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Standing in the Fire: Leading High-Heat Meetings with Clarity, Calm, and Courage [Paperback]

Larry Dressler (Author), Roger Schwarz (Foreword)
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March 15, 2010

Many experienced facilitators, OD consultants, coaches, and organizational leaders increasingly find themselves “standing in the fire” -- working in situations where group and community members are polarized, angry, fearful, and confused.  Facilitator Larry Dressler has come to believe that simply picking up yet another method or technique won’t help in situations like these. What has a truly transformational impact is what he calls the facilitator’s presence. Cultivating an ability to access a compassionate presence that people experience as open, authentic, and clear in intention during the most difficult situations moves facilitators from being competent professionals to being on a path toward self-mastery.

Standing in the Fire offers a set of self-directed principles and practices that enable facilitators to work on themselves—to keep their emotional balance no matter how overheated things threaten to become.  It brings together profound teachings from diverse fields, including western psychology, eastern spiritual practices, the arts, social sciences and medical research.   Dressler’s grounded, empathetic approach helps readers reawaken and discover an untapped capacity that comes from within and is expressed as a powerful presence standing in service to a group.


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“In this wise and stimulating book, Dressler draws on his rich experience to show us how to bring our personal best to facilitating polarized group situations.”

—William Ury, coauthor of Getting to Yes and author of The Power of a Positive No



“An invaluable companion for all those who train, facilitate, run, or design high-stakes meeings…Dressler’s well of wisdom is awe-inspiring.”

—Susan Scott, author of Fierce Conversations and Fierce Leadership

Book Description

Standing in the Fire offers a set of self-directed principles and practices that enable facilitators to work on themselves—to keep their emotional balance no matter how overheated things threaten to become.  It brings together profound teachings from diverse fields, including western psychology, eastern spiritual practices, the arts, social sciences and medical research.   Dressler’s grounded, empathetic approach helps readers reawaken and discover an untapped capacity that comes from within and is expressed as a powerful presence standing in service to a group.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers; 1 edition (March 15, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1576759709
  • ISBN-13: 978-1576759707
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.9 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #514,374 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Larry Dressler has dedicated most of his life to understanding how people work out their differences, discover common ground, and mobilize collective action. As a young boy he attended schools where bullying, gang conflict, and violence were everyday occurrences. From an early age he learned to navigate the hallways and the larger world by deciphering subtle social dynamics and building resilient relationships. Over the years a central questions emerged for Larry: What are the human qualities that enable one to bring peace, clarity, and hopefulness into situations that are filled with conflict, confusion, and despair?

Larry continues to embrace this question as a widely recognized organizational development consultant and process facilitator. He has consulted with hundreds of organizations, including Cisco Systems, Pediatric AIDS Foundation, Baxter Healthcare, New Belgium Brewing, Starbucks, Nissan Motors, and 1% for the Planet. His extraordinary skill and presence as a "gentle instigator of breakthrough conversations" have brought him to such diverse settings as the headquarters of companies in 30 industries, a circus school in Colorado, and a solar-powered chocolate factory in the Amazon rainforest.

Today Larry spends his time helping leaders convene "think tanks" and "action learning experiences" aimed at fostering a more just society, restoring the natural environment, and creating a vibrant economy. He also delivers keynotes and leadership development seminars all over the world on Standing in the Fire™ and Fierce Conversations™.

 

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Authenticity abounds, March 1, 2010
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Drew Kugler (los angeles, ca) - See all my reviews
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"Five stars? Really? But, Drew, you know Larry. You've worked with Larry for years. You've shared facilitation and coaching clients. Of course you'll give him five stars." That would be a reasonable concern, but let me tell you why this book deserves the best rating it can get. First, the advice just flat out works. Dealing with groups and people as Larry guides is the only way that makes for sustainable learning and change. Anything short of tending the fire will eventually disappoint and disengage others. Indeed, I have had the chance to see Larry do this, and applied it back to what I do. It makes a genuine difference.

Second, Larry has somehow managed to go from his brain and his heart and end up squarely on the written page. If you've ever met him or heard him, you will be struck by how much the book sounds and feels like a conversation with him. Given the stilted and disconnected tones you find from so many writers, I admire the work that Larry has done here to authentically bring himself to the reader. I'm sure you will not miss the irony that that is the same challenge he engages us on to bring to our work. Here he has done it beautifully.

That is why it's a five-star book.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Deserves a broad audience, March 14, 2010
This review is from: Standing in the Fire: Leading High-Heat Meetings with Clarity, Calm, and Courage (Paperback)
The rich examples Larry uses to illustrate his ideas are clearly based on thoughtful experience in organizational leadership. But I couldn't help thinking about other areas of life experiences where a fire-tending approach could be applied with positive effect. The techniques described in this book provide tools equally well suited for being present and open in the heat of our social and family encounters, or in the cultivation of our passions. (I found the recommendations for acknowledging and adjusting to triggers very relevant to music practice.) This book manages to describe tools and techniques to support formal leadership in a manner that points to a way of being in the world, and deserves a wide audience beyond professional facilitators.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Group Fire as a Transformative Force, March 9, 2010
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Standing in the Fire addresses an issue all too familiar to those of us in the profession of facilitating high stakes conversations. Group fire - when intense emotion surfaces within a group - is a frightening force that has left all of us seared at one point or another in our lives. In his book, Dressler invites us to reimagine group fire as a potential force for group transformation, arguing that it is the absence of group fire that almost always means apathy, suppression, and nonengagement. By equipping readers with techniques to maintain poise and authenticity in the face of group fire, Dressler equips us to avoid being burned and to channel the high emotions of the group in service of the group's transformation.
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