at a time. After a few days while I was in the office working, she came in with the book in her hand and a look of discovery and pleasure on her face. She had given the book a chance after all, and had not only read it through, but had used a purple hiliter marker to identify all the parts that she felt really spoke to her and best expressed her desires for me to put into practice in our lives. She focused on the parts about setting the scene, or mood, and about intimate communication, and about "reading" your partner to achieve extraordinary enjoyment. We both now feel this book is one of the very best books ever written about a man truly relating to his partner and becoming adept at assisting her to truly reach her potential pleasure peaks. You will benefit greatly from this book, as we did. Even if you think you are an expert now, this book will give you a better instinct and a higher level of appreciation for your partner.

80 of 94 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars No big deal March 21, 2008

By Grumpy Middle aged Man

Format:Paperback

I have to admit I was somewhat disappointed in this and very pleased at the same time. When it arrived, with other books I should mention, my wife took the tried and true stance, similar to the past 20 years, of "not again". She did not want to even look at the books. However, this book is designed on how to please the woman only and directed entirely to her pleasure. Which I must say is 99% of the way it should be anyway. So, my wife thought I should read this book only and return the others. I read it and was disappointed a little. I got 75% of the way through before it began to teach me anything I did not already know and I realy don't know anything.

I did like the chapter on shaving very much. In fact for the last few years I have been shaving my own face with the old shaving cream and brush and can attest to the closeness of the shave and it is best for sensitive skin, but I digress. I think only 2 of the 12 or 13 chapters had any information that was useful, but Oh how useful they were. I was able to try something new one evening and she said "did you get that from the book?" With a grin on her face and a shortness of breath not noticed in a few years.

I of coarse gave all the credit to the book. She then thought we should read it together and look at the other books as well. So, even though I think only 2 chapters had anything new they have served both of us old married folk well and that would be why it gets 5 stars. Not because I learned stuff from start to end, but because the book in general did what I was hoping for, renewed some fire into a couple middle aged, slightly pudgy, people who needed a spark.

44 of 50 people found the following review helpful

4.0 out of 5 stars Good venture into a female focused sex book December 12, 2007

By TammyJo Eckhart VINE™ VOICE

Format:Paperback

While there are things I would like to see expanded in this book and a poor choice of Wikipedia for some of the information, it is a good book that looks at sex as something far more than penis-vagina intercourse. The focus of this book is on making sexual intimacy primarily about female pleasure with the idea that penetration then may follow and indeed sexual encounters increase when the woman is very well pleased with her partner (male or female). The language of the book is more appealing for men I strongly suspect but then men are the target audience. As long as the reader does not see the book as a step by step list of activities he must do and considers the questions and underlining goals, he'll get good use of the book. Sadly as a scholar the use of Wikipedia instead of peer reviewed studies of human sexuality or anatomy automatically knocks off a star for me in the review.